I want to save every lonely man on this website. Show them the type of love and happiness they've never felt from a woman. I have my current boyfriend now, whom I met through a thread, but now I feel trapped that I cannot help any other lonely men. I don't want to abandon him or cheat on him. But there are so many sensitive young men out here begging to be cared for and nurtured! I feel stuck! I have a huge fetish for sad pathetic men! Every time I am out in public and see a frumpy, shy, nerdy guy. I just feel like I want to show him attention and care for him. Tell him he's wonderful and interesting. Learn about his hobbies and do fun things together that he's never done with a girl before. But, I cannot approach men in real life because I am extremely shy and I wouldn't want to scare them away. There are too many lonely men out there, I can't care for them all and it pains me. All the sensitive men out there, I hope you're doing okay.
No females will ever ask me out and let me eat them out and finger them on the first date, so there's no point in even being alive
>>84540014If anyone ever talked to me this way I'd laugh at them. You're just piling rationalizations on top of whoredom. You don't care about anyone but yourself and how others can make you feel. I'd distance myself from you as soon as possible if you hinted at anything like this in person.
I just wanna kms I wasted my entire life if I could go back in time id focus all my energy in that
>>84540014I'm a guy with BPD who is pretty good looking and I have fucked a lot of dumpy girls and made them feel like queens. But then I break their hearts.You can't just have sex with all of them, they want to keep you. There's no way to help them because even just being nice still makes them fall in love with you, then they hate you for not choosing them
>>84540014>but now I feel trapped that I cannot helpThere are many more like you out there who want to help directly or by introducing people. Be confident in them and focus on your relationship.
>young and nerdyI'm not young anymore and don't look nerdy. Not even the foids with savior complex will care about me or even look my way.I'm done.
>>84540014I'm 27. I'm not young anymore I'm just trying to pick up the pieces from the ash pile.
>>84540014You're very sweet. I wish you all the best.
>>84540110You can still be a cool unc. The world needs male role models.
>>84540054You need to get a nerdier appearance then, how else is someone supposed to tell if you are a shy loser? But, I wouldn't ACTUALLY recommend you willingly make yourself look nerdy, many women don't have a pathetic nerd fetish like I do. So, if you'd just be slimming down the amount of women who would be interested in you. Also, I don't know how old you are, but I doubt you're THAT old. I probably wouldn't go for significantly older men because by that point they've probably had 3 divorces, so they already know what being with a woman is like, so there's nothing for me to do. I like them better the less experience they've had. I can't get with any other guy though, because I'm obviously not a virgin (given the boyfriend situation). I mourn a little that even my own virginity could only be used with one male. I still like my boyfriend, I just wish I could show everyone love and attention... But, that means being a whore and I'm not a fan of whore-ish behaviour!!!! I dislike female whores the most because despite being so worn, they're the ones who actually capture the attention of all the pathetic guys, because unfortunately they're just that pathetic and stupid to get with them. She doesn't care about you, whores are emotionless NPCs. Sorry for the rant, but I wish you luck. You'll find the girl with the saviour complex you need.
>>84540014That's kind of you but it's too late for a lot of us now. That and the amount of women like you are minuscule compared to the amount of men like us. Most of us are destined to be alone no matter what. The best thing for men like us is to get used to being alone and find ways to be happy with what we have. Hoping for a girl like you to come along just ends up being more painful in the long run.
>>8454011027 isn't old. See? This is what makes me upset. All these young precious tortured jewels thinking they're worn and have no hope. 27 is a ripe age; not too old, not too young. Please have more confidence!!!... or don't, because I find men lacking in self confidence attractive.Confidence is probably the better option though.
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>>84540198The original file size was too large!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>>84540182I struggle a lot with self loathing and confidence issues so hearing this isn't a confidence booster it's just kind of funny to think someone like you can exist.
focus on your hobbies and interests then the babes will come
>>84540144I'm 30. nobody my age wants someone that's as socially immature as I am, not even as a friend and I don't actually want a girl with any complex, my point is that nobody would want me because I'm not even young, I don't look vulnerable, so any girl looking to save some loser like me, wouldn't even look my way. And anyone who would be attracted to me, would expect something entirely different to what I amI don't even care about virginity given my age
>>84540014Posts like these make me want to hero because it's my only hope and not real
>>84540225Yes, it's true I don't see this same sentiment shared with other females... at least the ones I've interacted with which was mainly only IRL in situations where I was forced to converse with people. so... not many women...If I had to say... It's because I have really low self confidence, so it makes me attracted to men who are also insecure losers, like me (I am also an insecure loser...). Whenever I say nice things to them, care for them, listen to them. I'm imagining how nice it would feel like for someone to do the same to me. It makes me feel happy, that someone who I relate to is being treated the way I want to be treated. It's almost as if I'm the one being nurtured and cared for vicariously through them! So, it's a bit selfish admittedly... But, no harm is really done...right?
