What kind of date would you take a geeky girl on who has never even held hands with a guy?
the date doesn't mattershe'll perceive it as good or bad depending if you're chad
>>84576926FpBp thread done all other answer after mine are not needed and will be seen as simping which is a crime and will be sentenced with death.
>>84576926>>84576939>But I did have breakfast this morning.Real double digit IQ stuff.
>>84576926>>84576939Let's also assume she has a massive crush on you.
bitches love pho
>>84576911Depends on the common interests. We've got a lot of options in this century. Know a girl who visits the arcade often, olive garden, wants to get into 40K minis. Know another who likes similar games but I don't think she's into arcades and 40K minis.
>>84576911>nerdy asian girlwhite man's kryptonite
>>84576911literally me except im not cute
hypothetically I would, but such a thing would not be possible because of my life and the relative rarity of a girl of those traits. it's over
>>84576911>What kind of date would you take a geeky girl on who has never even held hands with a guy?I guess it depends on what she is into but my first thought would be a movie and maybe a lunch/dinner after. If that is too much for a first date then maybe coffee/breakfast shop and a nice walk in this wonderful weather we are having lately. Maybe at the nearest park or if you really want to change things up you could do either food first or after the gun range. That is what came to my mind first.
>>84576990Yeah, depends on what kind of "geek" she is. Arcades, book stores, or museums would all be fun date ideas. Could do a more intimate stay-at-home type date and watch anime or play board games and card games.
>>84576911A picture like this was scientifically created to make me feel lonely and unloved.
>>84576911>never held hands with a guy>looks like thatHiking where I would abandon her on the trail for being a liar
>>84577117Not before brutally raping her?
>>84577006Why do you choose not to be cute?
>>84577143wdym??? it's not a choice
>>84576911Board game cafe
>>84576911First we go to walgreens>One Plan B pill pleaseThen I take her to my place and fuck her bare back and cum inside.Then I get her a beer or mixed drink and fire up the gaming PC.Then I fuck her again as we smoke weed nigga>I'm hungry anonGive the bitch a shirt to wear while I call up dominos and order pizza and tendiesI try and nut inside her again before the pizza arrives.Get the food and eat then talk about games and media we like and show each other stuff like music, movies and games.Then I fuck her again and tell her I'm breeding her all night.After I nut in her, cuddle and talk about growing up.Fall asleep.Then fuck in the morning and nut inside her.Then take her somewhere nice for breakfast.>I have done this multiple time.>It always ends up in a multi year relationship
>>84577167Honestly, sounds like fun.t. fembot
>>84577155Of course it is. Why don't you improve your cuteness skills?
>>84577205what are "cuteness skills"?
what if she was secretly really hot but she would hide it by wearing glasses?
>>84577230Staying at a healthy weight, taking care of your skin, getting bangs, wearing skirts and hosiery.
>>84577236like i wanna but it could be a lot of effort...
>>84577260It really doesn't take a lot of effort to not be fat, get a haircut, moisturize/apply sunscreen and get some nice clothes.
>>84576911>never even held hands with a guyThat's literally my gf before I met her.
>>84577195It is. It's a little more taylored and specific than how I am describing it, and it usually lasts all weekend and there is more talking...>most recent memorable one>Had as much sex as I said.>She showed me Mayrts (french version that doesn't suck)>I showed her Imprint.>We played some vidya. I showed her some weird games she hadn't tried like the Stanley Parable>Drove to get fried chicken cause I learned that was her favorite type of food and her area didn't have popeyes.>went to a smoke shop and hung out there for 30 minutes.>Next morning after sex, shower, and sex we popped an ADHD med and since she never had a crepe before I took her to a high end crepe resturaunt. She thought it was the sweetest thing.>We went to a pet shop next door and played with animals.>We went to a local coffee shop since the adhd meds kicked in and talked for a while over >She showed me a bunch of YouTube things, I did the same.>drive back and go at it like rabbits again.On my last day she cried cause I played a song for her by Riki Lindhome called "places to rest" (Not the first time I had done it, but each time I had it was always sincere and always brought them to tears) https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7HrxQNe6V68and we sat at a national park/beach and she said she didn't want to go.Good date. We dated for 6 years.Then it fell apart.
>>84576911I guess take her to a Round1/David Busters or a spooky themed burger place. Or just take her out to a movie. IDK. Only ever been on double dates. Failed to get chick to go on a normal date with me.
>>84576911>never even held handsWhat is she, 10? They've already had 20 different cocks inside by the time they're 16.Anyways, arcade/bowling would be fun and cute, why not.
>>84576988Actually white girls think it's mid
>>84577234>what is she was secretly really hot but she hides it by wearing something that makes her even hotter?I've been a fan of girls wearing glasses since watching The Mummy.
>>84577323>Then it fell apart.How anon?
>>84577195Purpose of a date is to get to know each other. Anything you do together should be about experiencing and showing each other things, finding reasons to talk to each other and get to know each other, and hopefully have sex.
>>84577357Oh boy... long story... REALLY LONG STORY.But the super short version is after she got an Autism diagnosis (because they changed the definition AGAIN) it became her entire personality and she used it as an excuse for everything and became a bitch.The sweet girl who got nervous and had a panic disorder that I would soothe was gone.Now I had a bitch who never shut the fuck up about autism and made it her personality.And like I had ADHD so yeah, I like autistic people, but she became the fucking worse. It became her entire personality.And yeah there always was a bit of tism in her and her hyper fixations used to be cute and relatable.But NOW IT WAS NOTHING BUT AUTISM FOR FUCKING MONTHS.It broke everything. She is a broken mess who can barely function now and blames society and refuses to do anything to adapt cause MUH AUTISM.
>>84577389Yeesh, glad I never got diagnosed. My boyfriend mightve dumped me!
>>84577447Wasn't the diagnosis that was the issue. I was accepting. It was the behavior change.She is now collecting mental disorders like Pokemon. She added ADHD (which she attacked me for because it wasn't as high in the spectrum as her), OCD and POTS.Who she became is not who she is now.Oh she also gained like 60LBs... again, I can work with that but not if you are a bitch to me.It wasn't the autism. It was being cruel to me and using autism as a sheild
>>84576911I think I somehow magnetize girls somehow. Like, I'm not feeling invisible, they often come talk to me out of the blue but I'm too fucking autistic to get that anywhere. The other day this cutie in my lab class came to me to ask me how to take a picture on a computer (???). I don't really believe she didn't know how (second semester CS class) but if she did she could have asked chatgpt and gotten an answer in half a second, this other girl tried talking to me during lectures etc.I'm far, far from being a chad so I don't get it. the literal only thing that makes me "stand out" is that I'm not afraid to speak up during lectures, someone told me because of that they basically feel like they already know me when they come around or something. I'm in STEM so what's the autistic girl perspective on this
>>84577488I was playing, Im sure she was insufferable. Some people have such a lack of identity even the label of disability or illness is absolute treasure to them
>>84577681Now I feel autistic for taking you seriously.But yeah. Thing is she was actually doing fairly well for a bit. Then she became a more selfish self centered person and that started drying up.So she tried finding excuses.Became obsessed with therapy.You know the type of girl.It sucks cause who dhe used to be was so amazing, kind and wonderful.Sure she got nervous and cried sometimes but people wanted to protect her.I protected her well.But women mistake peace for boredom
Arcade or maybe just a walk in the park
>>84577234Who is this bitch?I wanted to dick down that nerdy bitch.Now I see a dumb bitch wearing her brothers zelda shirt.>BRING ME BACK THE PRETTY NERDY GIRL WITH THE GLASSES!
>>84576911well I'd invite her over to watch movies on my projector setup or play some video games but thats kinda creepy bringing her to your house first date or at least I think thats the case I have never been on a date
>>84577782Nigga I Litterally did that and ended up in multiple multi year relationships >>84577167And on top of that a foid specifically said it sounded like a fun date (yes they are)Thing is I usually had drugs and booze in the mix. Not an insane amount but keep a buzz going all night. I kinda don't do that anymore. So i dunno if I even can do that whole routine again.I am good with dates though, but that routine was really a deal sealer
>>84576974Only way that scenario is possible is if I'm Chad, so it doesn't matter what I do for the date she will enjoy it no matter what.
>>84576911iduno i never interacted with a female before but i saw in an anime these two characters walked outside and slept in the grass so um id do that and hopefully it would convince her to raise children with me
Arcades are no good, they're way too loud, especially for a geeky girl who's probably quiet.I'd take her for a walk, we'd get to know each other, then we could drive to the mall, look around at GameStop and Hot Topic and all the nerdy places and hopefully she'd be self-aware enough to poke fun at how silly all the merchandise is. We'd get some ice cream at the mall too, maybe a casual dinner, nothing fancy. Then I'd drive her back home, give her a kiss, and text her that I had a lot of fun an hour later. The end.
>>84578093>GameStop and Hot TopicDog shit. They used to be good a decade ago but now they are horrid.But.... you have a decent idea. An arcade is fun but what you want is a place where she can show you things SHE is interested in.I had this cool place called "2nd and charles" that is this weird book/Game/music/Instrument store I use to take my ex to we'd spend hours in. But a place like that is a big ask and there aren't that many of them.Goal is you want her to show you things or you show her things. >Then I'd drive her back home, give her a kiss, and text her that I had a lot of fun an hour later. The end.Nigger, you need to breed that nerd pussy. This is not up for debate
>>84576911KaraokeI wanna see her anison skills
>>84578562I wanna make fun of her when she can't sing
>>84576926Trvke, This is all that matters
>>84576911What if she was actually a slut who has fucked over 20 guys?
>>84578874A more likely scenario, especially with a waist like that.
>>84577281im not fat but i have glasses and acne and bad social skills. also i smell.
>>84577006nta but can I see what you look like?I find that about 90% of girls who say this are in fact cute
>>84578952like idk how to detail myself. im kinda paranoid. i have dark hair, pale skin, glasses, about 155cm tall. my hair is long but i havent cleaned it properly like for a week maybe. some acne and i havent used makeup since i graduated from hs
>>84578969You sound perfect, wanna get married?
>>84578980what exactly sounds perfect??
>>84578992All of it. Everything.What am I supposed to be turned off by?
>>84578969my type, drink more water
>>84579006being a smelly shut in who cant hold a conversation?>>84579012what exactly is your type?
>>84579024short, dark hair, glasses and low self confidence, compliments mean something that way
>>84579036wouldnt you rather have someone who is more confident?
>>84579024>smellyGood, I prefer natural BO to deodorant. It's not like you have lice or a poop-smeared butt crack do you?>shut inIt's /r9k/ nothing special about that>can't hold a conversationI like conversations sometimes but it's also nice sometimes to just be quiet and enjoy each other's presence or your own thoughtsGot any more "negatives"?
>>84579043i like the process of building confidence
>>84579046>Got any more "negatives"?how about leg hair?
>>84579055how would you build confidence?
>>84579071as i said, compliments, physical intimacy and a ton of reassurance - the best way
>>84579062nta but that's easily shaveable
>>84579079physical intimacy?? like i havent even held hands with a guy....also what if i ghost you for a month but then demand attention?im kinda on off person which might be really off putting.
>>84579062Shave it, easy.You don't have a penis or a neovagina, do you?
>>84579092i mean if i were to date a girl with no confidence i'd do all that - and slowly for one with no experience, build up to hand holding, kissing and more
>>84579102no i dont>>84579110yeah but what about ghosting? im certain sometimes id get too anxious and not show up on dates without telling
>>84579120 well ideally shed be comfortable enough to tell me so and i would understand as i can get the same way, even just playing games online or watching a movie quietly works
>>84579129i guess that works. but i doubt theres a guy who would be willing to put on with me and my unpredictable behavior.
>>84579144no way to know unless you try. drop the discord / socials
>>84579147i dont wannaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aaa pls sorry
>>84579164How are we going to get married if I can't contact you?
>>84579176maybe kidnap me
>>84579192lol okay, challenge acceptedDo you live in the United States or somewhere else in the world?
>>84576974But I was not chad that morning.
>geeky girl>anime girl with glasses
>>84578969>doesn't wash>>84579192>wants to be bridenappedAre you a stone age chieftan's daughter? I've heard of trad wives, but this is a little extreme.
>>84579194somewhere else...and i wasnt serious about kidnapping...
>>84579244I figured you weren't serious, but y'know, just in case, I had to ask.
>>84576911I bet her favorite video game is The Sims
>>84577006Research "Juggernaut law"
>>84576911GOD DAMN IT WHY DO YOU HAVE TO POST SUCH LONELINESS INDUCING PICTURES???ALL I WANT IN LIFE IS A CUTE GEEKY GIRL!!!!
>>84576911Why would she wear clothes like that?
>>84577167>>84577323This is kinda it. Probably the best relations I had started like this. A brief walk where we get to know each other, a simple food place, a stay-over that turns into week or two with deeper exploration of hobbies and interests. Vidyas, movies, music, everyday life, and lots and lots of unprotected sex. Drugs and pharma, however, are a danger zone. I did manage to stumble upon a couple BPD girls who left me within a year or so, and they messed with my head a lot. But I guess the memories of doing all the wild stuff were worth.
Unpopular opinion:>This >>84576911 looks better than this >>84577234
The nerdy, virgin females are the most depraved women.Their brains are fried after years of consuming yaoi content.They are the infamous fujos.
>>84579397i hate how i find porn and erotica when i was a kid and now i cant have wholesome fantasies
>>84579378Extremely controversial opinion
>You enter her bedroom>She says>"you can sit where you want"What would you do?
>>84580105I say>damn, bitch, you live like this?then I sit on top of her and bully her for being a messy slob.this is only a little messier than my room but she doesn't need to know that
>>84579362>Drugs and pharma, however, are a danger zone.You aren't wrong. The goal is riding a buzz, not "GETTING FUCKED UP". You also shouldn't be using anything particularly hard or anything that doesn't interferes with getting to know each other better. >Weed>Alcohol>ADHD medsThose are green lights and the holy trinity of recreational use, but if she wants to do xanax and heroin or gets so drunk she passes out, you got a problem.You also aren't getting her fucked up to fuck you. The sex is expected whether or not you touch anything. Substances are supposed to be an enhancement not a requirement. Last thing you want is a girl who ruins the night by getting so drunk she's pukiing or taking so many drugs she is saying all kinds of incoherent babel and mood swinging.Honestly in my experience, ADHD meds in the morning with the girl, between 2 rounds of morning sex and then really good coffee and breakfast is a winning combo after the night before because you are both chatty, you don't eat too much, you both appriciate quality of the food, and you're both alert and excited to be around each other.Leaves you with this warm fuzzy feeling that is kind of beautiful and doesn't feel like dulled or impared decision making.
>>84580311Oh, she also feels really fancy for going out to brunch/breakfast.Something about brunch that ticks all of womens boxes and the laid back vibe and no pressure like at a fancy dinner.if you don't wanna do ADHD meds mamosas or irish coffee or a wake and bake are a good alternative depending on the girl... Or do it sober. I have done that to great success too. But DO NOT MIX Alcohol and ADHD meds. You will give yourself a nasty headache.If I had to over analyze... Women are self consious and feel like they have to perform when they are out doing things. Going and doing stuff at home and relaxing is her being able to share who she is and you being able to do the same. She can be dumb and silly without people judging. The brunch in the morning shows you care and want to have new experiences and aren't just trying to bang her out. Sure, you did already bang her out extensively, and you want to show that you like being with her for more than that but that she is extremely desired and wanted physically.Most people aren't morning people so it's also taking a time of day that normally is about rushing to do stuff and making it a pleasant time that she normally never noticed was so nice.
>>84580311It's all very individual. I do think that any sort of drug might cause irreversible damage if we're talking about being mental. They just experience shit differently, that's it. One of my exes is a bright example. It all started out nice and comfy, but by the end of our year relationship, she was smoking weed up to 3 times/day (compared to the initial once/couple weeks) and I couldn't really prevent that. I did try to talk her out of it, did try to discuss the issues or what should I do to make her feel better, but she was only shutting in or going nuts during each attempt. It did affect me as well, so I slowly slipped into that pit and started screaming during our arguments, which gave her the reason to bail with no remorse guilt-free.
>>84580105Oh boy have I had this happen to me.Last time it was the depressed girl mess with floor covered in clothes I had a threesome with the girl and slept on a floor air mattress that was oddly comfortable because of all the piles of clothes everywhere acting as coushion....You may be wondering "did I fuck a crack head?"Nope. Art school student.
>>84580398Yeahhhh... thats going past recreation and becoming dependency... but this is also about just enjoying a weekend date and not long term relationship stuff.How they compose themselves over the time together is usually a good indicator of how they will behave after the date is over.Everyone is different. One of my exes was happiest with simple cigarettes and coffee.
>>84580105This was my wife when we started dating.
>>84580515Please tell me she is less messy now after Marraige...
>>84580645A little. She is still kind of a child at heart so sometimes I feel more like a dad than a husband.
>>84580659Well if you are happy than whatever. I can handle messy. Lord knows I've neglected unused parts of my house to get it just "clean enough".It's when you can't see the floor or start having dirty plates pile up where I start flipping out.>>84580105What bothers me here is it's spread out to not see the floor which is where lines get drawn for me. However if she just put it all in a single giant pile and used a fitted sheet on the bed I'd see this as perfectly acceptable.Problem in this pic is just clothes and packaging trash. Packaging is easily thrown away, stuffed animals easily go on The mattress, clothes are easy to throw in a single pile.I've started handling girls like this and their rooms and I get mixed results. Sometimes they get angry and think I'm trying to make them feel bad or go through their things.Sometimes they think it's really sweet and get cuddly with me.
>>84576911There's this mediterranean restaurant in my town that I've been to once. I tried a lamb dish they had and it was great. I'd take her there because the food is nice and I want an excess to go there again
>>84576911Why does she have such kind and gentle expression? What is she thinking about? What does he know?
>>84576911>at least 5 children asap
>>84576911i will not take her on any date as she would reject me out of hand
