since we use 4chan i think its safe to say we're outcasts and losers. how do you cope knowing people are making more money that you or more successful? that theyll have experiences we are not allowed due to normies restricting our happiness?
>>84384043> how do you cope knowing people are making more money that you or more successful? that theyll have experiences we are not allowed due to normies restricting our happiness?I eat a lot but mostly due to my own traumas. I also don't think about it too much because those people and I were never on the same plane of existence anyway, but I do wish my life was better and that I at least had someone to be with
>>84384043You don't. You just distract yourself so you dont have time to think about the dread of reality.
>>84384043i always have told myself I could change things around and I keep thinking that I can, but its just a cope
>>84384052>were never on the same plane of existence anywaythats a fair description. out of our league i guess>>84384053i suppose thats why i play so much video games>>84384059that was me when i was younger but now that im an adult ive having to accept that im just not enough
>>84384043I'm a loser from a family of losers have always been a loser and considered a loser. I dunno, I'm trying my best I guess but I have to accept the fact that no one cares, no one has ever cared and no one will ever care.
>>84384097i don't know I think I can get a job and get the cosmetic surgery i need to ascend. if only i could hold a job. i'm working on it
>>84384043I'm not a loser, just a robot because foid hypergamy is insane
As for the last question, I cope by playing video games >>84384138Isn't that just being incel? As far as I understand it, robots are losers.
I don't. I'm the only jobless guy among all my high school ex-classmates, it seems, or at least the ones I care about. Some of them are pretty successful and went abroad.I was e-stalking their social media today after a long time, looking into how much one of them might earn, right before opening this thread (six figures a year at Brisbane).
>>84384162>I was e-stalking their social media todayThis is why you're a loser, make better use of your time. What is looking at others lives who put an effort into accomplishing something going to do for you?
what does being a "loser" even meani have bitcoin money, but everyone seems to hate me, especially womenI am a loser the same way a burn victim is a loser since I had almost zero social development as a kid and now as an adult have zero social skills, no one gave a shit about me then and they certainly don't now
>>84384173use the bitcoin money to develop yourself
>>84384169I just missed them. I was reflecting on a lot while looking at how they are today, why my friendship with those people didn't last more than a few years post high school and it just spiralled from there into other issues, like my social inadequacies, shortcomings, etc.
most people are genuinely awful and theyre all pretending to be in love and pretending to be friends. its all make believe. vast majority of relationships do not last and eventually their friend will fuck them over in some way. having love and friends is a fairy tale in this world. theyre all miserable inside and they take handfuls of pills ever day to cope
>>84384190this, i tried my hardest to be a normie and they are deeply miserable, hateful people. all they tried to do was harm me because they knew i wasn't like them and it's all that makes them feel good is dragging someone else below them, down even further
>>84384187if I wave my money around people will just fake liking me and I will only relearn that n*rmies are terrible peopleif I don't no one wants anything to do with meI have no real options to learn now except my own meme research, it is like trying to learn to play the piano watching YT clips and reading about it
>>84384242and thats the problem with social skills that no one ever thinks about. you have people saying improve your social skills but that means nothing because most people dont want to interact with someone who has bad social skills. there is literally nowhere to go for this. an instrument you want to practice wont ignore you and walk away, people will
>>84384242uh i didn't say spend it on people. i said use it to develop yourself and you're bringing up other people
>>84384043I was always a loser throughout Middle School and High school. And then after graduating high school I did trade school and I tried to hang out with a couple of cool guys, but then it turns out they were pretty much Beavis and butthead. Except not nearly as dumb. So I kind of gravitated away from that and just kind of became my own person. And then I've had jobs and was just kind of my own person, off by myself doing my own thing. And then I joined the Navy and it was yet another chance to Rebrand myself, and I was some sort of enigma. I was kind of a loser but I was the smartest guy in the division so I ended up in charge of it all. And then when I got out I was my own person for quite some time and then just this semester I went back to school and it's funny because my peers are really the teachers because now I'm nearly 40 years old. And I'm getting this very passive aggressive type of ostracization. One guy I'm trying to tell things to and it's an important thing and then all the sudden it says if he has ADHD and decides to go pay attention to something else and it's like, I need to finish my thought here, because it's an important thing. Like, important for school. And I thought maybe his attention was just distracted and it didn't mean anything but it happened again and again and again over this whole semester. We go for an outing, and you make some mark about my setup that it was nice, and then I'm like, yeah and the important thing to remember is with this mode you end up getting two instead of one. Because of.... he immediately looks to someone else and says something and I'm just like, what the how was that? I don't understand.
>>84384043chillin with my granny
>>84384103genetically a loser is never something i considered but makes sense when i look back on my own family>>84384123cosmetic surgery wont fuck like being genetically a loser though soul wise. not trying to be dick, just trying to warn you. best of luck on the job though>>84384138that would by definition make you a loser>>84384162that sucks im sorry anon. i personally dont contact people from my past like high school>>84384173you can google the definition. by bitcoin money do you mean like actual hundreds of thousands or some mcdonalds worker that gets rug pulled weekly? >>84384190this is extremely accurate from my repeated personal experiences as well. theres only a few things id like to do in my life on paper but when i consider how terrible people are it doesnt seem worth trying. its like dating it sounds nice on paper until she cheats or starts bitching and then its like yea getting your dick wet for this isnt worth it.>>84384208ive been able to sneak into the normie group social ring a couple of times with a lot of work and its honestly so fucking miserable that i actually hate it and leave. i dont know how they do it nonstop.
>>84384276being the loser thats in charge of everything due to smarts sounds nice but is a lot of work from what ive learned. as for the dickhead during your semesters yea some people just intentionally are rude and do shit like that. i have a coworker that is intentionally difficult to work with even though we have to group together to complete specific tasks for our company and they just go out of their way to be hard to work with and ive been told she just doesnt like me so she makes our jobs worse on purpose. but shes a woman so im not surprised.
>>84384748The thing that gets me is that I haven't been needy or annoying or 100 other things that make someone stick out like a sore thumb, or the weirdo. I'm none of these things. And in my view, I am a puppy and they kicked me. They kicked a puppy.
>>84385039I imagine it like trying to make small talk with AI. It's doing everything objectively correct but it's just like so matter of fact and dry that it's not engaging that they can't find interest in continuing since they're brainless morons.
>>84384043theres no real cope that exists, best you can do is drugs or distract yourself with anime or vidya to the point you're not thinking about it. but everytime my mind settles down it will go back to the fact Im a fucking loser who will never make decent money, own a house or have a family. there is no such thing as a good day in my life at this point, everyday is some varying amount of miserable. I stopped doing drugs for health reasons but im going back soon because its much easier just drowning your brain in dopamine and who cares if i die at this point, my life is fucking worthless anyway.
