My mother deprived me of autonomous action my whole life, infantilized and shamed me at every turn, and now decade later she is perplexed why I just rot away and never do anything
Defy her in a small way each day and build on it I stopped giving a fuck about my mom's tantrums at a certain point and just started lying or going "so what"
>>84580190based mommyyou should thank her
>>84580190Nigger how old are you, stop blaming your parents for your choices.
Live a full life in spite of an in ignorance of that limitation as much as you can.The less time you think of her and the more you just live whatever events you do, the better.
>>84580190Having to hide every slight movement, emotion on my face, thought, and plan from my mother is how I learned to be invisible in plain sight. The talent of drawing no attention has been invaluable to me in my later life
>>84580190My mother was completely neglectful and didn't give a shit about me and I also just rot away and do nothing, you're probably overestimating the impact of parenting. Outside of extreme abuse I doubt it matters that much as long as the basics are covered (food, shelter, health, education).
>>84581500I wish we didn't have to be this way. . .
>>84581472You have no idea how hard this can fuck you up, yes it's your responsibility to crawl out of whichever hole you're in, but all OP did was simply state what was done to him.
My mum loves me lots and lets me live in her house at 29 years old
>>84581562You are OP yet to break through the dreamshell
>>84581562same but i hate her guts, she ruined my life, the OP is exactly what happened to me. treats me like a useless retard but then makes it so i can never do anything without making it agonizing.
>>84581578Why should I suffer in soiciety when I can live comfy with mommy?
>>84581621If you're truly happy, who am I to deny you?
