How do I know if I am a good girlfriend? How do I know if my boyfriend is happy? More than anything I want him to be happy with me. I cannot shake the feeling that there is something about me me which makes me incapable of truly loving another person. Sometimes I think misogynists are right and that it's just "women." I'm not sure I am capable of love. I've simply never felt at home around another person, I would almost always rather be alone. I really want to love him completely. I just don't know what to say, i don't know how to BE loving. I don't know how to tell if I am doing any of this right. I already feel like I'm boring him. I'm afraid I'm one of those people who has no hobbies, no strong feelings about anything, no passion, no zest. I just want to lie in bed by myself. Even typing this out I feel so dumb. What would you want from your girlfriend? What would make you want to marry her? I don't know what is wrong with me. I don't know if I love him but I really want to. I want to love him wholly. I want to give him everything he needs.
>>84351059http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yy5cKX4jBkQ
>i want him to be happy with me>i want to love him completely>i don't feel at home around [him]>i want to lie in bed by myself>i don't know if i love himright. wait another couple months and this will have passed.
>>84351059k... horse
>>84351059Ask your bf?This is something you should talk to him about. Ask him what his ideal woman would do/say/respond and then do those things. Trust him unless you have evidence for a different opinion which you can present. He may change his mind but be teachable, willing to change your mind or agree to disagree.Search up on how to run a healthy relationship in psychology articles and then show him them and ask if he would like you to do those things. That shows you're both invested in improving the relationship and also gives him a chance to tell you what he thinks before you expend the effort implementing the advice.Think about things you can do or give him that makes his life easier. Comfort him when he fucks up, always be honest and stay loyal. Also praise and compliment him when he does well. If you have a criticism try and present it pleasantly in the way a loving gentle mother or teacher might to their kid instead of whining or shouting like most women. Eg ask how he feels, validate his emotion, explain your emotions then you can ask for or suggest solutions/negotiate solutions.Ask about and engage in his fetishes if you can. And try to avoid turning down sex unless you mustIf he's autistic or ADHD look up specific things you can do to communicate well with those sort of people. Be clear in your communication and if you're wrong or confused admit it. Don't hide feelings.Also some people are just built to be loners, nothing wrong with that. Psychologists call it schizoid person ality disorder Try and find something to do on your own like a hobby that isn't centered around your bf so you have a sense of self and something to talk to him about.
>>84351059Read all of 1 Corinthians in the bible it tells people how to show love to their spouses also Proverbs 31:10-31 which is specific to womenAlso yes you're right, most women are insufferable unmarriageable gold digging whores who refuse to accept any wrongdoing and cannot have a civil discussion. There are a small amount who are not but most are already married.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YnDsA-yE-oA
I just had a very deep day with my boyfriend yesterday. I think I am the right person to reply to you right now. I echo some many of your concerns in my head all the time. At the end of the day you really just need to trust. He trusts you. Everyday he chooses you and trusts you to be faithful and his girlfriend. You on unironically need to stop fretting so much and just focus on having good times and getting to know him better. The more you get inside your own head, the more your life and relationship will pass you by. Good luck honey
>>84351059love is workwhat's his sign?https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvugXMS-USS3wQs14bCSaonL0hpT0PA-u
The ideal GF keeps a man's balls empty and his belly full. Also, no sane man would get married in this cucked day and age.I have no reason to stray if I got lots of sex and servicing, and never needed to do outdoor bullshit. Men usually love simplicity, and sex.
>>84351059Yep all women are covert narcissists except for the few overt ones. But all narcissists nonetheless
>>84351197Rare wholesome post. I'm not OP but good luck to you and your boyfriend too.
