can i ask what goes on a man's head? he used to be obsessed with me and now he treats me like shit. I tried breaking things off but he just asked if that's what i want and what I need is for him to change. I think this is coming to an end and I just want revenge. how do I hurt him back? I cry every night bc of him but all he says is I'm overreacting . when I try to communicate my feelings he gets insanely mad and leaves the conversation. it's an ldr bc we're cities apart but visit from time to time.what does it take to make a man city? I used to be able to do it before but that's bc he was so obsessively in love with me. now he doesn't care if i live or die. or if we're breaking up or not..he's so hard to understand. bc like. why are we still together? is he purposely being awful so I dump him? I'm tired of crying over him every night maybe it's his revenge for making him cry first or hurting him but if he hates me so much why be in a relationship with me in the first place?i know I'll never understand a schizo like him but please help me out here. I want him to regret ever hurting or losing me or is that impossible bc he already moved on in his head??
Being in an LDR makes things shit. Move in with him. Have you asked why he's treating you worse?
>>84445674>he used to be obsessed with me and now he treats me like shit.stopped reading, you people need to stop getting involved with bpd people. i don't even need to read further, he lovebombed you and now it's all dead. you're not the first person he does this to and you won't be the last.
>>84445674He's probably incredibly depressed and has massive self-esteem issues, making him think shit like "she would be better off without someone like me". I'm going off of this because from how it is described it seems as if he is trying to get you to break up with him because he is too afraid to break it off with you. Either way, don't tolerate his self-destructive bullshit. Wish him well and say goodbye.
