people here tell me to find a hobby if I want friends but there is nothing to do here if you don't have money and finding a job is very hard, even in that case, a job is going to spend most of my time since I also have to studyIs life truly this shit and miserable?
i have a hobby and it doesnt do anything. i play guitar and i have played in live bands for a long time. only old guys talk to me, women dont give a shit because im not that good looking. most of the people ive played with have never had women start talking to them after we're done playing. Ive played at jam nights and the only time i have seen a woman approach someone is when this good looking guitar guy was done playing. it wasnt his playing, he was about as good as i am, id admit it if he was much better than me. women dont care about musicians, they only care if youre famous or good looking
>>84446605Your city doesn't hold any kind of activities for the community? aren't you interested in some kind of sport? there are many things you can do without spending a dime..
>>84446681I dont live in a first world big town or whatever. I live in a shitty third world little town where even the fucking bus costt a good chunk of money if you keep traveling per month. I've been looking and it's been really difficult to find stuff that fits me, I'm not going to do zamba, come on. I can't do sports because I'm weak as hell, I'm literally weaker than a woman.
One of the biggest hobbies filled with women is free. Go fishing. The hottest fucking women love a man who fishes regularly. Go fish in places with tons of tourists and open wilderness. You'll also meet men who will become close friends, and they will help you find women as well, and if not you still have a good friend. Life is hell if you spend all your time chasing dragons like this, just find something you enjoy doing and always expand your horizons into new things. Take it from someone who has been married and had their face sat on by an extremely thicc Jamaican lady with huge tits and an amazing muscular body. None of it will fill the voids you have, all your earnest discontent is something that is coming from within you and won't go away no matter who you meet or who you're with or what you experience. Learn to be happy just being who you are like you did when you were a kid and had nobody else to be, otherwise you will be condemned to infinite misery chasing something that doesn't even exist as an idea.
>>84446605I think you got to acclimate to the job and then use that free time to actually live your life. I know its though but there aren't many options for people like us. >you also have to studywelp seems like you're fucked frien. >thrid worldjesus your done bro just survive
>>84446605There were years in my life the only thing I had to look forward to was anime conventions
>>84446817There is no free fishing here, I live near a big ass lake but fishing classes cost good money. There are not many good options here, everything is either too far away or too expensiveTry doing sports like football or basketball as a 5'3 skinny boy. I want to do it but nobody respects or gives a fuck about you if you fuck up every match or can't keep up. I would probably be way happier If I lived in a bigger city.
>>84446605they exactly want you to work for this matriarchy and expect to conform with watching the walls in your pod owned by the same corporation you are have been enslaved to
>>84446884>fishing classes>heres how you hold a beer and a stick on some random riverway you saw for 3 hoursSports are gay and the amount of women you attract doing sports is minuscule compared to the amount of women who like fresh food and caught/foraged food. If you want a hobby specifically so you can pick up women either choose food or music, anything that allows you to socially interact in those areas is what you focus on. Focus on doing just that alone by yourself for two years minimum, every day, and you will be laid for life by the third year, and that is 100% guarantee.
>>84447172That sounds not that bad but 3 years? I'm not sure how many twink years I have left.
>>84447212Women unironically prefer husky hairy ugly guys who do tough shit, after I embraced that side of me I literally have never had any problem getting laid by who I want, and the confidence that gave me made it even easier from there. I've seen fatter and uglier guys who are disgusting slobs be wifed to some of the most beautiful insanely amazing women imaginable and it's entirely because they're confident, one of my best friends is even a fucking stay at home dad who doesn't work, his wife is a doctor, he got with her while he was broke, they've been married for 15 years and have 3 kids, and he looks like a parody of Mario where he's all squashed and fat and crunched up. He's extremely fucking hilarious though which is maybe why, but I genuinely believe from my own experience and pilgrimage out of inceldom that it's because he's excessively confident in anything he does with zero hesitation, which isn't easy to be or do if it doesn't come to you naturally but is something you can slowly build yourself into. Do not invest in the idea that your youth will be a boone to you, it is one of the few wars you're guaranteed to always lose, instead invest into your 30s and 40s.
>>84447244I really want to believe you but I can't. I'm not really made of tough stuff, I wasn't made or raised that way, I grow up being weak and heavily mentally ill.
>>84447244This is a load of bullshit
>>84447244>jus b confident bro>in fucking 2026
