Moved across the country to attend grad school, naively hoping my personal issues would get fixed by a new change of scenery. Been here for 8 months and if anything they've been amplified. I'm one of the youngest people in the grad program so it's been a struggle to really make friends with the other students here, and I'm sure my idiosyncrasies and personality isn't making it it easier on me. I've also met a girl who's a couple years older than me and I like her, I think she's very pretty and I like to talk to her but my low confidence and self-esteem is really hurting me. She makes an effort to talk to me and always says we should hang out and get food or do stuff together. For example, I told her I was going to drive to a tourist trap 3 hours away and she asked if she could come with, and we did go down together. But other than that, I almost always psych myself out and hesitate to approach her and ask her to hang out. Is it over for me? I thought things would get better but if anything they've gotten worse.
>>84450196Make a move, OP. Either you get an embarrassing retarded story to tell here to other anons, or you become a normgroid and never have to use 4chan again.
>>84450207I'm not sure how to even make a move. Even just friendly conversation with her makes me feel like I'm going to puke
>>84450288you got this dudeembrace the anxiety and take her up on her offers to hang out with youall it takes is an offer backif shes already offering herself itll be less out of the blue and expected
