Upon being ghosted for the 20th time I have come to the conclusion romance is kind of dumb? I mean you are being vulnerable to this person who probably has fucked all of these people before you, dating, kissed all of these people, etc. at any point in the relationship they can get le ick and decide they actually arent attracted to you, they can cheat on you etcIt just seems like a humiliation ritualYou are most certainly getting heartbroken and for what? A dopamine hit? Just have one night stands instead, it is much more logical.
>>84587220Sour grapes again?
>>84587222Logical grapes brother.Sour grapes would be>WAHHH I CANT FIND A GF ILL BE ALONE FOREVERmeanwhile im like, ok? Lol ill just fuck random peopleIt is bliss, if anything. There is no sour.
>>84587238No, sour grapes is:>I want this thing>I can't get this thing>Therefore I will pretend that I don't want this thingAnd in your case:>Upon being ghosted for the 20th timeis very telling kek
>>84587244>pretendNope. I just genuinely dont care? I was PRETENDING to want a long term relationship before. But I actually dont. There is no problem. I feel like Im more honest with myself now than over. But thanks lol
>>84587238Bro acting like he doesnt care, but cares so much.I get that you didnt get lucky and meet a person you wanna spend your life with yet, but that isnt true in every case. Youll grow out of it, hopefully.
>>84587253It is pretty much always true unless you are Chad. I am not Chad so I will always suffer in that department. Anytime a girl can just decide>but Im not dating Chad so whats the pointIt is a futile effort. But thank you for your encouragement. But relationships are a fucking drain on me. I have to tiptoe around everything I say and do. Nothing feels genuinely good trying to pursue one anymore. It used to feel goodBut it doesnt
>>84587265The fact you think that you HAVE to be a chad is something that life will prove you wrong in. And hopefully youll let yourself grow out of the idea. But anyway uhh, i understand your relationship experience has been bad. The type of relationship where you have to tiptoe is not a stable or long term one, anyway. When you find your 'true' partner, you will able to be at ease with them. And be around them as if you were alone, except with added companionship and options. Youll see what i mean when you get there. I used to be in the posiriob you are in now, and now I am in a relationship of several years and its great, and worth waiting for. You just gotta get lucky once.
