You will never ever travel abroad with a woman and create moments together. You're getting oIder. There's just something special about travelling and experiencing love in your twenties. Solo travel cannot provide the same emotional fulfillment (for men anyway). After thirty, women have done all that most likely so you will always be compared to someone else if you somehow manage to find "love" this late. I doubt it will feel special to them.A lot of people here go on about missing out on teenage love but really it's twenties love that is peak love. I wouldn't even bother getting on a dating app because you just know it's single mums (with misleading photos of themselves back in their prime) who expect a man to provide everything in a relationship. Not to mention Match (owns most dating apps) is purely about extracting as much money as possible from desperate, gullible men. Putting money into dating apps unless you're gigachad or female is the equivalent of throwing money onto the street and walking away. They pretend there's more matches if you pay up.Anyone younger than you will expect a very high amount of financial contribution to the relationship and generally people date their own age range. So unless you're earning a LOT of money and look handsome, this is highly unlikely.Love is all transactional later in life. If you haven't found love by 25, I'd say you're not going to find anyone special. That's just my two cents from an aging incel.
>>84439854That isnt true, I know lots of people who are like 10-20 years older than their wives and they have pretty normal looking lives outside of the age gap.
>>84439854The type of person who makes these threads won't find anyone special, that's for sure.
>>84439854I found my 'love' at the age of 28. Lasted till I became 30.We had travels, bright moments, but then she abandoned me, breaking every single promise she made. It's not about transactions. In my experience, you have to be perfect all the time, otherwise you'll be replaced without any remorse. 'Love' in my eyes is something that no longer exists.After a year, my ex changed 2 people already. I stay single and it's a conscious choice despite the fact that there are women interested in me.And yeah, dating apps suck anyway. While it is possible to find something that would last some time, it will take quite a while to find someone decent and interesting. A huge waste. Just find someone from your circles or have a random encounter.
im playing the long game with my chad
>>84439854who can afford travel before 25? just date younger women
>>84439854At 37, I fully agree with you, OP. That's why I've learned to accept myself and my affinity for sex workers.
Only people who havent felt real love idealize it
>>84439854>You will never ever travel abroadgood. I never planned on leaving
>>84440377>In my experience, you have to be perfect all the time, otherwise you'll be replaced without any remorse. 'Love' in my eyes is something that no longer exists.I've experienced the same thing and the harsh truth is that that girl never truly loved you even if she said she did. Judging by how she hops through men she probably couldnt even pair bond if she wanted to.When a girl truly loves you she bonds with you and becomes borderline obsessed. She will brag about you, look up to you, be enamored. She will see you as better than you really are. Unless you are majorly fucking up in life shes not going to leave for small mistakes. Stupid things you do and little mistakes you make will be funny or endearing to her, not a reason to drop you. This is why if you date the kind of girl who constantly 'tests' you after the initial dating stage, its not going to work long-term.
>>84440633>sex workerssex where the girl doesnt genuinely want your dick is awful
>>84440754>where the girl wantsYour first mistake was insinuating I gave two shits what women want/like.
>>84440971>coping by trying to sound like mr badass
>>84440981It's >First Sergeant Badassnot an officer.
>>84440739>the harsh truth is that that girl never truly loved you even if she said she didI get that, and I felt the 'love' during our first months together. Then it became only a slow decline. She loved the image in her head, not myself, that's why she left.But I still wonder why she was feeding me promises and 'wishes' of having a child one day by the end of our relationships when it all was obvious. This fucks with the mind.
>>84439854I did that stuff, it's fun for a while but it just makes it hurt more when things don't work out.
>>84439854>So unless you're earning a LOT of money and look handsome, this is highly unlikely.Correct, and $100-150k isn't enough, you'd need at LEAST 300k to date younger women. people online just talk about it to make women feel insecure but the reality is that unless you're already top 1-2% of income, you're not getting that young girl.
>>84441790*unless you're chad
>>84440377Once you've HAD that relationship it's easy to stay single and not worry about it that much. It's only if you've never had it that you yearn for it.
>>84441795Being a Chad into your 30s is tough. A LOT of guys fall off in their mid-late 20s and become ugly, but usually by then those guys are already married or in LTRs. Probably more rich men in their 30s than Chads desu.
>>84441687She believed it at the time, and she loved you at the time. That's how women are.
>>84440377Women just get bored. I wouldn't take it personally.
>>84439854I was practically an inkwell until 26 yo(had a few dates but they always left me for other guys before I could even smash)Then, I found a Japanese gf while I was on vacation, and it's been perfect so far. I was dooming pretty hard before that. I do believe that if I stayed in Europe I'd still be an incel tho. Maybe not *for life*, but surely at least until 35-40 when some bitch would sniff savings
>>84441798Do you think it's odd to crave for something that would last?Cmon, man. You can be alone after the relationships and still care. It's just you don't want to face same consequences over and over.
>>84441813Yeah, men will love someone and something until the end of time. Love is a fleeting emotion for women, they cannot and will not love you the way you love them. The closest thing to love a woman will give someone else is maternal love, and even then, not every foid has those instincts activated in them.Life becomes much clearer when you realize women are closer to mindless animals than men realize they are. We are all just dumb animals and the fact we pretend we aren't is what leads to all this confusion.Don't ever expect a woman to be in your life for a long time, her emotions are fleeting because she was designed to be that way unless you put a baby in her and trap her down.
>>84442362I don't know man, I heard Japanese wives cam be cold and calculating patiently waiting until they can extract the most value if they want out of a marriage.Women's base instincts are the same everywhere, I'm not gambling on marriage when the system favors them.Good luck with the dice roll, honestly hope it works out for you shit's fucked.
