>attend uni class trip to local brewery because free beer >stacy notices i'm keeping my distance from everybody else and tries dragging me into a group picture, probably out of pity>h-haha no t-thanks...>get a good buzz sampling all sorts of yummy beers>stacy and friends get noticeably drunk >got left behind by the rest of the class, decide to buy a crate from the gift shop and dip >get intercepted on my way out by stacy, asks if i drink often>uhhhhh i g-guess...>says she's going to the convenience store to drink more with her friends, wants me to come along>don't want to go but agree because i'm in dire need of some networking plus slightly inebriated>halfway through my legs start to hurt, ass starts to sweat, and feet sting from scorching hot pavement>picrel>arrive at convenience store, anxious to fuck off to my car and gtfo>come up with lame excuse, manage to stutter my way through it >finally get away>day ruinedI'm disgusted with myself for even entertaining the idea of mingling with normalfaggots. Worst of all, they're probably going to try to approach me tomorrow and pretend we have some sort of camaraderie going on. I don't want to deal with this shit, man.
>>84452597You must be at least mtn
>>84452597>hot enough for existence to get noticed by women>comes here to bitch like a faggotFuck off, shitbag. You're not one of us
>>84452608>>84452614The bitch has a boyfriend, okay? I also have a group assignment going on with her. Probably wants me to become her errand boy.
>>84452597just have sex with them???
>>84452621>The bitch has a boyfriend, okay?and? Are you too intimidated to just be friends with her and reciprocate clear interest? At least you can use her to meet new people by meeting her friends. I don't even get that
>>84452642I don't want to be her friend, nor a friend of her friends. Unlike you retards, I'm not a failed normalfag. I actively avoid interacting with people because I want to be left alone.
>>84452668so why the fuck are you still posting here? do you want validation from other Chads who actively decide to throw away everything they're given? Fuck off cutnigger
>>84452597>picrelI coulda saved her by the way. I would carry her the rest of the way on my back.
>>84452597And what the fuck do you want us to tell you? "Yeah good job op you ruined your best chance at making a new friend group, that will show those normies" they don't even make you feel an outsider while including you by obligation, they literally invited you to keep going out with them because they think you are interesting enough to hang out with you.Stop sabotaging yourself and have fun for once Jesus fucking Christ
>>84452597>Repeatedly noticed and invited to hang out with peers>Repeatedly find a way to fuck it upThis is you. You are him.
>>84452708Stop shitting your worthless crap into 4chan.Nobody wants your mentally ill garbage here.Fuck off.
>>84452737>they don't even make you feel an outsider while including you by obligationMaybe I didn't make it clear enough in the OP, but she was definitely motivated by pity and pity alone. I'm pretty sure I even overheard them whispering about how I never talk to anyone or how I always dart out of the classroom the moment class is over.>Stop sabotaging yourself and have fun for once Jesus fucking ChristThere's nothing fun in subduing myself into fitting in with strangers.
>>84452777Meant for OP idiot here >>84452668
>>84452787>incel choses his own misery and is surprised when he is miserable, vlaming it all on everybody but himselfA tale as old as 4chan itself.
>>84452810I'm blaming myself for even accepting the invitation. I should have no way fagged my way out of there the moment I had the chance.
>>84452787>I'm pretty sure I even overheard them whispering about how I never talk to anyone Yeah dumbass, they invited you and you make clear that you don't want to be there by being silent and avoidant. And yet they still tried to invite you to somewhere else. Even if she was motivated by pity that doesn't matter, because you can show them you are actually an interesting person to hang out with and fun to have around.>There's nothing fun in subduing myself into fitting in with strangers.Because you are antagonizing them and making yourself enemies when they are clearly showing interest in you, one way or another. As i said, stop sabotaging yourself
>>84452828Stop posting on 4chan, nobody wants to hear your whining.
>>84452834>Yeah dumbass, they invited you and you make clear that you don't want to be there by being silent and avoidant.I'm actually quite polite and respectful whenever someone approaches me; I always avoid coming off as rude. So much so, I actually think people take it as an invitation to strike up a conversation with me, because it makes me look like some kind of timid shyboy who wants to make friends but is too nervous to do so.>>84452870Are you telling me I can't blogpost on THE designated blogpposting board?
>>84452876Nobody wants to hear your drivel, you have nothing of interest to say.You have no value.
>>84452891Duh. I'm posting here for a reason.
>>84452898We don't care, now fuck off.
>>84452597why i instadecline almost all invitations of all kinds. i just end up standing near some group edge being miserable. i also think some people invite others already hoping they decline just so they can look like the good person who tried.
free beer does not mean free beer doofus it means social event, can your retarded antisocial ass not realize you are actively being a hindrance by attending a social event and choosing not to be social and making others who want to feel like they're not excluding you uncomfortable? i have never attended a social event with multiple people despite them being good, fun, or nice people solely for the fact that i am shit at conversation and will sit there mute and bring down the atmosphere. any attempt at conversation or humor will be awkward and be seen as trying too hard, of course they won't mind this but why bother trying to fit in when you don't want to?(if you don't mind this back firing on you when you realize you don't social skills, you're old, and now people will find you offputting and unpleasant instead of just socially awkward)
>>84452668I don't feel you actually really hate normalfags or anything of the sort anon. Maybe you just got wounded long time ago and you had to create this barrier to not let anything like that damage you again in the same way? I often say that i hate normalshits and so on but i can honestly admit that deep down it's just a cope to not let high expectations be met with soulcrushing humilliation from people you're starting to meet anymore.
>>84452597I'm sort of the sameI play nice as far as it takes me on the clock but once it's time to punch out that time is mine and mine alone.No I don't want to play footie or watch the fucking game with you. No I won't give you my Steam account.I want to hit the gym then go home and draw until tomorrow that's itThe failed normalfag doormats who are "jealous" of the "opportunity" like >>84453746 wouldn't get it.They don't have the perspective of mind to imagine someone who just isn't interested and has their own shit going on.
>>84453880>The failed normalfag doormats who are "jealous" of the "opportunity"Lol at this retard, i've rejected """""opportunities"""" like these and even more lifechanging than whatever you can imagine in your shit for brains, and you think i would be jealous of such an inane social interaction? Or that i will get mad because an autist goes to the gym and doesn't talk to anybody? Oh waaaa a normalfaggie stacy chated up with me to drink beer, billions must dieeeJust saying that i don't hate these people, when at some point i thought i did, but just some traumas have shaped certain perceptions of people around me...In regards to anything else, i also don't give a shit about being with anyone or alone. I have my own worlds, my writing, my shitty obsessions, my interests
>>84453990lmao @ this replyyeah im sure ur not called out, you seem totally chill
>>84454189Meh, i just put my two cents on OP's situation based on my personal experience because usually this obsession with being an object of pity for others comes from inferiority complexes and all that shit from rough social interactions If he is not like this and is just uncomfortable with norms he just says "nah man i just don't like them, gtfo normies reee" or whatever, no problem with that because i didn't treat him bad, no need for a literal schizoid drone to come in and talk for him.
>op didn't use the word "no" and ended up on r9kngmi
Good shit anon don't listen to these retards in the comments. It's never worth it. They probably just wanted you to pay for all their drinks or something anyway, fuck em
