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How was your relationship with girls in middle school? Me personally I was simpin
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almost never interacted with girls. like at all. only exception was a girl in biology class would give me snacks and sandwiches every day but we never spoke that much
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>>84548757
99% of interaction was them bullying me. Including my "best friend", because, she didn't want to admit we even talked outside of school
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>>84548757
They all hated me and singled me out as the guy they didn't like and didn't want to interact with in any capacity. I had zero issues interacting with guys, so I put it down to me being ugly, considering just how extreme my acne was.
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>>84548757
I had crush on one popular girl, obviously she didnt even know that. The other girl bullied me a lot, she grabbed my crotch once but its a long story. I hated her. Also one girl kissed me forcibly when I was 12, I felt disgusted.
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>>84548757
I was still in my "girls are gross" stage in middle school. Zero interest in them whatsoever.
Freshman year of high school is when I started noticing girls had boobs. Suddenly talking to girls became a lot more difficult and I became much more nervous around them.
The one exception was this cute quiet shy girl in my year who even though I had a crush on her, I still managed to work up enough nerve to talk to her occasionally. We didn't share any classes, though, so chances to talk were rare and she eventually left halfway through the school year and that was that. She stood out a lot to me because I remember thinking just how exceptionally kind and easy she was to talk to despite never really seeing her with any friends.
I wish I had interacted with her more and found some way to stay in contact after she left.
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I was well frightened of them but they thought I was cute.
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Really good. I still have a female friend from middle school. Talking to girls was something I enjoyed doing back then, now not so much.

The days of chatting on AIM and MSN messenger are dead. Everything is a simp farm now.
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I made the awful mistake of going to a boys school,
Sure, they brought in foids a year later, but no-one socialised outside their year, so it made no difference.
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i spent middle and high school seething over my male crushes being hetero and retarded
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I was the funny nigger and all the white girls liked to crowd around me for a good laugh. Very few of them really showed any signs of being interested in me beyond that, not that I noticed anyway. If there was it was probably some really, really ugly chick and I just didn't pay attention to her. I was too busy focusing on this one girl that was either 17 or 18 years old despite being in the 7/8th grade.

No, she wasn't retarded and I wasn't in special ed classes. I think she just got held back a lot of times. I'm not entirely sure because I never really got the chance to ask. Nearly every conversation I had with her was sexually charged and I didn't know how to respond to that. I wasn't the only one, everyone spilled their spaghetti when she hit on them. When you're 12-14, it's actually really fucking weird to have what is basically a grown woman trying to groom you.

Ironically, she ended up getting groomed by a teacher and dropped out to get married and live with him. Last I checked she's doing okay.
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>>84548757
I did my best to ignore them. My school was a small catholic deal with an average 30 students per grade level so by middle school I already didn't want anything to do with them and they didn't want anything to do with me for the regular reasons of being a sensitive social outcast. I didn't hate them enough looking back, and they hated me more than I knew
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I actually just had the opportunity of running into my Elementary/Middle school crush at the grocery store she works at today. Had a totally normal interraction and desu, I kind of regret not asking her out.
But to answer your question, I was a nervous kiddo who couldn't control himself and said and did a lot of inappropriate things. so in order to fix it, I had numbed my personality so much that by the time I hit puberty, I was a very weak boy.
no charisma
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>>84548757
I went to an all-boys school.
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>>84548757
Bare minimum politeness but they mostly treated me with active hostility
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>>84548838
>Freshman year of high school is when I started noticing girls had boobs.
Is it common for guys not to notice girls have boobs until then?
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>>84548757
I joined football team toward the end.
A group of the female teachers and staff got together and thought it would be very funny for the male athletes to runway model in dresses, wearing makeup, and sell tickets to the female students as part of some fundraiser or another. This was years before I or anyone I knew had ever heard the term "trans woman."
I really didn't reflect back on how inappropriate the whole thing was until years later that a collection of female teachers decided to put the middle school male student athletes in a drag show. We had a female principal and vice which is probably relevant.

The cool guys had stupid swaggers and wigs to flip around with over decorated poofy prom dresses. They got laughs.
Somehow I got put into a sheen slip, basically lingerie, and was one of the last to walk out panicking in the gym bathroom
>just don't go out with an erection. Holy fuck now I'm thinking about it
Think I might have punched myself in the balls. Not sure. Did the catwalk, at least, mostly deflated. Petrified. I mean, it's pointed down so it's gotta be no longer noticeable, right?
Captain of the football team tells me,
>Haha "Everyone could see your dick"

Next week I get a bouquet and a stuffed animal from an admirer in first period. A week or two later, communicating through intermediaries, she is my first girlfriend. For the record I have a very average dick.

I totally fumbled that, and the next girlfriend, by the way. Too anxious and frightened to kiss either, and probably communicate with either like a normal human. Fast forward to highschool I finally kissed a girlfriend and lost virginity to someone that somehow got knocked up by some rando at a party when we were having difficulty, pinned the pregnancy on me, and ruined my life.
t. failed chad. or at least failed normie.
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>>84548757
Punched two and tried to kick another one down some stairs.
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>>84548757
>How was your relationship with girls in middle school?
Complete avoidance. Majority of girls in my class didnt even know my name.
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i was basically invisible to them
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>>84548757
I studied at a boys school and this is not original



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