Have any of you found love in your 30s?
>>84496888>Have any of you found love in your 30s?Some did, but there will always exist exceptions and you shouldn't live your life thinking "I'm that guy!". Most anons didn't, remember this.
i haven't tried in my 30s because i assume it will be the same thing my 20s was. but tbf i have not earned a mate by any metric
I just turned 35 and haven't even tried dating in the last five years. No actual girlfriend in over ten years. I've been in a big city for a decade and I just don't get along with the people here, let alone the girls. I'm not a lonely man, but being surrounded by so many people that have absolutely nothing in common with me makes me feel like I'm an alien or yokai or something. I'm moving back to the country soon. Maybe I can find someone suited for me there. Someone who wants a slow and quiet life like me. I'm not holding my breath for it. I'm happy on my own and I'll be infinitely happier when I'm back in peace and nature. It'd just be nice if I could finally find someone who understood me and fit me.
>>84496888No. I don't have a social circle. You need a social circle to date, especially if you want to date online, since women basically auto disregard you if you don't have social pictures.
>>84497023>It'd just be nice if I could finally find someone who understood me and fit me.I have the opposite problem in that I'm too easy to understand......
>>84497080That's not a bad thing, unless it allows people to take advantage of you.I'm way too strange in how I live and think for anyone to understand. Sometimes I feel like I was isekai'd into the modern world.
>>84496888Once, and once transitioning between late 20s to my 30s.But I left social media and COVID fucked up everything and everyone has been pretty shitty since then.I probably should have left the girl I was so heavily invested in and searched sooner for someone new. I kinda gave up.And once 40 rolls around I am pretty sure there is nothing left even if I look alright.It doesn't help I can't use drugs or drink cause I feel crappy after. I also crave deep connections that I fear just don't exist in modern women anymore. I don't want just sex. I want genuine affection.Women now are kinda narcissistic and selfish.King Solomon said it is better to be alone in a desert than stuck with a quarrelsome woman. I agree.Sad thing is I don't need a submissive woman. I just want a woman who is kind and understanding and treats me kindly.That's how bad things have gotten overall.Women don't even treat guys with basic decency, then play victim when he leaves the abusive situation
>>84496902most anons probably end up married, actually. with about half divorced and from then maybe 60% remarried. you guys have such a strange perspective of the demographics of this site. it has always skewed pretty young and relatively normie.
I was in love last year but then I assaulted her and went to prison now I'm alone again(She deserved it btw)
>>84497307Based foid destroyer, I hope you kill the next one.
Do e-gfs count? because right now I am talking to a girl in another state that seems really into me.
>>84496888I'm rolling into mid 30s. Still trying but only a crumb of hope is left. I don't know how much more I have in me.
Am 28 and have never dated a girl much less kissed one, how over is it for me?
>>84497325Until she lets you drive or fly out and fuck her, it's a nothingburger. I got ghosted by a girl when we were 3 years into an e-"relationship"
>>84497132do you know what an artful dodger is?
>>84496888Yeah my bf and I met each other after 30
>>84497345An MtG aura that gives unblockable
>>84496888I rediscovered myself in my 30s and I love myself more than ever.
>>84497339I'd get on that ASAP. you never know what kinda shit life is gonna throw at you. You'll blink and your in your 30s
>>84497390How do I get on that? I don't even know any foids...
Dating is only getting worse for men with each passing year. If you're trying to date, you should do so sooner rather than later
I recently lost my 35yo virginity with a 25 girl I met on college a month ago. It was fun but I may be the type to hate condoms or the death grip is real, because I couldnt feel shit, so I couldnt even finish. Did get to touch and lick and finger boobs and a good looking and not bad tasting vagina. In fact it tasted like nothing, not even salty coins you liars
>>84497408I can only tell you to do the opposite of what I did; everything went to shit when I was 28 and I wallowed in my misery for too long.Have hobbies, do things that are fun, have something you can hold a conversation about. Then throw yourself out there. Be genuine. Don't be desperate.Theres no guarantees, but if its something you want, its better to try instead of being a miserable asshole like me
>>84497345Yeah, more or less. Why do you ask?
>>84497340did you ever give her any cash, or money? that sucks
>>84497562No, but I bought her some perfume once. I'm lucky I wasn't stupid enough to just send her money for nothing
>>84497376Aren't you a narcissist? That seems like loving yourself on easy mode.
>>84496888Nope. I'm a thirty-seven year old KHHV.
>>84497837>tfw no hag gf with crazy eyes
>>84496888A few times. Right now I'm playing video games at her place on a gaming laptop she bought me. Even dipshits can get lucky, fellas.
I will never find love because of my sins.
>>84498269>Gaming laptopNot lucky in everything, it seems.
>>84497837have you ever had a girlfriend?what kind of girls are you going for?
>>84496888Lost my love at 28. No luck in my 30's
>>84496888Yeah, when i hit 30 i started getting fit and working on myself and my appearance. Womens interest in me drastically improved. Currently dating a zoomette who i unironically think is the love of my life. We are planning to marry and have kids.
>>84496888my gf dumped me when I turned 30the most wicked trick ever
>>84498323Nah, my computer back in my country is still okay.Still, the https://www.notebookcheck.net/Lenovo-Legion-Pro-7-16-2024-review-Cream-of-the-crop-amongst-RTX-4080-laptops.819046.0.htmlworks pretty well for me
>>84496888I thought I did, but it was just more of the same.
>>84497248NO, SHUT UP, I WANT TO BE A KISSLESS VIRGIN FOREVER, LEAVE MY PENIS ALONE FOIDS
>>84497248Maybe the lonely anons are the most loudest so it comes off as most of us are lonely bitter asshole. But yes I also noticed that quite a few anons have wife/kids. Don't know why they spend time on this shit hole then.
I turned 30 as a virginI'm now 36 with a 25 year old gf1. It's mostly looks so forget about everything else2. Don't go after a woman your age because they'll be insane single mothers
