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>incel tries to approach women in clubs and gets rejected
>tries to slid into DMs and gets ghosted
>self imrpoovement guru tells him to "stop chasing women and focus on himself"
>"dude just give up and focus on paying taxes"
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>>84429249

Guys need to stop approaching.
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>>84429249
>An even darker side of male chimpanzee behavior is that they occasionally murder members of other chimpanzee communities. Groups of males periodically go on aggressive raids into neighboring territories where they isolate individual males and then violently beat and bite them to death. Over time, these marauding gangs will kill all of the males in the targeted communities if they can. They also have been observed eating the infants there, but they usually leave their mothers alone. This behavior has been recorded at several locations in East Africa. The motivations of the killers is not entirely clear, but the net effect is to increase their territory and food resources and at the same time reduce competition for potential mates. This kind of murderous behavior is, of course, reminiscent of humans as well. There are many instances of it in our own history.
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>>84429266
>gigachad
>it's a pajeet
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>>84429249
>someone keeps attempting and fails every time
>gets told to give up
am I retarded or is it just common sense?what's this thread even about
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it's kind of like being fat
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>>84429505
You just need to change your approach.
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>>84429574
approach to what? this thread? what kind of approach?
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>>84429249
The idea that the incel is alone because he didn't "approach" is cope. MOST people in relationships didn't get into them because they approached a woman at a bar
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>>84429505
No one likes a quitter. Giving up means not helping to keep the species going, and on a more personal level, denies you one of your most basic, fundamental need for social approval and validation. My hand can pleasure me just fine, it's been doing so for 15 years. But it cant love me. It can't make me feel desired.

The problem is which guy is it truly over for, and which just aren't trying hard enough? Are sex havers born, or made? Should unc never approach any woman, ever, and just accept he'll die from loneliness induced suicide because he was born with shit genes? Or is it possible to get pussy with enough effort and/or luck? Because suicide is easy compared to the level of self improoovement you need to do. Nevermind the resentment that comes with knowing you had to destroy your body with steriods and surgery like Clavicular does in order to be worthy of putting your penis inside some random 5/10 woman. The resentment is there. Clav hates doing it. He hates what he has become
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>>84429249
Meanwhile my ex got with some freak with a massive chin at a club after me
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>>84429249
Blackpill strikes once again. It's not even funny how few accept it.
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>>84429975
People don't like losers either. No one gives a fuck about how hard you tried if you still suck.
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>>84430398
and thus we ask th same question crucial to the blackpill:

Are sex havers born, or made?

I'm demanding an answer. Don't you ignore me. Tell me right now how every woman's mind works in regards to physical attraction
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>>84430743
they're born. everyone is born, idiot
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>>84429266
>Gigachad
Nigga that's a pajeet, he looks like those instagram fags that try to sell you financial course while they film in rented cars.
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>>84430743
NTA but the (boring) answer is obviously it's a bit of both. Some people have a natural advantage but there are things you can do to improve your odds. The question is, "Is the effort required worth the realistic reward?" And then for some guys, another question would be, "Why should I have to put up with and help to perpetuate a system that is clearly unfair?". Honestly I don't have the answers.
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>>84430743
>Tell me right now how every woman's mind works
Badly.
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>>84429266
Dude should shave the beard most women are into the young boy look not the "masculine" look
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>>84431917
They are into the diamond cutting jawline which requires you to be clean shaven
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>>84430743
>Are sex havers born, or made?
Born. Or at least I believe that your basic instinctual drive cannot be changed.
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>>84432259
You can have a bit of stubble or a 5 oclock shadow but yes it's best to have a great jawline.
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>>84429509
>kind of like being fat
wdym?
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>>84429266
what weird body language, you can just tell this dude 100% said something really weird and out of pocket. zero charisma, all aggression.
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>>84429249
>"stop chasing women and focus on himself"
Pick up artists say that this will help though
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>>84432876
>Pick up artists
?
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>>84429266
She looks scared.

Why do men want to make women feel scared?
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>>84429975
>Clavicular

Peter Thiel's rent boy. Fr
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>>84429249
That's just how it goes. Some people are just too ugly and/or autistic to ever date, let alone marry. The best such people can do is focus on other aspects of their lives.
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>>84431917
this is a troon/faggot cope. Women like men, not faggots
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>>84429266
>hunched lean
>balding
this isn't chad
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>>84429266
It is pretty weird to approach random women in public yeah.
You have to find situations where women are also seeking partners, not just go after them willy nilly.
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>>84433417
They're always on the lookout for someone better than her bf, which she will always have. You aren't meeting a single girl outside irl.
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>>84433107
Yeah I definitely got the vibe she was scared in response to that weird lean but it was very subtle. Gosh, I probably have done this once without knowing it.
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>>84432869
You should stop eating.
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>>84433417
>You have to find situations where women are also seeking partners
Women aren't even looking at bars or clubs anymore kek.
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>>84429266
That's a skeet because this same whore on instagram makes a billion of these types of videos.
>LOOK AT THIS CREEPY GUY TALKING TO ME
Women love that shit.
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>>84433417
what situations are those? in my opinion i have never been part of such a situation.
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>>84433107
They look prettier with fear in their eyes
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>>84429249
I think all inceldom (and a lot of other mental illnesses) are heavily caused by an inability to see other people as equal to yourself.
Women are either goddesses that would never date an ugly incel like me, or they're dumb whores who are completely beneath me. They are never equal to me.

Our brains always come up with perfectly logical conclusions to the information we feed it. You have to be very conscious of the ideas you feed your brain daily. If you are feeding your brain the idea that women are always above or below you then it's no wonder that your brain does everything it can to sabotage every attempt you make to talk to them.

Once you realise that women are just as human as you are with the same human feelings, and probably see the world 80% the same way as you do it's not even difficult to talk to them or joke around with them.

There's also a heavy aspect of self-denial and inner conflict that incels have. If you hate "club sluts", hate drinking culture, hate loud music and hate clubbing then why are you at a club? Is it really a surprise you feel anxious and conflicted trying to approach women in a club when you hate everything about being there?

So this guy is right. Take a step back and evaluate your own mental state, look at all the ideas you keep feeding your brain, start listening to your own desires instead of forcing yourself into situations you hate.
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>>84434352
>I think all inceldom (and a lot of other mental illnesses) are heavily caused by an inability to see other people as equal to yourself.
>Women are either goddesses that would never date an ugly incel like me, or they're dumb whores who are completely beneath me. They are never equal to me.
It's also caused by repeated rejection. I have not had any success asking women out in real life, or on dating apps. Even though I'm fit, look average, dress nice, etc. I don't have any hangups or trauma.
I'm not angry at you, I'm just saying that your idea is flawed and not based on either statistics or logic.



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