My bf told me he is into clown girls, goth/emo girls and big butt Latinas. He used to pirate OF girls.Now I just don't want sex with him. It grosses me out for some reason. I tried to ignore it and have sex but I felt like shit. I felt stupid and ridiculous. I am thin with no tits or ass and he likes thicc girls apparently. I was a KHHV before him. I wonder if he is actually attracted to me or just dates me because we share life goals. I am definetly not his type. I dunno if I should breakup with him or have a relationship with no sex. I feel stupid and wish I didn't loose my virginity to him.I love him but I just can't get over this for some reason.
>>84594179>ignores obvious red flags >comes to incel board to complain about poor decisions >repeat you're gonna keep making the same fuck headed decisions until you die
>>84594179How do guys get women that are ok posting pictures of other women? I dated a girl that basically harassed me 24/7 about not looking at women or even gazing in their directionAnd then she was totally different to the next guys she dated
>>84594186Additionally>Dating some turbogooner retard>>84594179Female selection. You don't get to play victim, OP. Leave if you hate it.
>>84594186I just wonder if I am overreacting to this. I've been trying to forget it for months and I just can't for some reason.
>>84594179>My bf told me he is into-Wrong of him to say it outloud as if it wasn't an insensitive thing to say. I'd be weary
>>84594196Yeah but do you think I am overreacting? I meant to marry him but sex doesen't work because of this.
>>84594199Yeah but my therapist told me I'm just jealous and if he is with me he must like me.
>>84594198If its lingering on your mind like this, talk to him about it. We don't know your boyfriend but can only assume that yeah, he's a porn addict retard. Sometimes men will date just because they can, just so they're not lonely and if you do whatever he wants, whenever he wants, then yeah he's got himself a loyal toy
>>84594212No, I don't think you're overreacting at all, honestly. If I were in your position but rebersed I'd definitely be getting into an argument. And I'd be pissed.
>>84594223Yes, I wonder if he just dates me because I am kind and he was desperate. I am clearly not his type.
>>84594179People have types but types don't matter. Actual connections matter. Why are you upset at this?
>>84594234Ok, thank you anon. He even told me one OF girl he used to goon to (pic related) and she looks nothing like me.
>>84594244I feel like he uses me because he wanted a virgin tradwife but he doesen't actually feel attracted to me. He just finds me cute. I am way younger than him too.
>>84594179Most women get bigger butts as they get older. You'll get a bigger butt, OP. Don't leave your boyfriend just because of your butt not being big yet. This is a problem that time will solve.
>>84594238I really do feel like God fucks with us and gives you exactly the opposite of what you want until whatever. I love skinny flat girls but it seems only big girls are attracted to me
>>84594259how much younger LMAO please tell me you didn't fall for the "oh he's so much more mature than me"
>>84594260I mean I look just like my mom. We have the same body type. She is old and still has a small butt. Also its not about my butt. I just feel deeply uncomfortable about this and I don't know why.
>>845942688-9 years. I dunno, desu
>>84594271The problem is that sex means he owes you marriage yet you're unsure if he's marriage material
>>84594278I'm about to leave this thread and do something else but seriously talk it out with him. Don't make decisions based off random advice and even advice from friends. You know your own relationship the best and you are old enough to communicate with him and tell him what's going on I can't tell you how many relationships ended that didn't have to just because my partner could not communicate. It's made me bitter so I beat being a better person into everyone who comes in contact with me
>>84594283But my only problem with him is the Goth Latina clowngirl thing. Well, I also dislike that he is Catholic and wants me to be a Catholic too when Im an atheist.
>>84594294Did you learn about these things before or after you had sex?
>>84594259>he isn't attracted to me>he finds me cuteI don't get what you're trying to say here.
>>84594290Ok thank you so much, Ill talk with him. The thing is he will say any lie to get me to stay. I hope you have a nice day
>>84594294>I also dislike that he is Catholic and wants me to be a Catholic too when Im an atheist.I'm religious, and I dislike that he wants you be religious while lying and having premarital sex. Why should you be a Catholic when that's how they act?
>>84594303After. He had mentioned he liked Goth girls and stuff but I didn't know about the pirate OF thicc girls.
>>84594245If it's any consolation I think that girl is fucking ugly looking.
>>84594304Cute like in adorable. Like you find your pet cute.
>>84594314He had been with 8 girls before me. That also freaks me out but I guess its normal for his age.A funny thing is I had my Communion and he doesn't have it.
>>84594322Consider this: If you start going to church with him, you gain the power to publicly shame him, and if you use it, then you don't have to go back to church.
>>84594317Thanks, for some reason this kinda made me feel better. I see her pictures on a daily basis because I know he used to goon to her and I compare myself to her a lot.
>>84594334I don't want to shame him nor go to Church. I would feel like a hypocrite going to Church, I don't believe in God. I tried to pray and stuff but I feel like no one is really hearing me.
>>84594319That's wrong when it comes to guys. Cute is better than hot. Hot means they only want to fuck you. Cute is they want to love you.
>>84594342>I feel like no one is really hearing me.What?
>>84594358When I pray, I feel like there is no God.
>>84594365OK, I forgot my name.
Will I not be able to get a gf if I like clown girls?
>>84594179you're not wrong to question it. he should know better to not tell you about his porn habits. you'll never shake this from your mind, and all you can do is break up with him or else draw out a relationship that you'll never feel the same in. normal men understand to conceal this kind of thing, that it will make their gfs insecure, and that porn is a disgusting and unseemly thing to women. ideally porn occupies a part of the mind that still acknowledges the shame in it, but to unveil that and casually remark about it, to somebody you should always care to impress, is a sign he's not serious enough about you. stop being retarded.
>>84594337She looks like trailer trash, so if you're doing better than her you're good.
>>84594420If Clown Girls Wear That Muck Make UpHow Do You Know She Isn't 87 Years Old
>>84594505She'd feel like prunes.
>>84594518Ben Franklin famously made a written account to the contrary.
>>84594523What did the account entail?
>>84594528"Regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement."
>>84594532Well I'll trust his word on it. I guess I'm fine with an older clown girl then.
>>84594365Is there a specific reason or is it just a feeling?
>>84594634A feeling. I can't have faith. I tried but I can't.
>sexhaver degenerate>pretends to be a foid>posts a random whore>will never be a woman>acts dumb>pretends to ask for /adv/
>>84594678I won't post a picture of my boobs with a timestamp. If you don't trust me fuck you.
>>84594678I am not dumb, fuck you again.
>>84594179Just cheat on him. Moids like that deserve pure suffering Also you have cuckquean mentality by using this picture for your post. Stop being that pathetic and do better
Update: we are now concluding I am just "jealous" of those girls and need to work on my self esteem. Is he right?
>>84594827I wouldn't cheat and yes, I am pathetic.
>>84594676Huh... I'm sorry but i don't believe in you. Not like i don't think you're being sincere but while you're searching for truth you there will always be the possibility of faith. I'm sorry if it's too hard for you, anon, maybe you're having trouble with the problem of evil or subconsciously wants to live a guilt free sinful life. Absolutely no judgement, i'm just wondering and am going to pray for you.
>>84594191>And then she was totally different to the next guys she datedYou didn't make her feel secure, they did. Did you ever compliment her, take her on dates consistently, etc that matters quite a lot. If she felt like your attention was elsewhere, it could be an obvious reason for the different behavior she had with you.
>>84594179>nearly got fat tiddied clussy>got nudes and everything>ghostedFUCK you yahweh you kike cocksucker. Fuck, you.
>>84594179We all settle unless we're millionaires that can shop for the perfect gf. Put out or fuck off. If he's delivering the dick or going down on you, do your part. I'm sure you have ideals that aren't him too.
>>84594179Just because he likes certain body types doesn't mean he doesn't also like others. I like both big and small boobs, they have their pros and cons. I think you're overreacting here by thinking he's not attracted to you. But if those thoughts really bother you so much, you should just talk to him and ask what he thinks of your body.
That's normal, porn addicts never make good partners. Unfortunately men are shit, and virtually all of them are porn addicts.
>>84594179you being thin with no tits and ass doesn't matter if you cosplay clussy for himdo it
>>84594179your bf is tard that doesn't understand how women works and fucked up bad. I feel like both genders should be seperately taught all the evolutionary stuff known in a highschool class. but people think pointing out different selective pressure genders went through somehow makes things unequal so never gonna happen and it leads to situation like yoursfrom guy's prospective, men are literally into 100% of reproductive aged females that are non-obese non-smelly non-diseased, women are not big fan of this fact and would specific obsession, which guys sort of develop but attraction works differentlyidk how autistic or chadlite he is, so can't tell if he intends to get rid of you given the chance or just honestymaxxing tism. I think you'd still be into him despite it if he was chadlite, I suppose he is not. women remain interested in guys if they think they can lose him to local stacy but she still has to be able to think she has a chance to prevent it. if she thinks there's no way to compete in things like porn, she'll get depressed or brainfucked, or look to hop elsewhere
