>see someone or something sad or hurt>feels bad and want to comfort themI don't know why but i'm disgusted with this. The internet taught me that i needed to be a vile and sigma person, yet i feel this kind of emotions toward others living being which make me in a sense "weak"
It's called empathy, if you have it women refuse to fuck you
>>84520576congratulations, you're a human being>>84520583what this anon said, lose it and then the ladies will flock to you like a moth to a flame
>>84520576Depends on the person. For example, I know a girl who loves Kaman Rider and has belts from it, many plushies, likes to draw, very chatty. But she will often only state what's distressing her to explain why she might be on edge that day, yet she does not want comfort or advice. Has something to do with her childhood and parents. I know another girl who has those interests and traits, but is open to comfort and advice though she is wary of being too needy.All my relationships and confessions came from being a good friend but not a pushover. I just got to know people over time and their feelings developed when I was just enjoying their friendship, keep things wholesome outside of mature talks about intimate matters that concerned them. But when you've just met someone? Yeah I can see how being charming and acting in a way that compels them to prove they are worth your attention can work. It's just not a path I try to take and not how romance came my way.Lastly, you won't always have the know-how or time to thoroughly comfort someone. Remember this. You can still ask if there's something you can do now, or in the future, or the next time a scenario like this befalls them, but try to recover a calm state of mind and don't be a pushover. Keep it healthy and believe there's a tomorrow and a future wherein things will get better.
>>84520583>>84520611But i'm brown. I'm not supposed to feel this kind of thing. I should be destroying and killing people
>>84520788I am also brown but my parents raised me to be civil and respectful and people who get to know me appreciate that.Also busy getting my money up instead of destroying so I can enjoy more of life more easily. It also lets me help fellow brown friends when modern day economic troubles and natural disasters affect them. It's a joy to be able to do so. Gorillas are stronger than most men yet do not spend nearly as much time sparking conflict and violence as some humans. We are so much more than the reputations our ancestors left us.
