What makes you feel alone even in a relationship? What do you think everyone else is missing and can't fill that gap

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>>84357147
please dont lose hope of truly connecting with someone
youll find your soul mate one day

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>>84357147
>nobody sees me
>i might as well be a shell
i see ur post and that you posted koharu who keeps a snail charm with her and snails live in shells

its a lonely world though. i know how you feel.

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>>84357163
if they don't see me or even understand my words then we are just playing at dating without any meaningful connection
i don't expect it to be easy or effortless but i don't think most people even try
it's just utilitarian
trying to open up w
to someone and watching your feelings be completely ignored or not even noticed if more alienating and loney than locking them inside
i only want them to reciprocate but i don't think they have the same sentiment to even share

>>84357217
Communication is easy but it does require effort. If someone doesn't want to meet you half way, long term, consistently, then you know they are checked out. But if it's a recent thing, and it's degraded from what it used to be, then you can still turn it around. It's hard, like you said, but it requires everybody to try. What you said about opening up and being ignored though.. is very alienating. Have you expressed this to your person?

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at some point u gotta make room in ur heart for someone who can connect with u. being lonely in a relationship is worse than being alone.

Erm, have you tried just not being a femcel?

Despite how broken I was I tried reaching out to people and they turned me away and went out of their way to hurt me and never ever took responsibility!
But they never cared about me in the slightest and they made it very clear, it's been made so clear that I'm completely hated and unwanted by everyone to the point where I have no other option to be the asshole everyone seems to want to make me out to be.
I never mattered to anyone and I still don't. Maybe get over yourself.

>>84357363
making someone else's struggle about themselves. yep. foid hands typed this post.

I'm not going to tell you how to tie a noose. Google it.

>>84357147
A lot of this sounds like things I relate to but realistically you are an autist with no shared interests beyond a vague interest in cute anime girls so even if we were to interact there would be no effort made to properly engage.

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>>84357147
Same lol, no one's really attracted to me or really connects with me, and in the few times they do I end up fucking it up, I think I was meant to be alone.

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>>84357435
too slow i made the first whimsy post with an anime image their hand is now mine to hold !!

>>84357147
>there was only one time i ever truly felt connected to someone but they changed so much since then anyway
Are you sure it wasn't you that changed?

>>84357435
Most people don't have some huhe interest in something and you don't need that for a successful relationship.

>>84358462
I can't imagine wanting to spend time with someone who doesn't share at least some interests with me. I legitimately do not comprehend those couples who have absolutely nothing in common. They just kiss and cuddle and fuck while otherwise being aliens to one another.

>>84358462
Successful, no, fulfilling, yes. As >>84358593 said it just turns into 2 roommates that fuck sometimes at best. If you actually love someone you'll wanna do shit you otherwise wouldn't just cause it's with them, but that level of connection isn't coming from someone with 0 overlap to begin with - cause on top of liking the same things, being able to appreciate them in similar ways is the clearest way to know they're on the same wavelength and to feel like you 'get' each other.

>>84357147
>>84358107
This anon has a good point. Are you sure you didn't change too in some way? Have you both drifted apart? Can you drift together again? Nobody is static