Is it normal to not want or have sex even while in a relationship. Am I defective for my fear of sex or am I on another level of enlightenment. Much to think about. My virginity is the only thing I have control of in my life.
youre on 4cuck right now so youre probably defective not enlightened
>>84596046>Is it normal to not want or have sex even while in a relationshipNo you are mentally ill
>>84596046Do you have vaginsmus? This seems like something you need to discuss with your partner not 4chan. Also being a virgin doesn't make you a better person. I'm a virgin and I'm an asshole.
As long as you'll edge me and let me eat you out theres no pressure, I'd be satisfied.
>>84596046is that lalah from mobile suit gundam???
>>84596058I mean I guess so. >>84596111I have discussed this with my bf and doctor. They both say the same thing. Just take your time. What if I do not want sex at all.>>84596131Who the hell are you >>84596138Yes. I love Lalah and I love char
>>84596246>Yes. I love Lalah and I love charBASED!!!I personally liked kamille a lot.what's your favorite gundam series?
>>84596046You're probably never going to have a long lasting relationship if you don't fuck. Like part of a relationship is sex and shared intimacy. Not having sex would probably have the relationship fizzle the fuck out into feelings more like roommates
>>84596291I love the original gundam so 79 to CCA. I think I love char too much to look at other series.>picrel
>>84596309I mean theres other way to be physical I think. Like cuddling or dry humping.
>>84596319ohhh that's a cool bag!and same I think the UC timeline should've ended at char's counterattack.the hathaway book was a nice epilogue though! the movie adaptation of the first volume was pretty lame in my opinion.some of the OVAs from the 80s and 90s that take place during the one year war were pretty good too. but everything else is just not that interesting,
>>84596338lmao what. Babe I know you want to go raw inside me and explode but what about just hugging and watching netflix? Or grinding your lil peanut on my leg?
>>84596361Yesss you get it. I think Hathaway is a good side B story thing but thats about it honestly. Chars deleted affair is pretty good even tho its kinda not canon. The art is pretty tho
>>84596394I cant really get inside of anybody since I dont have a dick. Cest la vie
>>84596046>Am I defective for my fear of sexYes and you should be ashamed.You are a genetic dead end who gives nothing to society and should be treated with utter contempt
>>84596401the ending of hathaway made me tear up a bit to be hoenst.>Chars deleted affair is pretty good even tho its kinda not canonI don't remember this, was that in the high streamer book? it's been like 4 years since I watched gundam and read the books, sorry
>>84596428Its a manga that involves haman and char.
>>84596046>Is it normal to not want or have sex even while in a relationship.Generally speaking no, it's not normal. >Am I defective for my fear of sex Yeah, it's usually something most would seek professional help about. It's one thing to choose not to have sex and it's another to have fear of sex. Talk to a psychologist or something about it. Don't seek validation on this pit of degeneracy.
>>84596417I dont really understand what youre trying to say here anon
>>84596461I have gotten professional help and they all say some shit about exposing myself or trying things with people. Literally going >yeah you should slut aroundWhich is fucked.
>>84596338Fucking kek. If you think cuddling is anywhere near as intimate as sex you're crazy. Cuddling is like a tease or snuggle in comparison to sex. Also if you gonna dry hump someone why not just fuck?
>>84596046repressed memories of rape. For me it was repressed memories keeping me virgin till I'm now 36 almost, I didn't find out until 2 years ago.
>>84596575I am sorry about that anon. I hope brighter and lighter days are ahead of you.
>>84596438oh yeah I know about that one but never read it
>>84596553From people Ive asked who had sex they all say its not all that. So I dont see the need to have it. People give away sex too easily now of days
>>84596611Well it sure can't get any worse haha, little joke, thanks anon I appreciate it
It's okay to fear it. Your fear is mostly unfounded, though. It may hurt a bit the first time or two if you never penetrated yourself with a dildo and you are really anxious. It's mostly an anxiety thing. The odd thing is that it just feels weird and different. Like it's a warm blooded being putting himself into you, instead of a dildo. It feels really awkward during that first time, but not really in a bad way. Just relax. I know it's easier said then done, but it makes everything so much better. Do whatever you can to get relaxed.
>>84596046basically you are defective if youve been around very attractive and hot people without desiring to have sex. you are what is called a failed product in nature, something about the real world has determined you shouldnt or cant reproduce and are destined for the recycle box.
>>84596681I wish there was a way to have sex with no penetration. I wish there was a way to be a forever virgin
>>84596699I think people are more so defective if they only think about sex if they see a hot person. I do have a libido I just dont act on it or hump my pillow. I dont imagine myself fucking random people
>>84596338Dry humping doesn't create babies. You can be asexual all you want but accept that most men will not ever date you if you don't give them sexual satisfaction. Better off looking for female or gay friends at that point.
>>84596480I do admit that sounds like shit advice and not what I would expect from professionals. Not sure if you just had bad luck with docs or if psychology has taken a nosedive in quality since the decade and a half since I last seen a pro head doc. Ideally it would be something you would talk through and explore the root cause of (which I am not going to attempt to do) and once that is figured out then explore ways of changing your mindset or recontextualize things to more positive and adaptive thought patterns. That said, anons aren't really equipped to guide you through such a process. It is seriously a shame professionals would not follow such guidelines since from what I have read (in the past and half remembered) talk therapy followed by cognitive behavioral therapy would be the industry standard for fear/anxiety related to sex. But I am out of the loop, so maybe I am wrong. If it's possible you might end up having to try a different (hopefully more competent) doc.
>>84596414(someone understands nph fetish)me happy :)
>>84596824What does this mean anon huh what
>>84596753With the way the world is looking I do not see myself bringing a child into. I wouldnt mind having a kid however the world sucks
>>84597140How do you feel about this inability to penetrate?
>>84597168I dont really care. I have no feelings for it at all.
>>84597181I'm happy to know you're fine being impotentNot everyone manages to come to terms with being unable to fuck and penetrate.
>>84597306Why does it matter. I dont want sex regardless
>>84597149The world was always shit. Don't blame the state of the world. It's okay to admit you don't want children.
>>84596046are you fembrown, and why dont u want to penetrated by white moid penis
>>84597345It's fine if you're dicklessBut have you ever thought about what it would be like to finally have something to work with down there? To no longer be limited by your own anatomy? To be able to take control and use your partner's holes for your own pleasure?Fucking deep into a tight, wet hole, claiming it as your own. The power, the control, the absolute bliss...
>>84597434But I do want kids. I just dont want my child in a shitty situation
>>84597444I am too asexual for this if Im being honest it also sounds like pooner shit
>>84597441I am dating a white guy. Sex just scary. Shrimple as that
>>84597478shrimple as you say
