Should I tell my ldr boyfriend that I'm ugly before we meet up? Or is that the sort of thing you aren't supposed to mention? I'm only concerned because I am really TRULY ugly looking, face and body-wise. I'm sure he will feel at least a little bit disappointed when he first sees me.
you should have exchanged pictures within the first few days of talking
>>84439483Ah, we have! I should have mentioned that. I think I look alright in photos taken from up close but disgustingly ugly in ones taken from afar. He also hasn't really seen the side of my face. I dunno. I hope I'm not catfishing him.
tell em it might save u some time
>>84439500You don't video call? Maybe try that a few times. Also who cares what you look like from far away your bf will mainly see you up close.
>>84439464If you acted like a flirty Stacy to him before then he'll be disappointed. Otherwise he's really not going to mind. If you wear good makeup and a cute dress it's going to boost you like 2 points. Also think that the guy will be so nervous he won't really notice how you look.
>>84439500as long as you didn't excessively obscure your face with angles or low lighting then he probably knows what you look like. send him some more if you are worried about it. play it cool, don't ruin it by being overly self conscious and needy.
>>84439519How should I bring it up? There are so many things I've been wanting to say to him but haven't because I know doing so would make me seem kind of weird. Maybe it would be okay if I mentioned it to him in a jokey way. >>84439520We do but I'm usually too shy to show him my face; I know that probably sounds bad. I have shown him my face on video, though, and I always do when he asks me to. I'm actually afraid that i look a lot nicer on camera than I do in real life.
Oh you should come clean right away, not for his sake but for yours. Send him your most unflattering pic to ease the troubled thoughts.
>>84439577Your overthinking and insecurity will end up fucking up your relationship
>>84439577>I'm actually afraid that i look a lot nicer on camera than I do in real life.in all honesty, people look different on camera. the only way to find out is to actually meet up
>>84439577>How should I bring it up? There are so many things I've been wanting to say to him but haven't because I know doing so would make me seem kind of weird. Maybe it would be okay if I mentioned it to him in a jokey way.What you should do is compliment his appearance first, then bring it up. That way you don't sound too self-conscious and that you're also thinking about him.
>>84439577have a family member/friend take a photo of you instead of a selfie. people look way more genuine in those kind of photos.
post your pic here I can tell you if you are unattractive
>>84439464Did you tell him you're also trans
>>84439644ok, I will try asking someone >>84439692He already knows and supports me
Simps itt helping this foid out gtfo
>>84439577Then it doesn't matter what you think, he already knows what he will see and based on the fact he's still your boyfriend, he approves. Relax.
>>84439535>don't ruin it by being overly self conscious and needy Exactly what I did last time. Every day there are so many things I wish I could pour my heart out to him about but I know my thoughts are often unhealthy so I don't. Instead I've been trying to write them down in a notebook. Thank you for the advice, anon. >>84439582I don't know if I could bring myself to do it. I am so very ugly, to the extent that I look a little bit unwell. I don't look like a normal person. My last boyfriend actually told me I looked "subhuman.">>84439595Is there any way to know what you REALLY look like to other people?
