What kind of texts would you want to receive from your girlfriend? Would you want her to write with a certain tone? Does it matter at all or would you want her to be herself? What if "herself" sucks?
I wouldn't want to text with my girlfriend. not much, anyway. not too much. I'm old. Either hang out in my home or go do your own stuff and have time for yourself without texting me.
>>84435781>good morning message>r u ok n still alive midday message>goodnight messageIs the only messages I share with gf. More feels like an absolute chore and best said in person
>>84435792This is how I feel as well and I think the thing that makes me a bad texter. I don't enjoy texting and I never have, I much prefer phone calls. I just feel bad because I hear about people texting each other 24/7 and I can't fathom having that much to say to someone. It makes me worry that I'm really boring. Do you think you would enjoy texting with someone who is very talkative and excitable? >>84435817>more feels like an absolute chore It really does. Even posting in threads can feel kind of exhausting for me because I find it very difficult to put my thoughts into words. It takes so much effort. I feel like it is one of those things that can be improved with practice, though. How old are you, anons? I wonder if it has anything to do with age.
>>84435781Extensive conversations about our interests in which we get to nerd out at each other. Text is better for nerding and going into detail. Higher precision.
>>84435781literally send heart emojis and i love you 24/7
>>84435938>How old are you, anons?I'm the second anon. Me and gf in our 30s, the messages are just a formality for the morning or night when we aren't there to say it to each other in person.Conversations where you're texting non stop has became a huge chore, it's not like when you were a teenager, you'd rather actually do something useful than reply to texts. There's peace putting the phone in another room and just living*sip*
>>84435781I wasn't depressed or jealous for awhile that I was alone but then I saw a coworker open her phone and her boyfriend was her phone background and then it's like, wow, it's that special to you huh, this thing that they're telling me I'm lucky I don't have
Just be herself, she shouldn't have to pretend to be something she isn't.
>>84435781an ebpf program or a scheduler with a xx body would be cool
>>84435938I'm a good texter, because I have texted a lot using shit like ICQ, and so on, 3000 years ago, Gandalf.I sometimes also like texting with my locally hosted AI-Waifus, because it is fun, and they have different personalities.Texting in a relationship is completely different. I hate phone calls too. I'd much rather talk to female in person for hours. And texts are boring, because what you get after 6 month is a list of groceries and or a pre-planned, requiring approaval, timeline of events for the next weekend's bbq event. Most shit, like gossip, I'd rather not text at all.TL;DR: Texts with people are not intimate and interpersonal enough, because I'd rather sit next to each other IRL while talking without phones. They're moreso small problem solving and planning.
I used to "edate" if you can even call it that a girl on a burner and sext herThere's a certain type of "chemistry" for things to not get boringI cant describe it well since it's been a while, but whatever that was i want it for my potential gf
