Just today I've been dumped by the love of my life, due to, as she put it: loss of feelings and academic stress.She was the best girl I've ever met and I really need to get her back. She is for me, as they say, the one.Since we are still in contact and our relationship was great, I've been good to her and she was exceptional to me, I just know I won't ever find someone that will make me as happy as she did. How can I convince/manipulate her into getting back together
you don't. move on. didn't read past>girlfriend backeither
>I had learned one of the bitter lessons of life never try to regain the past the fire will have become ashes.>Douglas MacArthur
>>84442738Can't, I don't have the strenght and any other arragement with any other girl is suboptimal.
>>84442731she's not the love of your life, anon.>loss of feelingsat least she admitted it. it's permanent btw.>academic stressmostly an excuse.
>>84442731She doesn't want to go back to you now that she has tasted the thug nigga dick behind your back while you were still dating.
>>84442745>>84442750If what we had together was great, and it indeed was, me and her both agreed on it, then it stands to reason the same greatness can be achieved again, I just need to figure out how since I know I won't be able to move on
i cant take this post serious with that photo.. im sorry man
>>84442770How old are you man? Important question.
>>8444279725 and she is 26.I know I'm sounding like a fucking teenager but I've been trough a few relationships, and this one was truly something else
>>84442731Take a hint nigga she fucked Chad and wants you around for when Chad kicks her out from his rotation
>>84442850I was hoping you were 19 or something.Look man, however bad it is right now I can tell you this: It will be worse if you try to resurrect this relationship.
>>84442731First issue is your a POS manipulative person
>>84442899But I could always succeed.I just need to know how to, since I never before tried to ressurect a relationship, nor have I ever felt the need to like this time.
>>84442919She made me a much better person than I was before
>>84442731>Just today I've been dumped by the love of my life, due to, as she put it: loss of feelings and academic stress.Its over, she dumped you to fuck another guy. This is what happens to absolutely everyone, it happened to me too. No offense but you need to learn to stop being such a little bitch and just take the L and move on. Onitis is going to fuck up your life, this should be your lesson that onitis isn't real and if you're overly head over heels with a woman she will leave you.
>>84442944>But I could always succeed.No you can't.You can still creep her out. You can still miss out on new women. You can still embarrass yourself. You can spend the next 10 years treating every text back as a love note and every ignored text as her being busy.You have an excellent opportunity to fuck your life up. All you have to do is keep on this moronic quest.
>>84443018But I know she still cares, she cried when I asked her if the last weeks before she came and told me she wanted to breakup were meaningless. She is going trough a really hard time and I think I failed in supporting her as I should've. I want to fix this now.I don't mean I want to get back with her today or tomorrow, I can wait, but I need her back.
>>84443004Of all the bullshit advice I've ever given this is the one I'd swear by and so would other men that have been in same position, but hes going to keep obsessing about his ex for months or years, sad.
>>84442731she fucked another dude lol
>>84442731>>84442748I don't say this to be mean but direct: you sound like a weak faggot. Women don't want to be with weak-willed losers who are dependent on them for validation and happiness. You want to know what her>loss of feelings and academic stressshit actually translates to? What she likely really means is>You are so pathetically gay and dependent on me that I have no enthusiasm for you anymoreShe dumped you because you're tiresome. She's still in contact with you not because she cares but because she wants:>A backup option in case things don't go better for her>A wet shoulder to cry on without consequence (best friend syndrome)>A wallet to use while she possibly fucks and dates other men who actually satisfy her in some regardIt's called monkey-branching dude. Almost every man in this thread, including me, is telling you to wake the fuck up, but you're gonna keep defending and making excuses for some bitch who dumped your ass to fuck around. Again, I'm not here to batter you, but to be a direct voice your tiny decaying testicles clearly need:STOP BEING SO FUCKING GAY YOU RETARDREALIZE YOUR VALUE IS MORE THAN THE PRESENCE OF A BORED WHORESTOP DEFENDING THIS BITCH AND MOVE ON YOU GAY ASS FAGGOTFucking idiot.
>>84443222dont be like that. a man cant move on without some concrete proof of betrayal or cheating. just sit back and know whats happening but dont attack thr man
>>84443060Shut up faggit. Do you think any of this is new under the sun? Do yourself a favor; let her go. She dumped YOU, remember that, aren't you pissed? Where is your pride? She's nothing special, re-focus on yourself and find yourself a new lay ASAP. As soon as you cum inside the new girl your perspective will shift and your desperation for the old hag will drop by 90%. Get laid ASAP.
>>84443222I know I am weak, I wasn't this weak before but meeting her made me.>>84443312I am not unfamiliar with this way of thinking, but right now I lost the desire to meet new girls even more than a few days ago while I was still together with my girlfriend.Also I do not want this to turn into a therapy session for myself, I am simply wondering how to get her back, not how to get over her.
>>84442770I am sorry friend, but you must move on. If she had lost her love for you, that means this was not a split second decision, these thoughts have been brewing in her for months.She doesn't know what might make her happy, but it isn't you. The hard part is letting go. Find someone else ASAP and once you're in love again, the pain will subside
just let her suck, rimm and fuck chads and bbcs, meanwhile you must keep working on your career and make money. 3-5 years from now you can get her back, shes going to be a bit used up but ready to settle
>>84442731Academic stress = hundreds of cocks around her, she chose to monkey branch. Happened to me, too
>>84443351She doesn't know if she wants to keep studying what she is studying, she spent too little time thinking about her future worklife, got into uni and now is starting to realise she hates what she's studying.>>84443340>She doesn't know what might make her happy, but it isn't you.But before it was me, we both went trough a stressful period but can get past it.
>>84443333Nice quads bro. Hope things go well for you
kek. op you are arguing with everybody. cant imagine how clingy you are to her
>>84443383Thanks, I hope that too>>84443386As much as she was to me
>>84443398some women are like that. they meet a guy, its intense attention bothways and suddenly they want to break up. never a good sign.
OP, i was in your situation. just move on, it's over, there's no way to win. keep the good parts in your soul and hold on to those because she's your enemy now, you will never get anything from her again.like another anon said, the fastest way to make it hurt less is to find another girl. it's not necessary and personally i think it's just a very effective cope, but give it some thought.
>>84443720I know myself, I came to the conclusion that I won't be able to move on, I am trying but I'm more and more sure I won't be able to. I do have plan b of sorts that will make me stop feeling this sad but it is not the road I want to take as of now
>>84442748I know, I know, believe me, now listen You need timeShe dipped because this is not the you that attracted her.This you will never win her back. Never in a million years.She doesn't want a sucker who believes life is pointless without her. Yeah, I mean you.You need to step up and take that bitch the way you want. And no, I dont mean your ex. I mean your life. Your best life, believe it or not, starts right now. It might be rough at first, but youll get there eventually. Without her. Cause you never needed her.And once you finally take off, start floating effortlessly on a cloud, of lighting, of laughter, of passion and joy, THATS when you might win her back. She'd be a fool to pass up on you... If you even remember her by thenThats the beauty of it.
