I am approaching 25 years of age. And I am worried about wasting time. I am a failure in every aspect of my life. I am a khhv, ofc. I fail at the new things I try, like piano or guitar. I will be 30 by the time I am able to play interesting stuff. I have no money. I haven't traveled to the olaces I would like to visit. I just... haven't done anything. And I wasted time. I wasted my youth. I just have nothing. My next steps are finishing my degree and going into the office job/career where I will spend the rest of my life. So much wasted time. Catching up takes so much time. And it just feels like a waste of effort and time, I'm a failure, all I do is fail.Fuck. That's so depressing. What the fuck have I done with my life? Nothing. Being a khhv is horrible because all I want is a wife who I can make happy.
>>84383875Your are dead. Your next task is to be reborn
>>84383875>I will be 30 by the time I am able to play interesting stuff.Is that bad?
>>84383883I am just hopeless about the future or anything I ever do.
>>84383895You deadNow be reborn
>>84383892>Is that bad?Idk, I feel like at that age most people either have a career in music or don't have time for it. I will keep going, it just feels a bit useless or boring at 30.
u just gotta accept that it's over, stop giving a gaf, and begin doing whatever the fuck u wanna do
>>84383898>Now be rebornI know what you're saying and all, but idk, feels like I have no potential anymore, that's why it feels like death. Maybe I should just kms.
>>84383915>stop giving a gaf, and begin doing whatever the fuck u wanna doIf you didn't give a fuck about anything, you wouldn't do anything.
>>84383906I mean if you aren't looking for a career in music, don't worry yourself too much about how long it takes. You're doing it out of fun or just an interest so its fine. The only exception is if you want to be good at something by a specific time because of a plan you made or something.
>>84383875You sound horribly stupid. You're not getting a degree your tard handlers are giving you a pen license.
>>84383929It's embarrassing to talk to anyone about it since most people are already advanced or expect you to be at this age. It's lonely. But yeah, it's something to do, I don't do anything else and I'm lonely anyways, so it's either this or sleeping away the hours.
>>84383940Sure. But you don't have to be smart to get a degree. Don't know what drove you to say this anyway. Thx for the bump.
>>84383957>Don't know what drove you to say this anyway.Your stupidity
>>84383961Okay. Why do you think that about me?
>>84383984You think you could make someone else happy yet you don't know how to do anything yourself. You'd rather complain than take action.
>>84384004>You think you could make someone else happyI never said this. I said I WANTED to make someone else happy. And I know how to take care of myself. I have a job, I shower, I am healthy, I take care of my pets. Etc. None of that really matters though. I find it odd that you interpreted it that way. I think it's pretty obvious given the context of feeling hopeless + being behind in life that I understand and even fear that nobody wants someone like me. And that's why I feel hopeless, that's what feeds the cycle. >do something!Okay, to save up enough money to go anywhere interesting, it would take me at least a year. Assuming this pauses my career, this would make it so I end up being a 27yo with no experience just starting in the job market, pretty bad prospects. >learn the instrument I am. >side hustle! Harder to do. This could be a better way of saving money, but not that many work, idk. I have no interest or hope in the things I do. I do them because I have to. What action do you think I should take? I am admittedly scared of normie scenarios like going to a bar or a party and trying to hook up or something, I don't want a hookup anyway. What can I do that isn't lonely?
>>84384055Maybe I should get a car.
>>84383875>"I fail at the new things I try, like piano or guitar. I will be 30 by the time I am able to play interesting stuff."You're gonna be 30 in 5 years anyway. That fact won't change, trying new things or not. So, tell me OP: Do you want to be a 30 year old who can play an instrument or a 30 year old who can't?
>>84384281Yeah, that is very fair. I will keep that going.
>>84383918Sounds like you don't know why you died
Start cold approaching women.
May I give you wisdom from unc>Be 30>Three years ago life completely fell apart>Unemployed>Broke>Mentally ill>Unironically dealing with a stalker (not a schizo gang stalker situation -- this is an actual person hunting meYou know what?It sucks a LOT. but every fucking day I wake up and I fight against the absurd universe again. It's kind of empowering to know how little I matter to the world/society at large -- because it makes me feel stubborn, and want to prove the world wrong about me. If I have hope at my age, you can have hope
>>84385642kinda had a stalker situation myself once, i feel for you anon, sending love. i know its really stressful.
>>84383875>I will be 30 by the time I am ableShit. I'm 37 this year, started guitar 6 months ago and am currently trying to get the Behelit theme down. I haven't actually learnt any song because I keep cycling between stuff that's too advanced (Dazed & Confused for eg.)
>>84383875>I am approaching 25 years of age. And I am worried about wasting time. I am a failure in every aspect of my life.You are having a quarter life crisis. It's actually normal.>I am a khhv, ofcI don't know WTF this means. .I looked it up and it means kissless no contact incel dude. There is time but I'm not gonna talk down to you cause I lost my virginity by 14>I fail at the new things I try, like piano or guitar. I will be 30 by the time I am able to play interesting stuff.Ummmm yeah, you just started them you have to keep doing them. If you are a slow learner just invest more time and practice, but be sure you are practicing the right things.>I have no money.Ummm yeah, you're 25. >I haven't traveled to the olaces I would like to visit.Ummm yeah, most Americans don't even have a passport. I've only been to mexico and only the part that didn't need a passport before passports were needed to even visit Juarez. Everywhere else I've been is in the US. Research cool stuff around you. You'll be surprised what exists.>I just... haven't done anything. And I wasted time. I wasted my youthYeah, thats what youth is for. I feel the same cause instead of improving myself I was chasing girls and hanging with friends.>I just have nothing. My next steps are finishing my degree and going into the office job/career where I will spend the rest of my life.Got some bad news, unless you went STEM your degree was probably a waste of time. However it can be used to move up in a corporations so don't feel too bad. I have a degree, it was worthless. I ended up in trades. Now I have a career.>So much wasted time. Catching up takes so much time. And it just feels like a waste of effort and time, I'm a failure, all I do is fail.what you are gonna learn is all the people who told you how to move ahead in life were retards who just wanna shift blame on you for failing.Then you start learning what really works and how life really works.
>>84386887The woke left is attacking his hairline His hairline is under attack
>>84383875If you want actual help fixing your life, fix the following things>Dietyou have to find a way of eating that works for you and actually leaves you in a decent move that cuts out Processed slop. I don't have a singular answer, everyone is different. For me it was low carb, for others it's different.>ExerciseDon't do it for looks or you will give up in a month. Do it for strength and endurance and meet strength and endurance goals to not be weak. Your attitude changes when you don't feel threatened by anything and can lift heavy things others can't>Find work that takes care of your needs even if its not the glorious "white collar work" you are told you need.I went into trades in a union because it was paying more, I learned I am happier working with my hands than getting yelled at and blamed for everything in an office. You will be happier. Other work is out there. They will train you.>WomenWanna know how to flip your image? Don't talk about relationships and focus on making friends first so you can learn to talk to women first. You are behind the curve here.Next, if it is brought up you are a virgin spin it as you are disgusted with everyone acting like diseased degenerate whores (men and women) you aren't waiting for marraige but want to lose your virginity to a girl that will not talk shit about you behind your back and you can actually trust. Claim mild religious conviction. Not that you are super devoted but you see a logic and reason and agree with it.>Why do thisBecause it creates an aura of mystery and removes the stench of desperation. A guy desperate to have sex with anyone is a loser. A guy who won't just fuck anyone and wants a meaningful connection but can't find it and calls out the obvious societal ill no one can deny is a challenge. Only one problem. Can't drunkenly fuck the first give who offers. You gotta lose virginity to a girl you are dating exclusively.
>>84383875By all means, keep crying and whining. That's how you waste your entire life. So if you want to do that, keep being a little bitch.
