How do you ACTUALLY make friends as an adult? I'm 31 and have not any friends for the past decade.People always offer the same hollow platitudes ("be yourself", "just wait", "work on yourself", hobbies, or they assume you're some poorly dressed and ungroomed slob. Or that you haven't tried some incredibly obvious thing that anyone who's desperate for friends would have already tried. When you tell them you that have tried these things, and it didn't work.Anyway, I got bullied and physically assaulted all throughout school, and fighting back only got be in trouble or ostracized further. I had a few "friends", but they didn't live near me, so I never saw them outside of school. And we all went our separate ways afterwards.So how do you ACTUALLY make friends as an adult? No platitudes, no extremely obvious stuff that the person has obviously already tried.All of the "advice" for overcoming loneliness and depression and finding companionship just feels like a never-ending treadmill. It feels like it's not actually designed to help the person, but to keep them busy and distracted.
Your brain is developed fully and its over find peace in your solitude
>>84441675That's not the optimal, ideal way to live, so I can't do that. I'd be dead by my 60s and never get to retire if I lived like that. I'm not wasting my life working for nothing
The vast majority of normies aren't traumatized like you. You would have to play a character to fit in. Set your toxic positivity level to 100%.
