Anons this could be something. My friends set me up with a girl and after like two months she finally texted me. I'm gonna go on a date with her next week. We agreed on a place but not a day yet, just next week. I've never fucked but ive make out with a few girls and got a short bj once, i didn't finish. I've never been on a date with a girl I was actually interested in before so this could be big if it works out. Im feeling good about it. I just hope shes not weird looking and is cool. Im pretty tired of being alone and being a literal incel. Im 32 and never had a gf.... pray for me frens. Advice or questions or whatever. Id just like to talk about it with anons
friends? date? bj? why don't you go outside and talk to normies instead? in all seriousness, you don't belong here
>>84577095I kinda know. Im just a total mess with girls is all, and i still live with my parents. I feel mostly normal but a total loser in other ways. Im more a cyborg I guess.
>>84577089I wish you the best. I hope you have more success than me.Fucking early 20s and I had more jobs than chick who(aren't coworkers or family) willingly talked with me.>ive make out>got a short bj onceLucky mofo
>took 2 months to textanon I think it is already over
>>84577089How are u feeling, are u expecting sex or some sort of physical interaction with this girl?
>>84577248Not really. Maybe a kiss at the end but I dont know how I'd even initiate that. Ill see how it goes and if I can tell how into me she is, and hell, if we even get along that well in person. Ive never met her. >>84577193Its not. We have been texting last 2 days and shes definitely interested in seeing me. She seemes properly excited which feels nice.>>84577181>Lucky mofoHonestly I am. I didn't initiate any of those. It was always some drunk chick at a bar who came up to me who was apparently attracted to me and made the first moves. I really am unable to make moves on girls. Im too nervous.
>>84577302>Honestly I am. I didn't initiate any of those. It was always some drunk chick at a bar who came up to me who was apparently attracted to me and made the first moves.I just think people just don't find me attractive. Too pale and half the time my face gets fucked up(lots of long stories).>I really am unable to make moves on girls. Im too nervous.I can barely talk to the chicks at the club I like going to who I am interested in.
>>84577343>I just think people just don't find me attractiveMaybe. But im sure you see as well as I do, the absolute slobs out there who are in relationships.We really just need to start trying and get over how scary it is. Not doing anything is worse than failing. Im just lucky that I have friends who did the work for me and set me up with a girl, this is honestly kinda what I was hoping would happen.
>>84577393>We really just need to start trying and get over how scary it isWhy is it so hard?Friends tried to help. I think someone is just broken in my head.
>>84577518For me its just I dont wanna seem like an idiot to some cute girl I'm trying to get to like me. That's the opposite of what I want to to do. And i want a gf so bad, that ruing a potential opportunity at that is a major screw up. So i dont even bother. But since I never do it, I never learn how to do it. Its a self fulfilling prophecy or something.We just have to push that fear aside and be ok with fucking up.
>>84577564I just don't know how to talk to chicks. Can dance with them just fine. Had on jump down from stage on me, dancing together, asked her name n told her mind and then just nothing. Other time chick dancing with me and touching my chest while dancing, don't really know how to react. Or just having some chick up to me and I think no I don't remember what the third one wanted, ended up exchanging number and nothing. I think the third one just didn't believe I was designated driver for my friends or just realized I was socially inept as fuck.Part of me just kind of doesn't care in a weird ways. I just want to dance and get beat up in a mosh pit.Oh yeah at a different bar mortician lady started talking with but just lost interest the moment I said I work weekdays, I don't think I did/said anything retarded. Friend I was with kicked her to the curb when she tried coming up to him.
