>work at a restaurant for like 3 years>talk to all of my coworkers and am friendly with all of them>dont bother anyone and mind my own business in general besides that>talk shit about nobody and give rides to anyone who doesn't have a car>even let people use my vapes when they need it>find out today literally the entire staff went bowling without me, everyone was talking about it and nobody seemed to address the fact I wasn't there so I just didnt participate in the convongl today was a pretty gigantic blow to my confidence, i thought i finally shook off most of my autism and became somewhat likable but apparently nobody else thought so, they were talking about how "all the OGs were there" while ive been there longer than most of them and it was just embarrassing. anyone else here find out theyre unlikable in a surprising way?
>>84579428People at work keep inviting me to beer and pizzas but I always say no because I hate peopleHow do I be more like you?
>>84579428>>work at a restaurant for like 3 yearsgtfo NOW that shit will kill you
that sucks anon. im really sorry. it was really rude of them to do that
>>84579428They are just using you, they probably don't know you're autistic (unless you told them) but they likely sense that you're awkward/creepy/unsettling but they can't really work out why and so they separate themselves from you except when you provide something of value. I'm sorry but this is how we as autists come across to most normies, and most normies are heartless.You have three options1) confront them directly, like 'hey was there any reason you guys didn't invite me out to bowling?' And then maybe explain your autism and difficulties2) stop helping them3) leave and find a different jobYou can do any combination of the 3 options. You may get some sympathy and understanding and maybe get included by trying point 1 but no guarantees.Hanging around and continuing to help them won't make them any more likely to invite youSorry anon, I've been dealing with this for years.
>>84579480He should pic no.2 and start actively going out of his way to fuck them up
>>84579428Be the spiteful antisocial fuck that everyone is uncomfortable around but can't do anything about because you do your job well enough and management likes you. Works great for me. I also throw random scowls at people when I'm in a shitty mood, or ignore calls for help and nobody tries to say anything because my seniority dwarfs theirs.
