be honest, even if you met someone who fit pretty much everything off your relationship checklist, would you be capable of carrying a serious relationship? like moving in together and planning dates and visiting each others families and making dinners together or going through rough times together and managing disagreements? could you really do it?
>>84577439Duh. It's a given
>>84577439Yeah but I am realistic a woman who fits pretty much everything from my checklist is way to rare so it is not going to happen.
The great thing is you don't have to worry about it. Chad's Thundercock is taking care of it for you
>>84577444why not just lower your standards a bit>>84577618what
>>84577623>why not just lower your standards a bit
>>84577439nep and i are managing all that and more :>i didn't really think myself capable but i always said i sure as hell would try, and it seems i've been doing ok so far (or rather, we have)so anons, even if you don't think you can, try your best anywayyou just might surprise yourselves
>>84577439>like moving in togetherdon't see why not.>planning dates I don't understand dating so I guess not>visiting each others familiesshould be fine>making dinners togetherlove cooking so no problem>going through rough times togetheron my end I've probably gone through the hardest thing in my life already (brain tumor) so probably>managing disagreementsI can keep my cool to a point so idk
>>84577439>like moving in together I need to either get promoted or transfer to an higher paying position for that>planning dates Yeah>visiting each others families Yeah>making dinners together I know how to cook surprisingly >or going through rough times together and managing disagreements? Probably >could you really do it?I have to deal with my ESL hard headed mother, cunt dad, and cunt step father. I think I am up to task.
>>84577626don't like it when the tables are turned huh? stacysexual
>>84577439Well, there will definitely be things that I wont be looking forward to. But thats life, you are not always going to be comfortable 100 percent of the time.
>>84577439No, I couldn't. I can't even maintain a basic conversation or my looks, I feel so fundamentally worthless every time I go outside. I would not be strong enough to emotionally support someone, fuck them well and consistently, etc etc.
>>84579089Thank you for being the only honest person in this thread
>>84577439Probably not. Which is why I fantasize about having a role reversed relationship with a mommy domme.
>>84577439Yup. If he was my ideal we'd skip dating and go straight to getting married because we're batshit insane about one another.
>>84579492what happens when that fades and he starts becoming annoying to you? or stressful life events happen since that's what happens in reality
>>84577439that's actually kino. the picture.and yes. checklist says no high maintenance stuff. she can plan it because it's her hobby or something like that
>>84579512I have BPD, I'm not going to get sick of him. We'll fight sometimes, sure, but we'll talk it out and then have nasty sex afterwards.
>>84579559You are BPD. He will do some little (or big) thing and you'll ghost him.
No. Which is why I don't bother.
>>84577439Relationships are not supposed to take hard work.This view of love as a maintenance problem was mostly normalized by late 20th century Western media and American sitcoms in particular.Boomers and gen Xers coped with their failing marriages and dead bedrooms through the content they created; disproportionally featuring dysfunctional families, stunted adult characters and therapeutic vernacular.An entire generation of millennials then adopted this as the template for their own lives, mistaking it for an accurate representation of modern times.In reality it's trivial to get along with other people.I have male friends that I have never had an argument with in 20+ years of knowing each other.It doesn't require conscious effort to talk to them, it's not exhausting to make plans with them etc.We disagree about many things all the time, but it doesn't matter because we don't get angry at each other over unfiltered opinions.Making dinner together is supposed to be hard? Are you kidding?The only reason you expect all of these things to suddenly become an obstacle with a woman is because you've been taught that friction is a natural part of romance, by people who have never had a healthy relationship in their lives.The brutal truth is that if you are unable to interact with a woman normally, it's only because she's not attracted to you.
