anons I need an adviseI've met this girl from discord the other day and she is very nice in a weird way and I'm terrified of her she kept saying how I'm cool person with nice ideas and thoughts and how she can easily talk to me and she said she wants to put me in a psyche ward or in a bubble or a secluded place so I can never leaveshe also said she wanna observe me in a white room all aloneshe also asked me a very weird question she said what would I do if she brought a glass of milkshe also said that I look cute and innocent and I have a nice voice that will put her to sleepSHE DIDN'T EVEN WANNA GO TO SLEEP WHEN WE WERE IN VC UNTIL I DID IT WAS VERY LATE FOR HER AND SHE WAS VERY TIREDshe also sent me a picture of herself and she look cute and she is fit too she didn't even delete it Why is this happening to me it doesn't make sense and I'm ugly incel is she is one of those bpd girls I hear about here in r9k who would love bomb and then ruin your life or something I'm scared and don't know what to do I have a feeling too that she is maybe browsing r9k and other 4chan boards and lied to me about not using it
>>84456152yeah she is a crazy bitch op. keep going tho until she sends you nudes and then post them here.
>>84456166I don't want nudes though that's unethical and not niceshe also said she wants to stalk too
>>84456171yeah ok maybe you're just a fucking faggot then.
>>84456171>StalkTell her you are allergic to cellary
>>84456152And then you send her your face and she blackmails you and you get into drama and you end up like every other discord nigga
>>84456152well do you WANT to be put in a psyche ward or in a bubble or a secluded place and never leave, observed in a white room all alone, and drink glasses of milk?Because yes, she seems like a BPDemon and will make your dreams come true. As long as those are your dreams.just don't let her find out where you live/who you are until you are ready for your cell
>>84456152Red flag, red flag, red flag!Never speak to her again in your life. Clearly, this isn't a good idea.
>>84456184it's not nice man asking for a girl nudes like this >>84456186I told her that I don't mind being observed by a woman all day long or her trapping me in a place without me going anywhere>>84456236I DID ALREADY SEND HER MY FACE REALLY??you think so??I don't wanna get into stupid meaningless drama like this she seemed nice>>84456242y-yes...?I don't mind it sounds hot and cool>live/who you are until you are ready for your cellshe already knows my irl name and where I'm from....>BPDemon and will make your dreams come true. As long as those are your dreams.that's amazing though a woman obsessing over me and shit >>84456249I can't just rudely block her like that anon
>>84456276>I don't mind it sounds hot and coolthen I guess go for it? Fuck it dawg, life's a risk.but make 100% sure its a woman (unless you're into that). And meet in public places first In case she plans on dissecting you (again, unless you're into that)
>>84456152step forward or step awayyou step forward? you'll probably feel so unbelievably loved, cherished and protected you'll want to cry because it's so overwhelming because 98% of men are never treated like such, but it will all come crashing down within a month when she has an episode, and you'll hate yourself until she starts treating you like the only precious thing in the world once again, rinse and repeat, it is SO, mentally exhausting.you step away? you won't experience the yin and yang of love and chaos, you'll walk away a non-traumatized man, your ability to trust won't be tampered with, your self esteem won't be tampered with, your love life in general won't be tampered with, you may have some regrets but later in life you'll swallow them and completely forget about iti was with a bpdemon and they genuinely ruin women for you for the rest of your life, normal women don't love you the way bpdemons do, but they can grow the exact same disdain and hatred for you over the tiniest thing (the forbidden "ick"), women are genuinely not human they are different species of devil i'm convinced lol
>>84456276I can tell from the way you type that none of this happened and you are getting off to it for some reason
>>84456328Her loss. Fucking retard
>>84456152sounds like you've got the (temporary) attention of a BPDemon. Be careful, enjoy at your own risk.
>>84456336you alright bro? everything okay?
>>84456152>advise>I'm cool personAre you Russian/Slavic, OP?
>>84456327she is a woman and she is good looking>meet in public placesbro she is from moldova we can't meet up>>84456328bruh I already have trust issues and I'm paranoid I already had sensed something was wrong she started acting like thatI'm afraid I won't survive shit like this >>84456329it did though just yesterday>>84456343>(temporary) enjoy at your own riskIt won't last then?I think I shouldn't get my hopes up desu I think she is not online at the moment I haven't sent her anything>>84456353nah I'm not slav nor russian
>>84456430if you have any doubts and/or worries you are perfectly capable of communicating them with her, i know it can be hard but you gotta stomp your foot down son
>>84456442what should I say now though?I was thinking of purging my dms like I always do but I'm afraid it will trigger her or something
>anon's first landmineUnless you know what you are doing you should leave after getting some sexting. She's love bombing you and she will break you.
>>84456461I don't wanna sext with her man that's not niceI just wanna beloved that's all I'm not a freak I don't want to sext or get nudes and all of that freaky shit people do
>>84456451what >>84456461 saidshe will lovebomb you like hiroshima, the reason why she wants you somewhere captivated and why she wants to keep you all to herself is because she doesn't want you to leave, she probably has some form of abandonment issues where she's caused a handful of close people to stay awaytell her that you're paranoid and uncomfortable, tell her how you feel, if she lashes out, she's letting her true colours out early, and THAT is a blessing
>>84456451fuck those other anons, I say go for it. But then again, I'm a codependent dude that craves that type of relationship, so its not like I'm unbiased. but you came here for advice, so...
BPDemon behaviorYou are being love bombedWhen she's stolen all your personality and emotion and got you hooked. She is going to discard you hard to get her high.
>>84456489>you all to herself is because she doesn't want you to leavethat's hot thoughI don't want people to leave to abandon me tooI actually asked her if she's been in a relationship before or if she have friendsshe said she have friend irl but she doesn't go outside with them as much and she hasn't been in a relationship only once with a dude online >tell her that you're paranoid and uncomfortable, tell her how you feel, if she lashes out, she's letting her true colours out early, and THAT is a blessingALRIGHT WILL DO >>84456492I don't want her to leave me anon I don't like getting abandoned>>84456503this sounds so hot and scary at the same time I can't believe women can be so devilish like this and ruin a man mentally like this
>>84456473you sound like the kind of good guy who shouldn't be with a BPD demon. Unless you are an abuse chad she's going to make you kill yourself. Leave her now if you aren't interested in a short relationship.
>>84456492Up to you if you want to take your shot during the love bombing phaseIf you enmesh yourself with BPDemon you will lose parts of your soul you will never get back. She will use everything you loved against you.
>>84456532how old are you if you don't mind me asking?>"that's hot though" if you come out of this a completely shattered man, a hollow shell of what you once were, don't say we didn't warn you, you are playing with fire here my boyabout the "telling her you're paranoid and uncomfortable" part, if she starts instantly reassuring you and starts being protective, don't immediately let your guard down
>>84456543see that's the fun part, I'm already a husk of a man, whose sole desire is to feel useful and loved. Abandonment issues and a bpd mom does that to a guy. As long as that Narcissistic Abuse Cycle repeats, I'm fine.But that's why I did caution OP i'm not an unbiased source
>>84456539> Unless you are an abuse chad she's going to make you kill yourself.I'm not a chad an I'm an ugly disgusting incel but somehow she likes me>Leave her now if you aren't interested in a short relationship.how though I can't just unfriend her like that out of nowhere we only met yesterdayshe was online just now but I don't know what to send her desu>>84456565I'm 19> completely shattered man, a hollow shell of what you once were, don't say we didn't warn you, you are playing with fire here my boythat's why I came asking here I don't think I can handle it >>84456543>She will use everything you loved against you.what do you mean?>>84456636it sounds so good to be true but scary at the same time being loved and getting abandoned in a short while is scary
>>84456636>As long as that Narcissistic Abuse Cycle repeatsit doesn't, at some point she will cheat on you or the abuse she inflicts upon you it too much to love her again
>>84456666>how though I can't just unfriend her like that out of nowhere we only met yesterdayyou sound like a fucking beta anon, holy shit. You just met her a day ago and you are already thinking about fixing this instead of ghosting this visibly insane bpd demon. You don't know her irl, she's probably doing the same with other discord simps, it just happens that you are the object of her obsession for the next month or so. You sound so nice to be with a BPD demon, she's going to walk all over you with that good guy attitude.
>>84456636you think you have nothing to lose but trust me you will be worse off and curse the day you met her
>>84456666>"I'm 19"oh my god, something in me just died, you are fresh meat my boy, she is going to eat you ALIVEdude, please be careful, at 19 you genuinely won't recover from this until you're in your mid 20s if you don't play your cards right, you're so innocent, loving, and full of wonder at that age, it's such a shame when a young man like yourself gets turned into a husk all because of someone's wretched, undiagnosed, wicked daughter, it happened to me when i was 16 and it broke me, i'm 22 now and i still struggle with trusting women, everyone around me noticed too, they all constantly said shit to me like "what's wrong?" "you've changed.."if i had to give you a final recommendation, don't even speak to her, don't entertain it, preserve your sanity.
>>84456689> fucking beta anon, holy shit.I'm not a beta and I don't want to fix anyone anonI barely can fix my life let alone fix a troubled mentally ill individual>f ghosting this visibly insane bpd demon.that's rude>other discord simps, it just happens that you are the object of her obsession for the next monthhmm I don't know desu>>84456698my god I'm having mixed feelings I'm scared and thrilled at the same time I don't know what to do>>84456718was this bpd chick you met older than you? cause this girl is same age as me I was quite surprisedhmm I guess you are right I will just not text her and see how it goes
>>84456666>>84456718yeah he should fucking runif he's clever he can enjoy the early attention. just do not get attached and don't let her know anything about you.
>>84456748she was 17, and it was a hellish cycle, i just had no idea what love was because she was my first, she fuckin' broke me, i'm definitely over it now for the most part but she was like a nuke to my ability to trust women>"I will just not text her and see how it goes"don't just ghost her, like i said before, tell her WHY you're uncomfortable and paranoid, and be ready to stomp your foot down, stand your ground, don't let her walk all over you
>>84456748bpd is one of the few mental illness which aren't bullshit, if you have met a BPD girl you have met all of them. It's always the same cycle all over again, other anons who have had similar experiences including me can easily identify the love bombing this girl you have met a day ago is doing. You are not special, you are not better than us and you won't be able to not be hurt, specially with your nice guy attitude. Retards learn from their own mistakes, intelligent men learn from the mistake of others. Everyone has already warned you, this BPD demon will traumatize you for life and you won't trust a woman anymore. Or you can get hooked up to the love bombing, that happened to me and I can't get in a normal relationship.
>>84456756she already know too much I let my guard down fuck...>>84456768I already got really weirded out for her saying such nice things but it felt too good for someone to be too kind like thisI did ask her if she have any mental illness or depression and she said she doesn't and she is not one of them mentally ill girls >WHY you're uncomfortable and paranoid, and be ready to stomp your foot down, stand your ground,alright alright>>84456778> met a BPD girlI don't talk with girls actually so I don't know>You are not special, you are not better than us and you won't be able to not be hurtthat's what was going around in my head like why me it didn't make sense at all>will traumatize you for life and you won't trust a woman anymoreI'm already traumatized and scared of women that's why I don't bother talking to them >an get hooked up to the love bombing,man... I wish it was all real
>>84456824Holy shit man, how touch starved are you?/Mena/ called, they want their sperg back
>>84456824you sound like a big faggot, this egirl is going to nuke you
>>84456854yo, he's fuckin' 19 dawg, relax, put yourself in his shoes, give him genuine advice or fuck off
>>84456868you too, if you're just gonna be a useless retard, just fuck off lol
>>84456854just want love and affection anon>>84456868oh :(
>>84456897when asking for any form of advice here, get used to retards like those i gotta get ready for work it's 8:35 AM, stay safe anon, good luck with the bpdemon hope at least SOME of my advice will be worthwhile, toodaloo
>>84456919take care anon have a nice day
