Should I tell my future GF I had a "bi phase"? I identify as 100% straight nowadays but there are people that know I identified as bi at some point and did gay shit lol. Also I heard most women dislike bi men.
>>84590177>>84584516>>84584610I believe I replied to this yesterday so there ya go
>>84590183What's the point of being honest if the "lie" benefits both of us (her not being hella paranoid about me cheating on her with a cock and me not being rejected lol)?I wouldn't ever cheat my future GF/wife with anybody. Ever. So what's the point.
>>84590231Would you be happy of yoi gf used to be a prostitute and she lied to you about it(Same thing as lying about being gay)
>>84590177only bring it up if she asks
>>84590262Why would she tell me that, lol? I suppose I wouldn't care that much if she's hot and nice buuuut I even doubt a woman like that would accept I touched cock years ago. Even if I don't do it anymore.
>>84590231See here is just a fundamental difference in morality/worldview that we've come to. To me this whole notion of "what she doesn't know can't hurt her" is ridiculous, you are betraying her, you are taking away her agency and making her live a lie. Even if she does now know, I feel you are still doing wrong by her. But you simply do not feel this way, you will only consider the more material emotions that she is made to feel by what she perceives. I would at least want to somehow ascertain her feelings on this topic before deceiving her in this way, even though whether she agrees with being lied too isn't really too meaningful if you look at it how you are now...
>>84590365does not know*
>>84590177Just date a bi girl. Why do we overcomplicate things?
>>84590391Even bi girls don't really want bi guys. They prefer straight guys.
>>84590391Also I only top and monogamous. This kind of women may enjoy pegging or threesomes with another man and I don't want that.
>>84590177Just lie holy shit. Women are rarely honest so why should you do the same.
