I broke down during the talking stage and she still wanted to go out with mebut then after the first few dates, she stopped contacting meThe realm of relationships is reserved only for those of sound mind, friendsUs freaks, we're meant to be alone
>>84539989I know some girls who feel that way and art actively trying to become more stabledoubly so since they also want children and to actually be good mothersnever heard shit test used irl until one of them said she needs to kick the habit
this is my plani will install tinder and maybe other dating appsi will swipe on girls until i get matchesi will get used to talking to womeni will use that experience irl to try to get a gfif it doesn't work, I'll just drive off a cliff by the end of the year
>>84540008we're both fuck-ups that are going through it and we genuinely vibe but idk manI read a thing once about how other people are just mirrors of yourself, so maybe she saw something about herself when she hung out with me so she decides to just dip
>>84540039If that's really the case, maybe she's just sperging out like you are. Maybe prepare for her answering back, but most people don't like when you get too real with them.
>>84539989what do you mean by broke down?
>>84540044>but most people don't like when you get too real with them.realbecause romance is deadwhy stay for the worst when you can just leave?>>84540060she talked about her exi said "oh cool" and then i just left her on read for like 2-3 daysshe started calling me and i declined themthen she asked me if she did anything that upset mei said "nope" and was just giving out 1-word responsesthen uhhh... then i got drunk one night and spilled everything and told her i'm just really weird/sensitive with stuff like thatlike i get possesive to a point she said sorry and all but you know how it goes
>>84540078Trauma dumping is the ickiest thing you could do, at least that's what came as a revelation to me.>Oh look, I'm aware of my issues but also want to force you to feel like shit while being vulnerable.It's not okay to do that. Maybe next time present your issues in a more digestible package.
>>84540090sorry for being human, mannext time i'll just keep everything bottled up and shut the fuck up>"shared joy is double the joy, shared sorrow is half the sorrow"
>>84540078yeah that's embarrassing behavior if you're over 20 and it has nothing to do with being a robot. I'm siding with the roastie on this one
>>84540141>Incel/Stacy Alliance against the normieswoah
>>84540103I'm not telling to shut up, but it's a give and take thing. She takes in your trauma and in turn you must take hers as well. Don't open the floodgates immediately.
>>84540183She's broken too, girlShe was molested, abused, raped, etc.Copes with drugs and alcohol, and hangs out with some bad folksI see the good in her and I genuinely want her to have a better life (with me) but considering everything, yeah...
>>84540223Then try thinking about her issues and reconnect with her that way? HELLO??? Good luck Anon.
>>84540232SHE DOESN'T WANT TO CONNECTI ASK TO HANG AND SHE TELLS ME SHE'S SICKI ASK TO CHAT AND SHE TELLS ME SHE'S BUSYSHE FUCKING HATES MY GUTS thanks I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt and just assume she really is sick and/or busy, but it's hard
>>84540259People need space. You need to give yourself some to.
>>84540270I've given myself too much space, girlI'm on the opposite side of the field and she's just standing thereWhen I run towards her she runs away from me but when I walk away from her she starts running towards meI hate myself so much
>>84540013Dude, the only girls on tinder available are ones with insanely high expectations or single mothers. Either way you're in for the worst of the worst.
>>84540322you sound like a complete faggot
F. Sadly, as broken as we are, we simply can never trust foids to be our therapists.I just wish I could have one to have sex with. It would solve a bunch of my mental and emotional problems. Giving me a reason to live, for one.Unfortunately, the few matches I get just never speak to me. I fucking hate the talking stage. I always fail it, or it never happens to begin with.That said, even a perma-incel like me knows that I cannot trauma-dump. Men must hold a lot back to keep the respect and attraction of a foid.
