does this enhance your experience of something? or does the increased quality depend on potential, if it does? further, do you want to know it going in (or even go in because of it) or do you want it to be a surprise?
i like keira knightley but i don't know what any of her movies are about because i can't stop staring at her. i'm sure they're probably good or whatever.
>>84484360Depends. I like surprises but I need to want to go in the first place so either she opens a door or comes through mine.
>>84484371motherfucking iceman i'm the top gunner
>>84484360learning about another person is weird because to build longing into obsession there has to be a withholding of information; which is impossible if you can just ask them anything you want and get any answer. the effect of longing would come and go really quickly instead of gnawing away at you for these really agonizing stretches which is probably exactly where attachments really grow.in the talking stage its kind of intrinsically understood by both parties not to let on too much and not be too available which i realize now is an artificial way to try to build up longing to same levels of an unrequited lover.
>>84484481Nah, that's just withholding and in that way being dishonest with who you are. What you want. Be yourself. Fully. Don't time conversations or hold anything back. If she's not compatible then good you got rid of her for someone who is. What happens for people who Weasley their way into relationships through timing and framing words end up dating but the girl always finds she actually never loved him because she never actually knew him on the first place. She figures that out and leaves. Back on your carosaul. If only she had been and pushed for complete honesty.
