I have no clue why I'm going to r9k of all places to talk about this, it's my first post here but I've been lurking and commenting here for the last year or so.I just got rejected by a 10/10 Asian Girl for a Femboyand it genuinely seems to me that women I like, seem to detest me when they actually get to know me even if they find me attractive or find someone else "better than me, and I honestly I don't understand why or how I manage to mess up every single time. should I just settle for a chick who doesn't fit me or should I keep looking for a girl I actually like? how do I cope with having a shit personality, that actively turns women off?
>>84584937and I chose this pic because I unironically love Mita and wish more women were like her
>>84584937>I just got rejected by a 10/10 Asian Girl for a FemboySo she was already taken and you expected to seduce her?
>>84584954she rejected me and then asked out the femboy
>>84584937>how do I cope with having a shit personality, that actively turns women off?No such thing, you're just ugly
>>84584967There just happened to be a femboy near by?
>>84584975>even if they find me attractivemaybe I am missing that I'm just ugly, and they lie to me even when they are the ones to flirt with me first
>>84584987the femboy is my friend as well and he told me.
i was hoping for more from this, probably just impatient and hoping for too much
>>84584937please dont be so hard on yourselfyou dont have a 'shit personality', youve just been incompatible with the girls you likeyoull find the right person eventually, dont lose hope
>>84584937mita is so fucking hot
>>84585182thank you, I appreciate it. maybe there's still someone out there that will work for me, I like to keep hope, even if the results seem guaranteed
>>84585183I think the way she looks at you is very loving in a way where they are entirely amazed by you is the best part aside from her pretty design and nice personality
>>84585234it's over for us bro
also, I apologize for my bad grammar right now, but at least I'm intelligible
>>84585242Entirely so, I do fear.
>>84585264anyways, talk to me. what are your hobbies
>>84585269Airsoft is my biggest outdoors Hobbie I have, but I mostly like to dedicate time to God, and listen to music, I've been wanting to get into exploring abandoned buildings and spray painting though but i never actually get around to doing it. how about you?
>>84585301i like powerlifting, shooting, videogames. i haven't read anything in a long time and since i got fired from my job ive had a lot of free time...i just got my twic card though and im trying to get on a boat before september so i can make a decent amount of money so i can finally move out. or just travel. do you like reading
>>84584937>it genuinely seems to me that women I like, seem to detest me when they actually get to know meI can relate to that. I don't think I'm stunningly handsome, but it's enough to get women to approach me first and react with excitement when I agree to a date. Once we actually spend some time together, they run the other way. Doubt me, if you will, but I think being rejected because of your personality, is worse than being rejected because of your appearance. Looks are something you identify with only to a certain extent, but your personality is arguably what makes you who you are.
>>84585317I absolutely love Reading and Shooting, but for the shooting I sadly live in a state with strict gun laws and expensive ammo prices so I don't get to do that too much.what books do you read?also hoping for the best for you on that and are able to move out and travel soon.
>>84585345I entirely agree, it sucks especially when you try so hard to change but fail to. you for the most part can change your looks and take care of yourself, but changing who you are, seems impossible
>>84585351thank you for the wishes and the latest book i read was umm i think it was first steps by jeremy desilva i like reading about anthropology and archaic humans because they were really strong and that is a big reason of why i lift so much
>>84585381>specially when you try so hard to change but fail to>changing who you are, seems impossibleNot only that, but it also seems very intrusive. It doesn't feel like an improvement where you're breaking old, bad habits, but rather like you're exchanging the entire person altogether. At which point, is it too much to ask for?
>>84585414that's interesting, would you mind explaining how archaic humans make you wish to lift more do you want to be more like them? I'm genuinely curious about how those would correlate.
>>84585443I tried my best to make that not sound rude, really hope it didn't come off that way
>>84585428you're entirely right. it just sucks that you can't be perfect and fit in fully.
>>84585464Thank you for your attention, compassion and answers. I'm going to sleep. Have a good day robot.
>>84585482thank you for your time, I hope you sleep well
>>84585414I hope I didn't accidentally make this person feel insulted I really enjoyed our conversation thank you if you see this
>>84585443well, neanderthals are highly regarded to have high strength because they can tell by their bones and the way of their anthropometry. i intend to train hard enough to where i reach either near-neanderthal levels of strength or just a general elite modern human threshold of strength. I do this because if ever my bones are dug up, and osteological report could be written on how scarred my bones are from having heavy muscle attachment marks. i plan to do this naturally or enhanced
>>84584937In order to earn romantic association with a woman you need to become a monster. It's a paradoxical contradiction to what men are defaulted into thinking. There is absolutely no love, just sensuality and abuse. Sorry bud love isn't real. Women want to be hit and choked and slapped and showered with money.
>>84585627I wouldn't do enhancements personally, but it is nice to have something to work toward, you have a very interesting reason though I'll tell you that.how often do you lift?
>>84585689I'm going to go to sleep now, good night, all of you
>>84584937Maybe she wants you to be her best friend...
>>84584937>and it genuinely seems to me that women I like, seem to detest me when they actually get to know meThat cuts deep. Funny that what's on the inside can often be equally repulsive to women.
>>84584937>when they actually get to know meWhat exactly do they get to know? What're your personality traits/habits at this time?
