Why aren't people getting married anymore? It's very disturbing.
>>84566469just economics my lad.... just economics
china has enough people thank you very much
>>84566469A genetically pre programmed desire to not settle. When the community is overpopulated, people get choosier. When people get choosier, people get filtered/filter themselves.
>>84566469As a man:>no tax benefits in my country>plenty of normies telling me sex became very rare once they got married>plenty of normies telling sad jokes about marriage, making it seem like they've lost their freedom>divorce can destroy your lifeThere's no good reason to do it. Just seems like a huge risk for no clear reward. Women on the other hand, have all the reasons to want marriage. They get to trap a provider and if he steps out of line they can divorce him and steal a lot of his shit.
>>84566469>Why aren't people getting married anymore? It's very disturbing.watch the new video about dating dynamic by china observer. $25k dowry, 5 golden items, house without mortgage, bachelor's degree at a minimum, all for a rundown rural neet fembot who is pregnant and has another kid.
>>84566469There's zero practical benefits to marriage in 2026 and every married man I've ever spoken to complains about how shit his life is.
>>84566469Maybe chinese people don't find chinese people sexually attractive or good parent material or good life partners. Maybe chinese people don't like chinese people. Considering how they just stand around when one of them gets killed, they don't seem valuable to each other.>>84566947This would help even if it didn't solve the problem. If the govt stops making sex and marriage about legally trapping a provider into the wagie system, they might see better outcomes. But the govt uses it to put a man into an even worse economic situation, which removes his leverage in bargaining for a job/wages. The more desperate a man is, the less he will settle for, and that is a lucrative position for the government to be in. It's how you make obedient slaves which is like cocaine for corrupt governments.
>>84567183>It's how you make obedient slaves which is like cocaine for corrupt governments.Exactly. This is what you arrive at once you analyze the system. By rewarding one side for breaking the contract, you trap the fittest/best workers (men) into slavery, both in the job market and at home. And when you ask these miserable married dudes why they did it, most of them say their former gfs wanted marriage. I'm nearly schizoid so maybe it's easy for me to say but caving in to your gf and signing a contract with a 50% failure rate where you stand to lose everything just to not end up single again is such a low-T beta move... I'd rather die a virgin than end up married.
>>84566947Women's life dream of getting married is actually brilliantly programmed into their brains at a young age from consumption of fairy tales and Disney princess movies. Men on the other hand are simply just signing a government contract designed to fuck them over.
>>84567258Yea, I hate this. Have never dated but my coworkers have told me they've had to end all of their relationships because their gfs wanted marriage. Knowing that, I'm actually glad I never tried. There's an entire subreddit called /r/waiting_to_wed, where a bunch of seething women complain that their bfs won't marry them. And the comments are always from crazy bitches telling the foids to end the relationship, even when the bf is a great guy. They all seem to view the relationship as a grind towards the ultimate goal of marriage and if the guy shows no intention of marrying, then he's just "wasting their time". Most women are so cold that they get nothing from the relationship itself and they see it as working towards marriage. Kinda explains why so many normies say the sex stops after marrying, because the foids lose the incentive to satisfy their partners once they reach the endgame of marriage. Grim stuff.
>>84566947>plenty of normies telling me sex became very rare once they got marriedthis is because the women are cheating. every women is a biological whore. if you aren't getting pussy they're giving it to someone else.
>>84567620No doubt cheating happens, but it's also that these normies also had kids around the same time. When the kids arrive, the relationship dies. The foid will always prioritize the kids and you're placed in 2nd place as the provider. And the stress/expense of childcare means both partners have less energy for sex and less money to go on dates and do fun stuff. As childcare mostly falls on the women, they are the ones who usually end up the most tired, along with the irreversible internal damage caused by the pregnancy.
>>84567411The whole concept of marriage is just retarded to me. Why do you need an expensive ring and government document to prove you love somebody?
The government gave women to much power. Why would I want a wife if I have to constantly walk on egg shells around her and constantly have divorce hanging over me like the sword of Damocles? I don't need more stress in my life.
>>84568256That's because that's not what marriage used to be about.
