How do people ghost ppl online and not feel extreme guilt, particularly if its a man you are ghosting. ? This isnt coming from a perspective of me crying because I got ghosted i just genuinely dont get it and feel bad if im even gone for a couple days and see messages from someone pleading for me and asking if im okay
>>84548935I dont know how to say without sounding patronizing but I know that men are sometimes lonely and just want someone to talk to so it feels downright evil to give someone hope and then leave them. Idk maybe im weird.
Many foids have ghosted me. I am just used to it. I'm still incel as fuck.I even just ghosted by a trap. FML.
>>84548946Im sorry to hear that, I find it really childish and rude, they should at least say something. They are in the wrong.
>>84548935Ghosters often think it's easier because; >being honest would hurt the other person's feelings (not finding the other person attractive)>ghoster lied about something and didn't want to continue lying>inability to maintain conversation due to their own energy levels or mental illness>feeling scared of the other person or finding something out they don't like>genuinely fell off the face of the earth, couldn't log back in or have any other way of contacting, health issues etc>sheer sadism (rare)
i do ghost people sometimes when they get too annoying/creepy like genuine creeps or trying too much to get into my private life or just straight up too attention hungryand no, i dont feel bad for such guys
>>84548935> Give women years.> Consistently hint at some type of relationship.> They back off. > I eventually delete them. Some people are too comfortable with the idea of "lifelong" friendships or whatever. It would be impossible to delete them casually.
>>84548964(1/2)this guy wanted to go on a "date" while he didnt even knew me and approach me with alt accounts
>>84548953Indeed. Even old foids have done it to me.Even ones who insinuated that they actually wanted to bang.God forbid that I am ever forward with a match. Insta-blocked.Though 99% of the foids I have matched with DO NOT say a fucking word, or do not respond.I'm almost 40 and still incel. I want a woman to fuck and cuddle, Goddamnit!!!Fuck apps and social media ruined everything for non-Chads.
>>84548977(2/2)some people are just straight up weirdos/too desperate and they dont even want to talk, they just want quick sex or nudes/ such guys either delete their accounts/block you or get reported for doin smt stupid so no point in even feeling bad about it.sorry if i came a bit rude to the other guys, some decent people also approach me and its nice to talk to them. not all guys are like this one
>>84548978You seem sweet I think you will find someone plz just keep looking and dont give up, maybe apps arent the way but you could instead use soc or something
>>84548977>>84549006You can see it here. Whether this is a tranny or an actual foid, the core issue that leads to ghosting is mental illness. They all have these delusions of grandeur and think everyone must bow before them and lick their feet as if they're royalty.>who are you? how dare you speak to me? where did you come from?Just overly confrontational from the jump. They view every single conversation as transactional and their attention as the most valuable commodity in the world.
>>84549068>guy messaging me with multiple accounts just for casual sex is a sane human to be with>thinks talking like a normal being is equivalent to bowing down to themno wonder you are alone and will continue to be
>>84549093Post face pic, if you're ugly then you better be grateful.
>>84548935ive ghosted before, in an instance where i was a coward and became very afraid of someone and i just wanted the nightmare with them to end and so i just blocked them, and then all of the alts they added me with. i feel guilty and bad for it even a year later
>>84549104Nta but im ugly and grateful when guys speak to me i guess that might be why im empathetic because im humbled
>>84549113It's worse when it's a friend you've drifted apart from and you don't have the same energy to want to talk to them.
>>84549114This is why femcels don't exist.
>>84549104>you should be grateful because a weirdo was spamming you with multiple accountsand i am grateful for the attention and have other people i talk to, i am simply pointing out this spammer and why people like him should be ghostedidk why you are defending a spammer
>>84549129How does what I said correlate though, im sure that any woman could get sex but like most women are very sensual and emotional and would also want a bf not just to get fucked and in fact just casual sex would probably make them feel used and even worse... just my theory
>>84549137You have to be CELibate to be a cel. Your life is not hard.
>>84549149Ive never had sex and wouldnt until marriage for reals, just masturbating is fine.
>>84549137Uh yes ugly women should not act haughty.
>>84549093He would be alone even if he was a good person desu
>>84548935Because they either deeply hate the person they ghost or just don't care about them to keep up with their life.I'm a cis woman and I have been only been ghosted out of pure hate by one man in his early twenties once. Because I was too obsessed with him he hated me. He even called me a "female cwc" not because I had traits of him but because I'm just autistic.>Inb4 why mention your gender Because even women get ghosted.
>>84549191How did you get over that,,
>>84549165i agree men are generally less in demand especially straight guys, moreover alot of them like the guy above dont know how to act "decent" or attract their partnerits sad for such guys, even the guys who try to "impress" the other party loose all of their prior confidence after 1 fuck up
>>84549191Yea no shit Chad has more options, had a friend like that who had a clingy gf he got tired of pretty fast.
>>84548935>How do people ghost ppl online and not feel extreme guiltI'm avoidant, I do that in place of having conversations where I communicate that something is wrong because my parents love was conditional (the condition being me not bothering them with various kid problems)I feel guilty ghosting someone, but it's better than telling that someone that something's bothering me.
>>84548935The only time I'm sympathetic to "ghosting" is when someone is DMing me a bunch of random shit and I'm just not really interested or find it funny, so I ignore it. But generally, I've never been one to ignore someone's sincere messages. I was on the receiving end of a group of online friends all ignoring me at once but still having me added, so I know how cruel it can be.
