I'm sexually dominant with a weak cowardly personality. How do I become a proper man?
its the fucking opposite for me, i need more help then ya
>>84443424>How do I become a proper man?Become physically strong and/or intellectually sharp first
>>84443431Don't girls like that though? Big strong men that are still submissive, I've seen that archetype in my shojo animes before>>84443438I hate exercise honestly and isn't all that stuff mostly genetics anywho
>>84443483>I hate exercise honestly and isn't all that stuff mostly genetics anywhoAre you disabled? Even very untalented people can eventually do long distance running or lift heavy weights.
>>84443424Anon, i am your opposite.I am sexualy submissive woman but I have a dominant appearance and personality. You can make it anon. But stop being a lardass and go work out and get lean. Either that or you can work out and still be a lardass and fat bastardmaxx. You should do the former, as the latter will attract mentally ill women
>>84443587>"I am sexualy submissive woman"Proof or GTFO
>>84443483>Don't girls like that though? Big strong men that are still submissive, I've seen that archetype in my shojo animes beforeidk man, i have seen the opposite in shojo manga, they like dom guys in bed too or did i wrongly interpret it?and that anime, irl is different
>>84443602Alot of women lke strong dominant men who are submissive to us specifically. But its all preference at the end of the day. Certain women dont like that.>>84443596You should take a spear and shove it so far up your ass that it goes through your mouth and you become a human shishkebab.
>>84443587>I am sexualy submissive woman but I have a dominant appearance and personality.What kind of dominant appearance do you have?
>>84443587>I am sexualy submissive woman but I have a dominant appearance and personality.This would make a great doujin character/plot.
>>84443628>"You should take a spear and BLAH BLAH BLAH"Proof. Or GTFO.
>>84443636I would goon to that no kidding>>84443633Very tall flatchested woman who has a buzzcut and likes to go /out/. And sadly im sexually submissive. I wish I was lesbian id get sooo many girls. But no. This is my lot in life
>>84443667>"Very tall flatchested woman who has a buzz-"ProoooooOOOOOOOOOoooFFF, or gedduhfugouttahyah
>>84443522Oh yeah I can probably build strength and endurance but intelligence and frame are mostly genetics. But most importantly lifting heavy objects and running for a long time are very painful, dangerous and damaging to the human body. >>84443587I'm very lean already desu, it's more of a disposition issue for me >>84443602Well they probably like that too and I disagree if it's in shojo it probably makes girls horny same with girls in shonen they're crafted to make guys horny
>>84443690Picrel is the hair i buzzed off. Wasn't very long but its all gone now.>>84443721>disposition issueExplain. I'll give you my two cents
>>84443424IDK LIFTBECOME MORE SELF CONFIDENT I GUESS LOLI JUST KEPT TELLING MYSELF HOW COOL I AM TIL I BELIEVED IT AND TURNED INTO THE BADASS BEFORE YOU TODAY
>>84443587>>84443628SOUNDS HOTYOU SHOULD LET ME EAT YOU OUT.YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE A CHOICE BUT I'LL PRETEND.
>>84443834Why would anyone let strangers eat them out? >YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE A CHOICE BUT I'LL PRETEND.Fuck off dipshit, impale yourself with a blunt sword. (What you said was soo hot hnnnnngggg im bouta bust)
>>84443667>And sadly im sexually submissive.Why sadly? I would love to go /out/ sometimes but I tend to stay home. Not that I'm not physically active, I do work out frequently. But being on my own, it's just not quite worth the hassle so to speak.
>>84443721>But most importantly lifting heavy objects and running for a long time are very painful, dangerous and damaging to the human body.Only if you take it too far. You're not a professional athlete. I doubt you'd push yourself like that anyway. Just make sure you're well-rested and you don't force yourself if you're injured.
>>84443735I'm not very driven, I'm scared to voice my thoughts, I view myself as below others and everything about myself betrays that. >>84443797My insecurity comes from a very base place something like self affirmation is gonna do nothing for me. It's the same as a mammal understanding it's low status there is no language involved.>>84443989Maybe bro I don't really like those things but I might give it a try
>>84443977If youre american (especially if you live in the west coast) and say that you dont go /out/ much you are suffering from high level retardation.Anyhow>But being on my own, it's just not quite worth the hassle so to speak.Hm i get it. Hiking with someone else is always a billion times better. But there is beauty in hiking alone. Its a time where you can sit and think in solitude, watch changes in nature, like clouds moving slowly or the hues of the sky changing as the sun sets.Hiking alone is a completely different experience, especially if you take everything in slowly.I like to photograph nature. I actually planned to hike on Thursday. Its gonna be relatively hot and I found a nice spot to watch the sunset. Tomorrow I'll be buying filmstock that will capture the sunset nicely.Anon, going to nature is unimaginable good for you, some day, you'll find a beautiful partner to adore nature with.Picrel is a photo i took some time ago. Trail around this very beautiful lake. It was cold as fuck outside though.>Why sadly?Because i look strange and I need to grow my hair out asap.
>>84443973>Why would anyone let strangers eat them out?BECAUSE I'M HOT, A TOTAL PIMP, A FANTASTIC LOVER, AND I CAN BREW GONGFU TEA TO PERFECTION AKIN TO THE MASTERS OF YUNNAN PROVINCE KIND OF A BIG DEAL>What you said was soo hot hnnnnngggg im bouta busAND THE TRUTH COMES OUT <3I'M HAPPY YOU'VE COME TO TERMS WITH YOUR FEELINGS FOR ME, BUT BEING THIS BRAZEN IS SO UNBECOMING...
>>84444063>BUT BEING THIS BRAZEN IS SO UNBECOMING...I was joking, but I wast joking when I said you should impale yourself.> I CAN BREW GONGFU TEA TO PERFECTION AKIN TO THE MASTERS OF YUNNAN PROVINCEHmmm when you put it like that...>>84444018Are you dissatisfied with the way you talk and act around others? Thats the real question. Because if the answer is yes, you have a pretty long journey of cutting out bad habits ahead of you.
>>84444018>My insecurity comes from a very base place something like self affirmation is gonna do nothing for meBITCH, PLEASE."MAMMALS UNDERSTANDING LOW STATUS" IS BULLSHIT YOU'RE A MEMBER OF THE ONLY SPECIES CAPABLE OF TRAINING THROUGH THE NATURAL BASE CREATED BY ITS ENVIRONMENT>I'm not very driven, I'm scared to voice my thoughts, I view myself as below others and everything about myself betrays YOU WOULD BE AMAZED OF THE POWER OF THE HUMAN MIND. A HEALTHY SELF-IMAGE CAN BE CREATED WITH NOT MUCH MORE THAN PERSONAL, PETTY ACHIEVEMENT AND CULTIVATION OF IMAGETHIS IS THE TAO OF THE PSYCHE.IT'S NOT LIKE I'M SOME KIND OF CASANOVA BUT IT GETS EASIER TO BE OUTGOING THE MORE YOU DO IT*LIGHTS OPIUM PIPE WITH 100,000 YEN BILL*OR YOU CAN JUST KEEP ON GOING THE WAY YOU'RE GOINGYOU'RE THE ONE WHO ASKED FOR PEOPLE'S TWO CENTS
>>84444110>I was joking, but I wast joking when I said you should impale yourself.YOU DON'T NEED TO ACT COY NOW THAT YOU'VE ALREADY CONFESSED.I KNOW THE EFFECT I TEND TO HAVE, YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE EMBARASSED.>Hmmm when you put it like that...IT'S JUST THAT EASY.NO GIRL CAN RESIST DA HONG PAOESPECIALLY WHEN YOU BREW WITH THE PASSION OF A SAGE
>>84444057>If youre american (especially if you live in the west coast) and say that you dont go /out/ much you are suffering from high level retardationI'm not American but I live in a very nice part of Europe, so I definitely am a retard for not going out more.>>84444057>But there is beauty in hiking aloneI totally agree. I went on a hike alone while I was on a trip (pic related), and I really enjoyed it even though I walked close to 10 hours that day.>Its a time where you can sit and think in solitude, watch changes in nature, like clouds moving slowly or the hues of the sky changing as the sun sets.It's just that I've got other things to do. I play a sport and I really want to improve as much as I can before I can't play anymore due to old age. Then of course, there's work and chores. I would love to have the time to admire every blade of grass, or every brick of some ruins, but not now.>some day, you'll find a beautiful partner to adore nature with.I really wish, but I don't really do anything that allows me to meet women.>Because i look strange and I need to grow my hair out asapHow long would you want your hair to be? I quite like neck/shoulder level length.
>>84444186>NOW THAT YOU'VE ALREADY CONFESSED.Hate to break it to you sweetie but youre delulu. Now I would NEVERRR admit to liking whatever>YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE A CHOICE BUT I'LL PRETEND.That was. [spolier](Hnnnnggg about to bust again just thinking about it)[/spoiler]>ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU BREW WITH THE PASSION OF A SAGEThe passion of a sage is strong..
>>84444295Ah sorry for replying so late, i had some chores i had to do.>I'm not American but I live in a very nice part of Europe, so I definitely am a retard for not going out more.Wooow. That is a nice place in europe. Youre from croatia? Reminds me alot of croatia..>I really enjoyed it even though I walked close to 10 hours that day.Ah thats the spirit! Long hikes really are the best.>I would love to have the time to admire every blade of grass, or every brick of some ruins, but not now.If not now, then when? Youre young now, you have health NOW. Working to accumulate a fuck ton of money doest matter if it eats all your time. Sure you can spend it all, but you dont have the health to fully enjoy it. I think you have a great routine, and I dont know much about your situation regarding work and free time so I dont have the right to tell you what to do. But I would like to tell you one thing, and that is that you dont need a hike or a perfect moment to enjoy the small things. Its everywhere. On the buss, on the pavement, even the flicker of a light bulb. Small and beautiful moments are all around us. The fast paced life modernity has to offer is not the way we should live. We are meant to take things slower. For now, what we can do is to enjoy as much as we can, but work to eventually be freed from the rat race.>I really wish, but I don't really do anything that allows me to meet women.Why dont you? >How long would you want your hair to be? I quite like neck/shoulder level length.I want to grow it as long as I possibly can. My father is currently bullying me, and i want to prove him WRONG. Also, its a challenge, I have been bald but I have never had waist length hair.
>>84444301>Now I would NEVERRR admit to liking whatever That was.WHAT IT WAS IS ME STATING THE FUTUREAND IT'S ALRIGHT, YOU DON'T NEED TO ADMIT IT.I'M FINE IF YOU'RE RESERVED ABOUT HOW HARD YOU'RE FALLING FOR ME.COMING TO TERMS WITH SUCH INTENSE FEELINGS ISN'T EASY>The passion of a sage is strong..THIS IS TRUE.EVERYTHING A SAGE LIKE ME DOES IS FULL OF LOVE AND PASSION, AND ALL THAT IT IMPLIES.
>>84444541>Ah sorry for replying so late, i had some chores i had to doNo worries, I also the same because I was training, then had to shower and cook. >CroatiaAh no, the pic was taken in Romania. Despite the stereotypes, Romania is a very beautiful country. Bucharest and Brasov were gorgeous and quite convenient, rivalling if not surpassing Spanish/French cities. It's affordable as a tourist too. I do live in a nice part of the UK though nature wise, pic related again. Have more pics but size is too big (that's what she said).>Long hikes really are the best.How far do you usually travel for your hikes? I didn't just hike that day, but I was outside for 14 hours. There is a lot to see in Romania. I swear I'm not a Romanian shill.>Youre young now, you have health NOW.Hence I'm spending quite a bit of my free time on the sport I play. :p I don't just train, but I also watch games (sometimes old games) in order to learn more. I don't have that much time to play video games and barely any time and energy to play the piano these days. I do work hard, but I haven't had to work overtime that much yet. I might follow the path of Saul Goodman though. I hope I don't have to spend that much time on work.What do you usually spend money on then?>Its everywhereHa, I agree. That's why I don't usually have my phone out. >The fast paced life modernity has to offer is not the way we should live.I guess I'm just a very driven person. I doubt most people would want to spend 14 hours a day travelling on a vacation.What else do you enjoy? >Why dont you?I could join an orchestra, but I don't really have time for it. I have maybe 10 years max to really push myself at the sport I play, but music, I can play until I'm quite old. It's all my fault, I know. I don't blame women, don't worry. >My father is currently bullying me, and i want to prove him WRONGYou kind of give off the vibes of Olivier Armstrong from full metal alchemist. I'm sure you'll look nice sporting that.
>>84444710(1/2)>RomaniaRomania is a very beautiful country, parts of it atleast. I have been wanting to visit transylvania, one day at least. I believe you, there is lots of beautiful things to see there.>UKAs long as it isnt one of the major cities... i remember going to brummy and it was just foul. Trash everywhere. London, the fucking same. Trash everywhere. No nature in sight. But back then i wasnt really interested in going out anyway.>How far do you usually travel for your hikes? Really depends. Some times its just a 2 hour hike, other times its 6+ hours. I have never been outside overnight though. I wanna try that one time, but only after learnig the necesarry skills. I went on a hike with my friend yesterday actually. The hike itself took like 2 hours but we stayed at the top for hours just looking around and whittling sticks and talking and carving our initials on trees.>free time on the sport I play.What sport do you play? Soccer?>play the pianoWaw. You play the piano? Very impressive.>What do you usually spend money on then?Money? Not much since I dont earn much (I work part time and live with my parents) but when it comes to spending time, I like reading, hiking, drawing, and I am preparing for my studies next semester. Im reading the books on material sciences and doing some math before my MechE degree starts. Then there is the other stuff like having to babysit my siblings (alot) and working out.I've been meaning to do some new stuff like learning how to sew and knitting and crocheting. I've bought the stuff I need to start. I also like to write in my diary. Just writing thoughts and what not.Picrel is a drawing of Peter steele. I love type o negative very much. Santana medley is my favourite song.
>>84444710>I guess I'm just a very driven personYou really seem like one. Very inspiring. I wanna be like you. Just dont stress to much about anything. Everything passes. You seem so busy, but youre busy doing good things, just make sure that you dont doint just for the sake of doing it. Find meaning in waht you do. I really dont think I can give you much advice. You seem like such a put together person.>What else do you enjoy?I like photography and learning about fauna, plants, around my area. I have some aspirations regarding the degree im gonna get. I make lists of projects I wanna do. Like building cyberdecks for various purposes. I like to collect antiques and other shit I find at the thrift and work. I have a particular interest for enviormentalism and sustainability. And I try to leant buscrafting skills but I am objectively shit at it. >It's all my fault, I know. I don't blame women, don't worryYou sound like such a catch anon. Get yourself the fuck out there man! What the fuck is stopping you? Lock in man! then again you dont need to find a parter immediately, but you could absolutely find an beautiful person that treats you just as amazing as you yourself are.>I'm sure you'll look nice sporting that.I look nothing like her keeeekYou live in the UK, its getting late for you anon. For me too. You should sleep...It was nice talking with you, good night <3
>>84444955You sound like you have a great life. I used to be really enthusiastic about extracurricular activities but its all sort of fallen by the wayside as I'm so tired these days and my country is too hot to really ever go outside. I have a gf of 4 years but I'm lacking in everything else you've listed funnily enoughI have a MechE degree also kek and several years of work in the field. I'm like you but spat out the other side of the machine but a lot more tired and jaded. I'm trying to get back into things though, ordered some tools to do leather working with and have been trying to immigrate to a European country as I have no interest or nothing in common with where I live.Have been contemplating doing a masters in a space related field as Artemis launch reignited my passion for astronomy.>>84444970What degree are you planning to get anon?
>>84443628you know the rules cunt
>>84444955(1/2)>I have been wanting to visit transylvania, one day at least.Maybe we could go together haha.>there is lots of beautiful things to see thereThe people are quite friendly too. Not to mention, it's one of the safest countries in Europe as unbelievable as it sounds.>As long as it isnt one of the major cities... It is a major city for sure, but not that big on the grand scheme of things. It's kind of shit, but I think it's still better than most places because it has fewer red flags.>i remember going to brummy and it was just foulYeah, they're a joke in the UK. I was on a trip with my team and we spent an hour slagging off Birmingham. Better still was the fact that as we drove near it, the sky became quite grey and depressing, and mobile signal got worse. Oh, and we had to pass through it twice because there were road diversions. We were getting into fight or flight mode during that part of the trip.>No nature in sightTbf, London really is a gigantic city. You have to go further away from the city to get to the nature bits. Have you travelled around much?>I wanna try that one time, but only after learnig the necesarry skills.Same, although preferably somewhere without too much of a wild life, especially insects. I really attract insects, so it's for the best.>The hike itself took like 2 hours but we stayed at the top for hours just looking around and whittling sticks and talking and carving our initials on trees.That sounds nice, I would love to have someone to do that with. My hike in Romania wasn't that long either, but I found some castle ruins after venturing away from the designated routes.>SoccerI hope this is just a lucky guess and not because I am getting recognisable lol. I haven't been using r9k that much though. But yes, I play soccer on a Sunday league team. I only started enjoying soccer after getting into uni, which is why I want to spend as much time as I can playing it now and see how good I can get.
>>84444955cont.>You play the piano?A bit. I used to play a brass instrument and I was far better at it, but I was worried it'd disturb the neighbours because it's quite loud, and I wanted to get back to the piano again. Did you want to learn an instrument? You should if you can while you're still young. I'm at the age where I'm done studying, and it can take me a long time to familiarise myself with songs because my body seems to have a will of its own. Definitely do take advantage of your ability to form neural connections quickly when you get the chance.>Not much since I dont earn muchOooof you sound quite a bit younger than I am. I have a master's degree in history now. I guess the question should be what you would like to spend on. I'm also curious if you have any aims for your life yet?>I like reading, hiking, drawing, and I am preparing for my studies next semester. Im reading the books on material sciences and doing some math before my MechE degree starts.You sound very well-adjusted for r9k too. I notice a lot of people just stick to one archetype, and it's rare to find someone who does a bit of everything.>I've been meaning to do some new stuff like learning how to sew and knitting and crocheting.I do want to have the ability to make crafts, but I think it's just not within my reach. I don't think I can ever draw or make anything well. I do want to get into martial arts too. Did try it a bit but pretty much have to pick between soccer and that. I also play combat oriented video games.>Picrel is a drawing of Peter steele.Jfc that's a very good drawing. I can't draw noses at all lol. I mostly listen to classical music, but I sometimes to listen to random stuff.>>84444970>I wanna be like youHmm, not everyone can handle my lifestyle though lol. At a superficial level, it's very repetitive, although hopefully you do make some progress in what you do, so it does end up being quite fun still.
>>84444970>Just dont stress to much about anythingGood thing there's a workaround for stress. If you give your all, you'll likely be too busy/tired to notice it lol.>Find meaning in waht you doI would love to earn good money to have a good life, but I do try to do it ethically. Otherwise, I just want to fulfil my potential, being the best version of myself. Not being pretentious at all, but it does improve your life. It's practical and fun.>I really dont think I can give you much advice. That's alright, it should be the other way around lol. >I like photography and learning about fauna, plants, around my area.I'm glad I posted a pic of fungus in my previous post. You sound like you're busy enough, needing to work, study and take care of your siblings. Are your siblings very young? I'm lucky I have an older brother, so I didn't have to take care of anyone.>I try to leant buscrafting skills but I am objectively shit at itWhat do you struggle with? I haven't really tried, but I did build a fence with bamboo before. It seemed quite sturdy. I do want to learn more survival skills, although now I focus on fighting. I probably should join a police force/army if I want to properly learn how to fight, but I just don't think they represent my values.>Like building cyberdecks for various purposes.Heh, would be cool if someone builds a more functional pipboy>I like to collect antiques and other shit I find at the thrift and work.Lucky you. Surprisingly, there isn't much when it comes to antiques in the UK. I would love to collect more WW2 stuff. Right now I have a cold war era Stahlhelm made for East German troops.>I have a particular interest for enviormentalism and sustainability.Preparing for the end times?>You sound like such a catch anon.You're not bad yourself heh. I'll wait for you, anon.>What the fuck is stopping you? I guess I'm just focusing on myself. I tried meeting people, but it was just horrible.Hope I can run into you again too. Gnite!
