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Almost 20 and still a virgin. Kinda feel behind when all people my age have had relationships while I haven't. I do want to have some sort of chemistry with a moid and sex obviously but for that I need to trust the person. The problem is that it takes me time to truly trust someone and be comfortable around them to the point I don't mind how I appear to them by speaking whatever comes to my mind. At the end of the day moid who like me don't wait for this long. Why cant friends to lovers not exist?!
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>>84445081
>"I do want to have some sort of chemistry with a moid and sex obviously"
OP, if you're gay, you should have quite an easier time with finding a dude.
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>>84445099
I am a girl just for you to knowz anon
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>>84445105
I very much doubt that given all the bait posted on this board nowadays, but yeah sure. Not gonna stop the horde from swarming this board though.
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>>84445081
Why does it matter that you are behind your peers? Eventually you're probably going to get a bf anyways so why rush it?
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>>84445121
^(me)
Shoe on head, OP.
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>>84445081
Just go have sex so you can see how mid it is or make the "WOWWWW that wasn't really that special but I do feel amazing!!" Posts and spare the blog
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>>84445081
uh, i went down the friends to lovers pipeline and i'm quite happy with how it turned out, lol
as you said, it takes time so be patient, young grasshopper
your time will come, so in the meantime, try and aim for friendship instead, no expectations of turning to lovers
if nothing else, you might end up with some good friends under your belt

good luck, anon
stay safe out there
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>>84445081
Okay, you want friends?
What're your hobbies OP? Likes, dislikes, that kind of stuff.
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Stop following me around like a puppy, you should be with a boy your own age
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>19 year old worried about being a virgin
How fucked up is our society that teenage girls feel like weirdos for not being whores?
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>>84445081
You're not behind. Take your time. I'm 21 and plenty of my friends (19-22) are still virgins.
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There are guys willing to wait for sex you just have to be upfront about waiting to filter the pump and dumpers.
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>>84445081
It can take time anon. Its not something worth trying to force, when it happens it happens. A watched pot never boils as they say. I spent 3 years posting on here with no success and it was only when I stopped posting and adding guys instead did I find my bow fiance over 5 years ago on soc so you never know when or where you will find your person.
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>>84445081
>but for that I need to trust the person. The problem is that it takes me time to truly trust someone and be comfortable around them
how can a men best build trust with you? i assume its not just a time thing? what kind of men do you find trustworthy?
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>>84445081
Seeing all these annoying teenagers coming here has made me realize that I once was that annoying teenager coming here. I'm sorry anons that are now in their 40s+. Didn't see how obnoxious it would be to have 18 and 19 year olds(or so they say) coming into your zone. Took me turning 30 to see that. Been here for 20 years now.
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>>84445374
>Almost 20
>teenager
Really? Thank you
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>>84445081
NOOOO DO NOT FEEL BAD BEING A VIRGIN IS A BLESSING there is a reason in the Bible Virgin animals were required for sacrifice and the messiah himself died a virgin, its a privilege and honor to remain of purity. In the Bible there are 144,00 first fruits and saints of Yahuah and the main indicator that is used for them is that they are virgins who have not been defiled by a womans touch that could be you anon never ever ever be ashamed most people will tell you their first time sucked anyway
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>>84445081
Our entire society is scams and cons, so trust issues are universal and constant ingrained into us.
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>>84445081
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