If I've only let a man finger me and never had a penis in me am I still considered a virgin? I want to die a virgin. Am i on the right track or did I fuck up
>>84422116>If I've only let a man finger meThat's really gay. OP is a faggot
>>84422116by my own consideration as a random anon, no. But I'm sure a bunch of religions would say you aren't
>>84422122Im not gay Im just a pathetic woman
>>84422116Nona we should nun maxxx
>>84422151YES. Lets do it anon. We will ascend
>>84422158Im not chrsitian bud holy fuck the orthodox church speaks to me. I have been contemplating visiting one. Why do they look so esoteric? Its so weird because I have been muslim for all my life but I have been thinking about orthodoxy for years. (Sorry if this details your OP nona i just wanted to talk about this)
>>84422116If you wash for a week straight, ill stick my penis in you, if you catch my drift
>>84422174I dont care much for religion but That church looks gorgeous. I can understand your appeal to them. Can muslims change religions? Would they be accepted?
>>84422116Eh, you're borderline a virgin. Like fingering isnt actual full blown body to body intercourse. It was still a sexual act, like a girl only gave me head and I only came from that but we never did anything else then I wouldn't have penetrated a vagina but I still would have done something more than absolutely nothing
>>84422188Do i. Have to shave ? Having sex seems so exhausting . I have to shave
>>84422202You don't have to shave, maybe trim it but if the dude is into bushes and a lot of hair then no. I like to shave my dick because I don't like the thought of a woman getting pricked by pubes or sucking on coarse pubic hair. I prefer to have it all shaved or very very trimmed. I dont mind pussy hair if it isnt obscene. I like stubble but thats just me
>>84422116Spiritually no but its considered as virgin as a Christian girl doing anal only so.
>>84422195No its not allowed to change religion, but I live in the west so the consequences are isolated to family shaming and being excluded by my community. In a mousl country I would be dead. My desire for orthodoxy isnt even logical its just very attractive and mysterious wheras I have grown to find islam a bit tedious and monotonous.
So im still considered a virgin. That comforts me. I'll stop fixating on sex and get a personality or something. Thanks guys
>>84422202Yeh, nobody wants a mouthful of hair men or women. Sex is good/healthy and worth the effort, get off this board>>84422213Wrote book about maybe
>>84422116No you are not a virgin. You had someone else pleasure your genitals.Why do you think you fucked up? Was it not on purpose? Why not stay with the guy that fingered you?
>>84422262That guy who fingered me was a middle aged man . I was 23 and he was 42. I am 25 now and he ended up stalking me for 2 yrs. I have always been very sheltered so I thought we could be friends, but things got out of hand. He was the first and last man to touch me. I dont really want to go through sex stuff anymore. I dont have the motivation to keep up a connection like that with anyone. I want to die a virgin I think
>>84422116I'd say any type of physical contact involving genitals with the purpose of pleasuring or getting off is sex. You are not a virgin ans it's clear to me when you've had someone else's body inside of your own vagina. Piv is not the only way of losing virginity if that was the case gay men and lesbians would be pure virgins.
>>84422294Sorry to hear. Sounds creepy and wrong.But you should be content with not dying virgin then. If you are religious and it was consensual I think you should repent if you care about that stuff. Idk since I don't know why you wanted to die as virgin.
>>84422116no p in v = virgin. but it's disingenuous to say you are one without disclosing it
>>84422326>no p in v = virginThen gay men that only fuck other men in the ass are pure virgins or what? Your logic is completely retarded.
>>84422174It is well worth it, anon. Just go to one of the evening services and see. >t. Recently baptized into the Orthodox Church.
>>84422335Obviously he's only talking about straight people you dolt
>>84422315Lol i just like to say Im gonna die a virgin. It gives me swag
>>84422294Nah bruh you is 25 and aint had sex yet nah bruh you lying you is a woman and can get dick any day of the week bruh real talk you is playing
>>84422341Woah, what inspired you? I want to buy a study bible, see what its about.
>>84422345Why does it matter straight or gay? Sex can be something other than just piv.
>>84422391>I want to buy a study bible, see what its about.It's all a bunch of Jews getting up to their Jewish tricks in the desert. Highly overrated
>>84422359Are you perhaps an individual of darker skin pigmentation?But yeah . My lack of dick interaction as a woman makes me special. Quirky. I will die a virgin
>>84422116ill put it this way. Id rather marry a woman who got finger fucked by 100 men than a woman who had sex with more than 3 guys
>>84422391I read "The Sayings of the Desert Fathers" translated by Benedicta Ward, and became almost infatuated with the saints described in that book, particularly St. Anthony the Great.If you want to start reading the Bible definitely start with the four gospels, and more specifically the gospel according to St. John.Honestly, actually going to the church services and spending time there will be 90% of what you need to learn about the faith. The other 10% is just trying your best to follow the commandments of Christ.
>>84422479How did you discover orthodoxy however? I am definitely checking out that book thank you anon. I have been thinking about visiting a Russian orthodox church 2 hours away, they are open on Wednesdays. Im a little scared however, ill look incredibly out of place. But I really want to see and visit. I like to listen to hymns, especially arabic ones, though I also like Russian ones. I remember finding an icon and a vinyl of an orthodox sermon at work and wanting to bring it home, but I didnt out of fear that my parents would find it
>>84422572>How did you discover orthodoxy however?Honestly, I pretty much completely forget how. I may have looked into some more books after that and one of them happened to specifically be about Orthodoxy. >been thinking about visiting a Russian orthodox churchIf you have a good way to get there, go for it. >ill look incredibly out of placeThats okay. As long as you don't try to draw attention to yourself, you'll be fine. The first year I started attending an Orthodox Church, I would just stand all the way in the back. If that is something you wish to do, you can. >I like to listen to hymns, especially arabic ones, though I also like Russian onesDo you have any favorites? I like this one https://youtu.be/Rkv5C-RRtpg?si=JqC14yOnbXvWGlaA>I remember finding an icon and a vinyl of an orthodox sermon at work and wanting to bring it home, but I didnt out of fear that my parents would find itWhat do you think would happen if they found out about your interest in Orthodoxy?
>>84422116Did he break your butthole hymen?
>>84422137>a womanYour biology and your Twitter bio are incongruent
>>84422222How quints can go unchecked so long is beyond me. CHECKED!!!
>>84422716>If you have a good way to get there, go for it.Oh you bet i will. I have to find time to. >Thats okay. As long as you don't try to draw attention to yourself, you'll be fine. Im gonna try my best. I think the church is pretty small, and I really hope its vacant when I visit so that I'm not as scared.>Do you have any favorites? I like this oneYeah. Here are some>https://youtu.be/UUcd1qmOkI8?si=D3X3uQ04BWBCmU1f>https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=26DWj0M72u0&si=gNY-6AL-AqtAVLiy>https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=7GKOfjG4tsg&si=0IUp1VWsnCydBj4N>What do you think would happen if they found out about your interest in Orthodoxy?They would hate me. Disown me even. They would genuinely mourn it like I have died. I come from a very strict household and I grew up muslim all my life. I have very strong inclination towards being religious so I became very religious at like 15. But ever since I was 17 I have kept thinking about christianity, orthodoxy, but i practiced islam heavily back then so i just repelled those thoughts. I havent practiced islam in a while but I keep thinking about orthodoxy and honestly I may check it out seriously.
>>84422874I may be overstepping here a bit, as I am not a priest, but in your case, try to learn more about the Orthodox faith with all your heart, while still being faithful to your parents. Read the story of St. Brigid of Kildare, whose icon I posted. She lived part of her life as a Christian while living in a pagan household.I have to leave now, but if you want to leave your name (real or fake), I'll keep pray for you, that you may receive good will and clarity as you discern your next steps. And feel free to add me on discord if you want to know more, my username is Grikin.
>>84422991Yeah I have been planning to buy the orthodox study bible. Thank you anon I will read the story of st Brigid of Kildare. You can remember me by "Amira" i would really apreciate you praying for me. God bless you. Good bye anon. I will add you anon :) thanks lots and lots
>>84422991Oh just so you know my name is Rebirth on disc.
>>84422413And what if I were? Would it be an issue because your family doesn't approve? Because I would still love you and sex you hard. You have no idea what I'd do to you if you catch my drift
>>84422116>If I've only let a man finger me and never had a penis in me am I still considered a virgin?yeah
