I was raped when i was 7, im a guy, and im now in my mid 20s. Telling my parents is out of question and im not open minded to the idea of telling them that.But for some reason i feel a need to tell people that, but i want to tell in a way that doesnt bring any real impacts to me, so its basically impossible to tell anyone that irl because i wouldnt trust them to not tell my family that.Im thinking of going to female sexual therapists (theyre more empathetic about such stuff) just to vent about it, i dont even want help from them i just want them to listen.
>>84445885I was sexually harassed by female therapists for being sexually abused. And why are so many "straight" men faggot pedophiles? God I can't fucking stand men
>>84445903>I was sexually harassed by female therapists for being sexually abusedAre you joking or being fr? Thats fucked up
>>84445885You need to be remolested to cope with and find understanding in what happened to you was natural and expected. You must sit on my lap and let me pinch your nipples while you close your eyes and reimagine the experience in a different light.
>>84445885u could vent herei don't anybody knows who you arexd
>>84445885I fucking hate how molestards act like their trauma is the worst thing to ever happen to them. I'm not saying it's fun to get raped or anything, but it's not the end of the world. If it doesn't affect you that much now, just get over it. Literally just pretend it didn't happen and go on
>>84445885It was not your fault, anon. If anyone blames you for it, that's gaslighting. It is not your burden to bear. Fuck anyone who attacks you for it.
>>84445910I'm fucking serious. I was trying to deal with an incestuous childhood while my therapist was getting pissed at me for having sex with a women in between sessions. She also didnt want to entertain the idea that I have repressed memories of my mother molesting me when I was pulling up other family members molesting me. She was a weird fucking bitch.
>>84445885>Im thinking of going to female sexual therapists (theyre more empathetic about such stuff) just to vent about it, i dont even want help from them i just want them to listen.yes you're literally the express reason why therapy exists and probably the most valid recipient of therapy possible
My parents knew and benefited from it.
>>84445925I agree with you, its not the end of the world, but its pretty tough to have a good self-esteem when i remember that i sucked a cock as a kid. I feel like that "the raped" meme
>>84445885>But for some reason i feel a need to tell people that, but i want to tell in a way that doesnt bring any real impacts to meYou want to feel validated Anon, I was raped for years and i feel the same way. Go to therapy, and try to use the resources they give to you to get a better life and move ahead. Consider a psychiatrist for meds too, if you feel you need them.
>>84445956In my case it was a single event, the rapist wasnt a relative or anyone close to me, he tried to kill me by strangling but he got remorseful when i still had some oxygen left. It was a pretty rough day but for years is probably waay worse, my feels anon.
>>84445974Probably you have gone through that event so many times in your head that you normalized it, to the point it doesn't discomforts you anymore, so you are looking to tell people about it to feel validated in some way or another. This is an assumption, but I'm sorry Anon.>for years is probably waay worseIt destroyed me mentally and physically, don't let this happen to you, it was awful what happened to you but you still can get help and get a better life I would ever have. Best of lucks Anon
>>84445885I was raped by a woman at 3 years old
>>84445974Mine was the old classic hanging with guy I had a crush on. We start making out. He wants to push things further. I say no. He doesn't take no for an answer. The police don't do a rape kid because I'm a guy. They dismiss it because we smoked pot and drank that night. They took getting hard as a sign of consent.
>>84445885Playing armchair psychologist for a moment, I would wager that you feel like less of a man for having been raped and your compulsion to tell people that you have been raped stems from a desire to be reaffirmed that you are still a man despite that having happened. That you're not broken or worthless or weak and that you still deserve love and respect. All of which is very much true. Seeking professional counseling and therapy would be a very wise decision as well as identifying steps you can take to prevent that from happening again. And for what it's worth from someone that enjoys sex that most would probably identify as being pretty close to being raped if not crossing that threshold, it's not weird if you enjoyed it or fetishize it having happened and that's something you can work through on your own time in a variety of different ways. And you shouldn't hate yourself if that is the case either. It's just your brain trying to protect you in a maladaptive fashion and whether you embrace that or reject it entirely both are valid ways of managing the trauma. I'm sorry you got raped. That's fucked. You're still a man and you didn't deserve to have that happen to you and you're still worth being loved and respected. You're not weak either, you survived, and weak people don't survive terrible shit and terrible shit can happen no matter how strong you are.
>>84446034I'm not that guy. I was raped, and at no point in time did I not feel like a man. Maybe he has something to do with how I grew up. I also never question my masculinity.
>>84446034Thanks anon, and you are probably right. I do feel less of a man.About my sexuality, im not gay or pedo but i did develop a taste for anal, rough, kink etc. But im a virgin in that sense of sex where im consenting so its mostly a fantasy thing.
>>84446052That's great and I'm happy for you. And yes how people react to trauma has a lot to do with how they were raised. Some people get raped and kill themselves, some people get raped and don't give a single fuck and move on entirely without needing any help at all to get over it. There's no one right way to react to trauma. >>84446062Well I mean you were a kid when it happened. You weren't yet a man and there wasn't really much you could do to stop it from happening. That having happened doesn't really have any bearing on your being a man because it happened before you were a man. I also got pretty brutally raped as a boy and developed a lot of the same kinks you have and then some. The quiet part of kink is that a lot of them stem from trauma. Finding a trusted partner to act those desires out with in a controlled environment can be very helpful in addressing trauma and working through it for some people. I would also recommend talking to a therapist about all of this and getting professional feedback, and keep in mind you don't have to stick with the first one you visit either.
>>84445903Lol raped bitch.
>>84445925>molestardsGetting molested and raped are two different things and people can akchually develop ptsd, schizophrenia, DID from shit like that.
>>84445885Rape is gross and so are you.Stop trauma dumping here and pay a professional to listen to your disgusting bullshit
>>84446384>AI SlopSeriously just kill yourself
>>84446435Not before I rape you again.
>>84446435Naw, I like making you seethe
>>84445885the actual problem is that you do want people to care but you don't like the people you know irlyou gotta get the hell outta there and find people you actually can be yourself around
>>84445885https://youtu.be/4mAsgB9IPGQ?si=vx1YkVB0oc3PEGw3Unfortunately, as a man thats just some shit you gotta take to the grave. In this anonymous format you have my sympathies, but in person and especially with normies and ESPECIALLY with women they will think absolutely nothing of you and treat you like a doormat if you ever let it slip to them, even if youre a big hulking tough guy theyll treat you like shit. I theoretically recommend self administering psychedelics, namely dmt or mushrooms or both but never together, and trying to work through that shit on your own like once a month or something
>>84446449A tiny dick like yours will hurt no one, asshole
>>84446384Hes not a woman, your meme doesnt even make sense.
>>84446486>transphobiaChuds like you are worse than rapists.
>>84446465>I theoretically recommend self administering psychedelics, namely dmt or mushrooms ... like once a month or somethingI strongly second this. go buy them from mushmore[dot]store if you're in the usa and you don't have a plug. unfortunately the subreddit for finding clearnet drug sites was banned so you'll have to trust me that it's reliable.
>>84445885let me guess, because you have no skills to offer, you use your emotional bagage as a way to get laidkill yourself you whinny FAGGOTthe world doesnt need youthats why you were RAPED as a kidit was gods way of cementing the though of you being useless, and have it haunt you for the rest of your life, because he knew you were gonna grow up to become a piece of SHITso again, END YOURSELF NOW
>>84445885nobody cares and therapy is a meme. how many people do you know that were "healed" after that shit, it has to be less than placebo lol
>>84445939>its pretty tough to have a good self-esteem when i rememberthen dont think about it
>>84446543Im a virgin.>>84446563I dont want to be healed i just want to tell someone that>>84446569Its hard to control thinkings
>>84445885at least someone ever wanted you lol
>>84446584shit happens, but for a reasonwhen i was a kid, i would be beat up constantlythat was gods way of telling me to toughen the hell up as i get olderbut being rape is another thingthat act alone implants suicidal thoughtsmaybe you werent supposed to live this far because god knew youll have impure thoughts and eventually act out on those thoughts
>>84446584Yeah Op, I wouldn't go on 4chan, especially r9k for mental health advice. I know these people will tell you that you should kys and shit, but you need to unload some of that shit.Been to therapy myself, and it helped me out a lot. It might work for you too, but I think you need someone you can confide in over this kind of stuff. You shouldn't have to carry it alone, and you shouldn't have to carry it with random schizos on the internet. Hope you feel better man.
>>84446631Not op but holy shit, not very christian like of you anon
>>84445885I hated going to school because I had to attend weekly meetings with a school counselor with a kid who tried to molest me and kids would joke about it being couples therapy
>>84445885>Telling my parents is out of question and im not open minded to the idea of telling them that.Well that's fucking stupid.>But for some reason i feel a need to tell people that, but i want to tell in a way that doesnt bring any real impacts to me, so its basically impossible to tell anyone that irlTry a support group.Give them a fake name or stay anonymous.Talk to a priest in confessional.>Im thinking of going to female sexual therapists (theyre more empathetic about such stuff) just to vent about it, i dont even want help from them i just want them to listen.Good idea but you don't have to limit your scope to "sexual therapists".They're paid to listen and you can very easily establish a "just listen and give minimal input" boundary.
