How does it feel to have a girlfriend? Even though I can do OK in social interactions now I've grown up socially isolated and never made many friends, let alone a girlfriend. I've gotten into university and suddenly I can talk to many more people, but a girlfriend is simply not something that happened to me. Even though people treat it as something natural.>inb4 approach womenyea sure so I can get reported to the police for harassment. No women has even shown to be attracted to me and I'm moderately attractive. How does it feel to actually be in a relationship? I'd like to imagine it, but I have absolutely nothing to go off on.
> How does it feel to actually be in a relationship?like hell because you now need to start thinking about your every movement and the moment you fail at something there just wont be the same spark that started it all, this comes with time too, youll be sick of each other, maybe one side more than the other
>>84437728Why does everyone say relationships suck? My parents going back thousands of years were in one and it turned out just fine. Slowly rotting away in isolation without even knowing what the female touch feels like is surely worse.
>>84437675i have a gf and it is fucking hell. i am too cowardly to break up with her and what may come after. i strongly dislike and resent her. she treats me like shit and i am dying a slow death by continuing to be with her. i wouldnt say she is a terrible person or she does terrible things. it is my fault it i feel so bad with her because i am still with her.with the other few girls i have been with, one was worse than this, she was actively malicious and terrible, one was alright she was like my friend, one was only with me for sex and i was only with her for sex, we knew little of each other, and i guess the same for the other one.with this one tho, the sex cant make up for it because the sex is shit. it isnt even mid, i actively avoid it.u have never made friends. i have made friends with girls and i love talking to them and i develop crushes on them and feel attached. this is lovely. when i see cute couples i imagine they feel this way towards each other. tho these girls dont want me, and the girls i do get with, i never feel this way towards. things on the outside dont reflect the inside.i have a body count (not terribly high, it is 5) and i have a gf but i am miserable, have only 1 close friend (still, i am incredibly grateful for him), am broke and have little prospects, and am weird and autistic. i think about death daily and most nights go to sleep hoping i wont wake up. i know it is cliche, but sex and having a gf isnt everything. tho i agree with u that having a gf u vibe with and love and crush on and really really like, and spend time with doing nice things u both enjoy, as well as sex, must feel good and fullfilling
>>84437675>yea sure so I can get reported to the police for harassmentwhy do people keep saying this? it almost never happens. you're self-sabotaging at this point because you're scared of what might happen (and again, this RARELY happens)i have female friends. they've been hit on before. they almost never have a problem with it, even when they have boyfriends. worst thing that happens is the girl says they're not interested. all it takes >inb4 "liar!!!"i mean, sure. if you really wanna die alone, then by all means, keep telling yourself that women are just going to report you for harassment because you told them they look pretty. or, you could stop being a retard and a pussy, and talk to a woman. realistically, the worst thing she will say is she's not interested
>>84437675>How does it feel to have a girlfriend?its genuinely impossible for me to articulate how it feelsits warm and you cant think further than the present when your together but its also brings an impending sense of doom, that everything will implode and you will go back to being alone
