isn't it funny how some of us are just not meant to ever experience such a normal, common thing as a romance during our lifetime? fuck, some people are horrible to others for decades and yet still get to experience it, even those who go on careless seem to be somehow able to live it at some point and yet we aren'tit sounds even more insane to me how some get to experience this more than once, like, how is that even possible? even teenage love that's probably the easiest one for a person to ever have we managed to fuck up
>>84433122We need to bring back buck breaking, it will save these types of men
>>84433122hit the gym, get a waiter job
these things are already decided by genetics and positive feedback loops you should have gotten in childhood you dumb blackpill normie
I've never been able to figure out how people end up in relations. As in, what sequence of steps I would need to take to get to that goal. Looking deep down within myself and then trying to imagine a scenario where someone else actually enjoys my company in a romantic context...it just doesn't compute, it seems like an alien concept, a fairy tale pipe dream. I've never been able to imagine myself in a romantic relationship.
>>84433156going gym would just end up attract superficial women (if any at all) though, wouldn't it? if someone likes me due to my appearance that's not actually love i believealso, why a waiter job specifically?>>84433172then why do i know people just as fucked as me who got it? explain it>>84433184exactly dude, i can't understand it at all, i genuinely do not understand how people even get to this point yknowi want to feel it too but i just don't seem to get it
>>84433213so you look good and know how to talk to people.you piss me off anon, go hang yourself.
>>84433213they weren't. you're not cognizant enough to understand seeing as you're suicidal over pussy
>>84433232Not OP but I've been working customer service jobs since 2012 and still can't hold a conversation
>>84433213Odd question but what was your parents realtionship like while you were growing up? Did they ever show affection towards each other? Or even if they split did they show romantic affection to anyone in front of you. Because throughout my entire chiildhood/formative years I can remember possibly 2 occasions total where my parents hugged (hugging only, no kissing) They never showed any romantic feelings towards each other that I know of, possibly even the opposite. Wondering if that's why I can't reconcile the fact that romance exists in my own mind.
>>84433235being suicidal over something everyone seems to understand how to get except you is totally understandable though
>>84433240>Did they ever show affection towards each other?is this how children learn? i never saw my parents kiss. sometimes hug though. whatever, i guess i'll add this to the list of things that are their fault. i can't believe my life.
>>84433240Adding to this, I remember going to sleep overs at my friends houses as a little kid and seeing their parents slobbering all over each other kissing and thinking it was really weird and not normal.
>romance is unimportant when you realize that every man has a kid who will need him as a father figure>yes, people are horrible>i lost my partner to adopt kids>get your goals straightened out & focus on ur kids
>>84433235what makes you say this? you're making no sense to me, also growing up i had people point and laugh at me for being short, skinny, unmasculine, socially weird, whatever you can think of, even got physically bullied over it a few times>>84433235I'm not suicidal over it, i just feel like i'm missing something essential and that i genuinely want to experience but am deprived of it for whatever reason there is>>84433240they're divorced but i never saw them show love towards each other growing up, they just kind of lived like housemates but didn't fight nor anything like it, just often had disagreements over unimportant stuff
>>84433235>what makes you say this? you're making no sense to me, also growing up i had people point and laugh at me for being short, skinny, unmasculine, socially weird, whatever you can think of, even got physically bullied over it a few timessorry, this was for this other anon >>84433232
>>84433255i've went through the same thing pretty much, whenever i saw friends' parents show affection towards each other i'd feel weird about it, even kind of uncomfortable even and honestly i sometimes still feel kinda like this, i feel like love or romance isn't necessarily all "touchy" but i want the feeling you get from it at the same time, like, the talks, doing things togetheri don't know how to explain it, it's so confusing
