If you haven't fallen in love by 25 I think you're just unironically fucked. Doomed.I'm 35 and at this point even if I get a gf I will 100% be cynical when it comes to her. Zero chance I won't.
yeah anon, it is what it is.i don't even believe in hell so the souls of the people who have failed me along the way have nowhere to go to.
>>84465596I don't feel that bad about it because there's millions upon millions of men like meWe live in the most raped era imaginable. I would rather live in the medieval ages with a lifespan of like 30 and dying of some horrifying disease or war because even with all that you still got pussy early on and found love. Life for me and so many others is just near-pointless (slightly) hedonistic pursuits like video games and fapping while we wait for the world to completely go to shit.
>>84465585sniffing and licking her feet. *lick lick lick lick* *sniff sniff*
>>84465585Falling in love is the worst thing ever and you are incredibly lucky it hasn't happened to you. I'm convinced it literally gave me brain damage.
>>84465840yeah but if you listen to shitlibs like this apparently the heartbreak part is the best stage of falling in love https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V_eCrIO0ECw
>>84465866>the heartbreak part is the best stage of falling in loveArguably correct because at least it's the beginning of the end. Infatuation is a mental illness and heartbreak at least works as shock therapy, potentially.
>>84465585I'm around your age too. The worst part is that even if we suddenly fixed society tomorrow, I'm not sure I'd feel okay. I don't even know what I'm looking for in life anymore and increasingly I'm feeling like it isn't anything good.
Falling in love as a naive teen, spending five years with a girl only to have her leave you for another man, now that shit will make you cynical. Actually being with women is the ultimate source of cynicism. I've had numerous relationships and each one just makes me even more disgusted and hopeless.
>>84465585I met my first and only at age 38. She was totally unlike all the others -- she was always gently pushing to move our relationship forward, something I had never seen before.It was a 1 in 1000 chance that I could have ever met someone like her. If I hadn't met her, I'm sure I would still be alone. All these years later, we're still happily married, and it still feels weird that meeting her was a 1 in 1000 freak occurrence that happen to me. It's the same spooky feeling as being the only person to survive a plane crash that killed hundreds others. Why was I the lucky one, when so many others are unlucky? That feeling will never go away.
>>84466081Why are you even here? Go make babies or something.
>>84466081how old was she when you met her?
>>8446631414 but she was mature for her age
>>84465585My girls a bad bitch, she says shes not in love with all of my hobbits, shit gogos down, its bust a move, you don't know.
>>84465585Kek theres no point falling in love if none will be attracted to you in the first place you will just be a beta orbiter friendzoned simp, if in the past some girl made clear she was into you and you didnt pick the chance because you "werent in love", you are just straight up gay anon
>>84466081>she was always gently pushing to move our relationship forwardcould you maybe describe some of the things she did? i would like to be this person for my boyfriend.
>>84466325>hagmeh
>>84466111>Why are you even here?Good question. Even after all these years later, I still vividly remember what it was like to be khhv at age 37. I don't ever want to lose that memory, because it still defines who I am. I know that I am unwelcome here because I'm not one of you anymore.>>84466314>how old was she when you met her?27
>>84466439>27gonna say x to doubt that a woman 11 years younger pushed to marry a guy nearing 40 but eh
>>84466470Its called cash, money, stash, mallots, loads anon
>>84466486what job do you worketh, anon I'm 35 and poor with no education so I doubt I'll find someone who gives a shit
>>84465585Completely agree with you, especially>if I get a gf I will 100% be cynical when it comes to her31 now and by this point I'm so used to being single that the idea of somehow ending up with a woman I love just feels absurd. >>84465611>I would rather live in the medieval ages with a lifespan of like 30 and dying of some horrifying disease or war because even with all that you still got pussy early on and found love.Again, agreed entirely. What's funny to me about this is the level of seethe it triggers in people who can't fathom anything other than material comfort being the number one goal in life.
>>84466541>Again, agreed entirely. What's funny to me about this is the level of seethe it triggers in people who can't fathom anything other than material comfort being the number one goal in life.you should see the level of seethe in a normgroid when they realize the 30+ person who's lived a sad, lonely life doesn't give one ounce of shit about their pet political issues or when they don't signal how much of a good person they are by pretending to care about others
>>84466347>>she was always gently pushing to move our relationship forward>could you maybe describe some of the things she did? i would like to be this person for my boyfriend.We lived 2000 miles apart, so we could only use e-mail and phone at first. She always answered my e-mails with long, thoughtful replies, and she always suggested times when we could talk again on the phone. To a normie, that might seem subtle, but I was totally blown away with her level of dedication, because I had never seen anything like it before.In my experience, all young single women are very aloof, and they act like they're not particularly interested in a relationship -- at least, they act that way to me. They always put up a "wall", and there's nothing that can ever break through that "wall". I was stunned to encounter a woman for the first time who didn't have that "wall".The thing that we had in common was that her experience in finding a relationship had been as difficult as my experience had been. It was like wandering lost in the desert, totally alone for years, and then suddenly meeting someone else who is also just as lost and alone. The chance of that happening is almost zero, yet it happened to me. So I don't have any advice for you in finding a relationship, for the same reason that I don't have any advice that would help you win a million-dollar lottery.
>>84466335Are you gandalf
>>84466486>Its called cash, money, stash, mallots, loads anonI did my best to hide my money when I first started talking with her. There was no way she could have known.
>>84466439>27LMAO so she just used your stupid betabuxx ass after fucking chads all her life and you are "lucky to have her". You're pathetic. Married her too like a cuck.
>>84465585*sniff sniff* *LICK* I came back for seconds.
>>84466657>You're pathetic. Married her too like a cuck.I totally get it. It's the easiest thing in the world to believe that 100% of all women fit the common pattern of riding the carousel in their 20s and then start looking for betabux when they hit the wall. When that's all you've ever seen, it makes perfect sense to assume that all women are like that. So that just makes it all the more astonishing if you ever encounter a woman who's not like that. But you probably won't, because they're only 1 in 1000.
>>84466780okay but do you realize what a monstrous faggot you are for bragging about this?also the idea that you're in this kind of once-in-a-lifetime wonderful relationship and then still need to come here for validation from incels leads me to believe that you are, in fact, lying, like every other person on here
>>84466792>okay but do you realize what a monstrous faggot you are for bragging about this?I am fully aware that I am unwelcome here. My point in posting is not to brag -- my point is to tell you that this never goes away. Even if you get lucky and find a relationship, you will spend the rest of your life haunted by what you had to go through for all those decades. The fact that I was khhv for decades is what defines me, and it fundamentally changed me in a way that can't be undone. I'm here to provide confirmation that this experience fundamentally changes you for the rest of your life, even if you end up getting lucky. Even after the pain goes away, what remains is a spooky, unreal feeling, like being the sole survivor of a plane crash that killed hundreds of others.
>>84466081And this was all due to luck? how did you meet her?27 is very much old.
>>84465585>If you haven't fallen in love by 25 I think you're just unironically fucked.There are people divorcing at 50, 60 even Anon. And still going out dating with other older people and falling in love again.
>>84466931yeah but I don't want to date middle-aged women so...
>>84466919>And this was all due to luck? how did you meet her?She had an online relationship ad, and I sent her a reply. For the first month, we e-mailed, and then we started talking on the telephone. (We lived 2000 miles apart.)>27 is very much old.She had a lot of bad luck, like I did. Plus, she was in a very heavily female-dominated profession (elementary education), so that worked against her too, since she had little opportunity to meet guys at work. (Plus, she's super intelligent, so she wasn't motivated when she met with average-intelligence guys.)Not all women can easily attract men. There's about 5% of women who have difficulty attracting guys -- but they tend to be invisible, so guys don't notice that they exist. (It's analogous to the fact that 80% of guys are totally invisible to women.)
>>84467102so she was fugly?this happened in the early 2010s I bet.
>>84467122>this happened in the early 2010s I bet.It was indeed quite a while ago. Even after all these years, I'm still haunted by the experience of going through decades of despair. When you're a khhv between the ages of 16 and 37, it scars you in a way that makes it impossible to ever be normal again. Even if you get lucky, you remain permanently stuck in a weird state that almost nobody can relate to.
>>84467018Good news, zoomer males offer zero competition, their women are free, you can just take them.
>>8446558537 and never even talked to a female once in my entire life. I am definitely screwed.
>>84467241idk mang late 30s men give early 20s women the ick it seems pic related seems to be an ever-increasing rarity
>>84465585Nice feet but fuck you.Which one are you in this pic?
>>84466619When did you two meet and how did you two meet? I'm curious if there is still hope for me (probably not, but what's a little more cope?).
>>84466619I'm in a peculiar situation as well, but maybe unlike you I'm a fucking neet living at home and I fear I'll never be able to make a life with this chick.
>>84465585if you missed out on teenage love (12-18) then it's over for you for the rest of your lifeanything past that is just trying to make up for not having lived such an essential thing in your lifetime
>>84465585comfy picrel, i just wanna lay in between her legs with my head resting on her chest :/
