According to this definition, yes, I am one... but the typical stereotype, as I understand it, is that an incel will blame other people for their failure in love, and lash out at those they feel are to blame or "don't understand", while I blame myself for not putting in the effort to be better, and mask my loneliness in public. My pain is my own, and isn't anyone else's responsibility.I also refuse to wear a fedora, and hold the door open for everyone, not just "milady".
>>84433833you have to be 18 to post here, in the original sense of course. You're mixing up generations of this stereotype in only the way an ignorant young person could.
>>84433833Blaming yourself worsens your self-esteem and makes you less likely to break out of your situation. It's better to blame external factors like women or society. Even if it doesn't enable you to break out, it at least lessens your suffering.And in any case the incels ARE right about 99% of the societal factors they talk about, like it or not.
>>84433833me too! im a good guy with a nice guy personality, exactly what women are looking for in a relationship. #1 personality, #2 money, #3 looks. i got the personality and money yet im still a khhv :(
Asa is a true femcelI will reply because asa is cute>the typical stereotype, as I understand it, is that an incel will blame other people for their failure in love, and lash out at those they feel are to blame or "don't understandYou ever considered where stereotypes come from? Not from the community itself, only from its staunch haters. Basically everyone on /r9k/ is pretty self aware of why they fail socially and just feels like shit and lonely.
>>84433833>I also refuse to wear a fedora, and hold the door open for everyone, not just "milady".What the fuck? This is neckbeard shit not incel shit, although I suppose there's considerable overlap.
>>84433859They think all incels are just miniature ER Chudjaks when in reality we're mad at ourselves more than anyone else.
>anyone else incel but hate the community?As an incel, I don't hate the incel community itself; but I do hate how Red Piller lookist-obsessed people keep invading our spaces.Though I have been Black Pilled for many years, and take a moar philosophical view to this living hell, I do not blame young incels for being so angry and bitter. We are all at different positions on this conveyor belt of shit. Men were not supposed to be denied sex for years, let alone a lifetime. It ruins us. Yet fuck apps and social media have enabled foids to abandon their looks-matches and become Chad-only, or alpha widows. We get nothing now.The Black Pill is ultimately about acceptance of our inceldom. This is why we are incompatible with Red Pillers who still have hope of gaming the system. Of course the Red Pill has merit, but that's for sex-havers. Likewise MGTOW/MSTOW has some use for Black Pillers who accepted it's over. There is indeed no use in dealing with foids unless sex is involved. Therefore Black Pilled incels ultimately have to accept a solo life, which does have some positives. Yes, we need sex, but we will never get it from a civilian foid. Though I do recommend that incels try escorts at least once, if only to get rid of that cursed V-tag that cripples so many of us. One day at a time, incelbros.
>>84433833You're whatever the male equivalent of a pickme but at least pickmes reach their end goal of getting dick attention
>i do x but i hate when it's vocalized into a word !!!This is the one thing that normalfags and spergs seem to shareSemantics are so powerful
>>84433833I'm an incel but, to the contrary of most people in this situation, I actually love women!To be fair, I'm more of a volcel, I've been desired but I'm too retarded for relationships (and that's ok!)>>84433866Most Redditors act like this and they all incels.>>84433881Red pillers are making everything worse, I think that it's mainly because of them that incels started to be more "aggressive" towards women.I've also black pilled a long time ago and don't regret it at all. Thanks to it I've been way more accepting of my incel status, I don't care about romantic relationships no more and that made me lose a lot of the stress that I had.I think I'll manage to get a girl at some point, but I don't care when and I'm in no rush.
>>84433995>I think I'll manage to get a girl at some point, but I don't care when and I'm in no rushForeshadowing ahh
>>84433995>I think I'll manage to get a girl at some point, but I don't care when and I'm in no rush.>>8443400540 is the new late 20'sit will happen when you least expect it :3
>>84434005I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm not socially inept and I'm educated.It's clear that I'm not the typical incel since women actually desired me at one point in life (4 to be exact, had a sort of situationship with one of them but as I said, I'm (or was, idk) too retarded to keep her interested in me).I'm sure that I can make that happen again, my only requirement for a girl is that she needs to be a nerd, that's it (and to not be too fat, but that's a given)>>84434025Maybe for people like us, but for the rest (normies) not really.
>>84433833just say you are a tranny you fuckin chainsawman faggot
>>84433833ohh what a big man you arei hate the incel community because its full of resentful brown people living in our countries. the image of the average incel shifted from a loner white guy to some indian trying to awkwardly pick up every white girl he meets. its sickening. not to mention the insane amount of black incels, whats up with that?
>>84433833You're a stupid nigger that still wants to be a normie but it's too afraid to have a personality and thinks about every single thing you're gonna say or do because you think that's how normal people live their livesIt's clear you don't even formed your opinion yourself, you are against incels because your read 2 social media posts about it, assumed you knew it all about the subject and that you wanted to stay away as possible to be on "the good side"
>>84434035Again, you're not an incelYou're just (in your own words) too retardedStop virtue signaling, no girl is gonna think "omg this nerdy loser is one of the good ones that are not incel-ly, I must keep him!!!!"
>>84433995>Most Redditors act like this and they all incels.yeah maybe 16 years ago. That stereotype doesn't exist anymore outside of memes. There are maybe a couple of oldhead diehards like Linkara who pull the fedora line to this day but there aren't any newcomers to that scene.
>>84434088I'm not a loser, I'm just shy around women and never met any that I actually felt attracted to.
>>84434088Not that guy, but this is what I hate: people trying to constantly change the rules on what an incel incel just means. Involuntary celibacy it doesn't matter if at one point in your life you could have had sex but fuck it up at the last moment, you still didn't have it. People here have event claim you can't be an incel if you have a good job.
the whole blaming yourself only gets you so far OP. at some point it just becomes that people don't like you that much and there's not much you can do
>>84434149you're not a robot if you have a good job. you can still be an incel
>>84433833I remember there was a bit of pushback from robots during the r/incel migrant crisis
>>84434149If you were able to pull once, even if it ended up in nothing, it can happen again as long as you don't get worseIt's called being a mentalcel (which implies a good body), you're not an incel, you're an attractive guy who happens to be autistic
>>84433995>>84434035>>84434144you really remind me of myself ngl, the only difference is that i dont have much hope in me in the first place and i can take the gay pill anytime
>>84434144>I'm not a loser, I just can't interact properly with 50% of people and I'm so Withdrawn from real life that I can't feel attracted to an average woman
>>84434230Yeah this entire thread reads like absolute copeI wish i were this delusional
>>84433833>is that an incel will blame other people for their failure in love,If a male virgin is asking out females and being turned down by them all, he's going to remain a virgin and so yes... it's the female's fault and a society that constantly bullies him over it is to blame for his defensive stance against them. > while I blame myself for not putting in the effort to be better, and mask my loneliness in public. My pain is my own, and isn't anyone else's responsibility.That's natural though, you can't be too hard on yourself though, other people don't make it easy for anyone but themselves.
>>84433833That stereotype isn't real, it's a psyop made to discourage and discredit the BP because the truth hurts the system. E.g saying that hypergamy is real doesn't mean one hates women, but that's the idea that the main population will have of you because of the psyop. But since you're a CM fan, you probably aren't smart enough to understand what I'm talking about. You also look beyond autistic by how you speak.
>>84433833I'm gonna put it as simple as possibleAccept your condition as an incel but don't talk about it without actually visiting .is for research instead of fucking TikTokOrTry to ascend to normiedom so we won't have to look at your posts againBut if you maintain this very stance, incels and normies will join to tell you to fuck off
>>84433833Yes. I'm an incel, as in I'm involuntarily celibate, but I'm not part of the "incel community" because I find it retarded and edgy. I'm also technically trans, but I don't view myself as part of that community either for the same reasons. The problem with both communities is that they're contaminated with political views that go against my own. It's better to fly solo than associate with retards on both ends of the spectrum.
>>84434287>Everyone is retarded except for meAnd we're all behind bars meanwhile you're free, ain't it?
>>84434278>That stereotype isn't real, it's a psyop made to discourage and discredit the BP because the truth hurts the system.Yeah that's a big part of it too. That's the angle the media plays, hard, so it confirms it's a PYSOP.
>>84434308Since we're on /r9k/ I guess you're part of the "incel community". In which case yes, you're retarded and I'm not. I thought I made it clear.
>>84434287Are you that 19 year old with the little boobies or someone else.
>>84434324I'm not 19, nor am I on HRT.
>>84434308Kek this One finger pointing 3 pointing back
>>84434317Keep guessing, you're wrong but at least we can make fun of you
>>84434226I'm regaining hope with time. Idk why, maybe it's because I don't care or something, but back when I was 16-19 I really thought that I'd never be able to find a partner.Uhh taking the gay pill would definitely solve this problem, but I'm not into men.>>84434230That's not what I said. I had female friends, not many, but I think that proves that I can have a conversation with a woman.The average woman is a normalfag, which isn't what I'm looking for and realistically, the relationship wouldn't work.
>>84433833>My pain is my own, and isn't anyone else's responsibility.No, your pain is generational and shared and you have a moral duty to make it society's problem.
>>84433833Yeah. I get it.I'm an incel but I'm not mad about it.I'm fat as hell and ugly as sin, bald, nearly blind, all my genetics are total shit.I can't blame anyone for not being attracted to this joke of a human being that I am.It sucks for me, but it's fair. It wouldn't be fair to expect someone to want me just because "I deserve" it or something like that.But that is the rhetoric I usually see here and I just don't identify with that at all.
>>84434360well i am still in that age range so thats why i am still delulu>Uhh taking the gay pill would definitely solve this problem, but I'm not into men.fair enough and dont do it unless you really are into them or you'll regret it
>>84433995>Most Redditors act like thisThey don't. Fedoras have not been in style since atheists ruined them in the 2010s and they've been memed to oblivion. I assume you're thinking of that extremely dated reference in the Meat Canyon video?>and they all incelsNo, some are in polycules, and the ones with standards are but they're loath to call themselves incel because of the connotation and are more likely to use it as an insult for people who use 4chan.
>>84433833>Incel community Fucking kek. Brother you need to touch some grass
>>84434400As a moderately attractive autist (I've been told I'm cute by women online) it's been hard to realize that the only reason I can't get a girlfriend is that I'm simply too awkward and skittish. Complete mentalcel here and wish women could look beyond that (but every single one doesn't).
No, because there is no community.This is something women have dreamed up in their feverish imaginations, because they can't imagine where the general sense of malaise and discontent is coming from, as the world gets more and more feminist and increasingly punches down on men and especially the low status ones.
I'm an incel because of racial and physical reasons.I have given up all hope of dating a normal woman. Perhaps one day an angel will come down and save me. But in all likelihood, I don't think a woman attractive to me will do that.
