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Why is it so hard be be "friends" with women?
I mean basic interactions like shooting the shit about random things. Most women I talk to only care about gossip or what they want to shop for. When ever I try to have a conversation it always gets awkward because I can't seem to relate to them or their problems.
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>>84388342
I've literally never talked to a femoid about gossip or what to shop for. I feel like that's a stereotype. Definitely rooted in reality but I'm not sure how true it is overall

Though talking to foids is a headache because they know they have the power because they're a foid and you're not gigachad, so they will talk about themselves endlessly and if you talk about yourself you'll get a short answer and back to her
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>>84388342
>stacy only cares about le shopping and gossip
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>>84388342
>When ever I try to have a conversation it always gets awkward because I can't seem to relate to them or their problems.
This is how I feel when I talk to other straight men (as an autistic straight men). I have a much easier and fun time talking to women because we aren't trying to /relate/ because we both know we're different and there's no judgment. Men are more likely to mock me and call me a weirdo when they find out I'm NEET and don't enjoy normie guy activities.
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>>84388358
a conversation is a change of ideas and experience and you are not the all mighty messiah for women to constantly beg for breadcrumbs of your internal world
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>>84388910
Ok foid
Just keep telling me about shit idgaf about but will pretend to for the sake of keeping my pussy source
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it's very easy to be friends with women. I've never had a friend group as an adult without women.
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>>84388342
It's the women you're talking to. I can complain about women as much as the next guy but you can definitely shoot the shit with plenty of females out there you're just trying with the wrong crowd wrong audience. Try going for more "dude bro!" girls instead of whatever you're trying with.
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>>84388928
you fool no one pelotudo, some women are simply loose
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>>84388342
You don't need to have common interests with someone to be friends with them. All you need is to be attentive and pretend like you care. The same goes with actual relationships, you don't need the person to share every single one of your interests.
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/OLdq-vHzTOE
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>>84388342
women don't actually want male friends. they want simps (resources) and chads (dominant sex and high genetic value for potential children, even though they're on birth control and will abort if they get pregnant)

if you try to be friends with a girl and she doesn't want to fuck you, she'll expect you to simp and provide resources or be an emotional tampon, so if you want a reciprocal true friendship instead of simping she'll ghost you.

if you try to be friends with a girl who wants to fuck you but you don't find her attractive, likewise she'll ghost you.
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>>84388342
>only care about gossip
Female brains are naturally wired to focus primarily on people as the childbearers and surviving as the weaker sex. That's why men are the real engineers and builders because we can focus only on things and tools without making it about people. That's why even with music and movies women will obsess over the artists and actors that make it instead of just focusing on the content and story like men do. They're programmed to be all about social dynamics and social politics thats why they default to gossip talking about other people. Also why they love being social justice warriors and activists so much it comes natural to their thought process to make everything about the people involved and their own feelings about it. Female peer competition is also all about reputation and sabotage which again makes it all about people, perception and gossip. Once you see it you'll understand how simple minded and one tracked they really are.
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>>84388358
Every time talk to a girl its, what someone else said, their boyfriend, kids, family or needing to buy something for their house,car, food.
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>>84388342
Lol that's why I don't even bother being friends with females aka foids anymore. Every time I get friendzone and I tried being genuine friends from them, I'm the one who gets ghosted I followed while I follow them and it's a repeating cycle.
So other women online tell me that being friends with women even in the friendzoned is good for me meanwhile every single girl literally just sees me as some other outsider instead of a friend.
We allow women to live it more easier than men and they're still out here bitching saying why are their men not wanting to be friends with the opposite gender? I wonder why ?
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>>84388342
Even platonically, women will hate you if you aren't chad.
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>>84388342
Women are the sidekicks of genders. they are looking for someone to leech off. you being there just makes it awkward
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>>84388342
>their problems.
Because that's all they want to talk about. When was the last time you and your male friends bitched about some shit no one cared about? Probably not often, because you all understand no one wants to listen to a grown adult complain. The only place it makes sense to have female friends is at work, at the very least you can get some entertainment from talking shit about some coworker you both don't like.
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>>84388342
>Why is it so hard be be "friends" with women? I mean basic interactions like shooting the shit about random things.
Its not that hard. It really just depends on the people you surround yourself with.
>Most women I talk to only care about gossip or what they want to shop for.
Stop hanging around with actual cattle
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Man can be friends with man, for man is like man.
Man can have dog for companion, because man and dog happy together. Man can not talk to dog though.
Man can have woman as wife, but not friend, because man mistake woman noise as man talk. Little different than parrot. Parrot make human noise without understanding. Woman understand some words but not all. Loyalty, love, honor, accountability, responsibility, blame, fault? Laughter.

Shapes in cloud not real no matter how close they look. Be not tricked by looks, fellow man.
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>>84389649
>wimmins arent as kewl or real as men
never get married retard. you are better off staying on grindr where you belong. your kids are doomed
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>>84389764
did anyone else just hear something that sounded like fleshy curtains flapping in the breeze?



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