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I moderate Reddit and have seen so many people, not losing virginity is very hard.

I refuse to believe ''incels'' are real.

What is your excuse chuddies?
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>>84603911
Are you fuckin stupid? Yes there are tons of folks who focus on studying when it's time to focus on studying. They have sex later in life. "Dance and drink and screw because there's nothing else to do" is very much a philosophy for common (poor) people.
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>>84603911
>What is your excuse chuddies?
i have the personality of a fish
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you are trying too hard tho
>I moderate reddit
>incels aren't real
>what's your excuse
Checking almost every box
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>>84603954
incel mogged by a reddit mod

brutal
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>>84603964
that doesn't even make sense desu
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Bait aside, I'm antisocial and pathetic and fat, that's why.
>that video
Difficult to not believe she is doing that for the money. Anyway, how I wish someone licked me like that, holy shit.
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>>84603911
>Are there really people over 21 here who are virgins?
yes
>I refuse to believe ''incels'' are real.
they're usually volcels, not incels.
>What is your excuse chad?
I did not want to have sex for a variety of reasons, including being very, terribly insecure, anxious, and completely retarded as a teenager. Nowadays I just reject single moms or whores who want to cheat on their husbands with me. Used goods with ink are also rejected, because I know how retarded and whorish they are.
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>>84603911
>>84604044
25, khhv, never had a girl be interested in me ever. Never had a single occasion to date or have sex despite actively trying. Tell me how i am a volcel
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>>84603911
The unbelievable immodesty of that armpit reveal
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>>84604170
I was talking about myself, not about you. But if you insist, then you're a volcel because you won't get a prostitute or an escort. I won't do that either, but the difference is, that I accept being a volcel chad.
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>>84604192
>prostitute or an escort
Both Illegal in my country
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>>84604199
>doesn't know he can go on vacation and cross a border
nigger, please.
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>>84604205
Bro spend thousands of euros and hours in transports just to pay hundreds of euros to shag a whore
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>>84604320
since you're in the EU, most likely you can literally drive your own car, with no borders, into a neighbourhing country in under 8 hours. Plenty of EU countries have legalized prostitution/escorts.
>hundreds of euros
is it this expensive nowadays? Last time I checked in Germany the official, quality baseline (not street walker) started at like 50 euro/30 minutes or something. But that was quite a few years ago. On the other hand 30 minutes is plenty of time too.
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>>84604320
>thousands of euros
This implies being in the Eurozone and being able to take a cheap train to Germany, the land of cheap whores.
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>>84604192
>then you're a volcel because you won't get a prostitute or an escort

This narrative is fucking annoying. Sex with a prostitute is not the same as a sex with a woman who actually wants to be around you.
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>>84604404
that's being a goalpost moving dicksucker. celibacy meaning only relates to two things: marriage and having sex. No feefees or any other horseshit. We all know self proclaimed "incels" aren't talking strictly about marriage.
Since incels refuse to get/have sex, they simply lose the "'involuntary" part, and simply become celibate. voluntarily.
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>>84604419
It's not about marriage. It's about a simple relationship. It's about cuddling, it's about going on dates together. It's about someone sharing their life with you.

Get out of here with this shit.
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>>84603911
It's not hard at all if you're wired differently. I could have gotten laid in high school if I was more comfortable with other people but I always had my guard up because I was afraid of getting hurt. This is probably ragebait but whatever, it's hard to tell because a lot of people act exactly the same in totally predictable ways so maybe you just can't imagine--
>I moderate Reddit
Hahahaha never mind!
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>>84604404
also, it is indeed a common misconception and a false narrative that professional prostitutes won't enjoy having sex with you and won't like you as a person/lover, ever. It depends on the prostitute and on you. Choose correctly, you might/should even have a short dialogue with her before closing the deal.
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Losing your virginity is not hard at all. That's just how shitty incels actually are. Just look at Elliott Rodger: he had everything and they were stacked in his favor of really no real chance of failing. Yet still epically failed on a grand scale. That's incels for you.
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>>84604433
very well, nigger. Too bad it has nothing to do with the actual definition of celibacy. Then call yourself a relationshiplet or a lovelet, or a romancelet, or something.
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>>84603911
I'd reply seriously as to why I have an unused penis at 34 but these threads always devolve into shitflinging instead of serious discussions.
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>>84603911
i am 27.
born in 1999.
middle4v school crush (never acted upon 5th-9th grade 2009-2014)
high school crush (2015-(graduation 2017)-2020
haven't fixated for a long period of time on anybody specific
schizoid years (2020-present).
not an incel
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>>84604435
>>84604438

Jesus Christ, If you really think prostitution can even come close to a real relationship, you're deluded as fuck.

That's what inceldom is: You're unable to get sex from a woman who likes you and wants to spend time around you.
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>>84604355
>>84604371
>drive your own car, with no borders, into a neighbourhing country in under 8 hours. Plenty of EU countries have legalized prostitution/escorts
>bro just buy a car or take 10+ hours of train then pay 200 euros for a prostitute
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>>84603911
I'm antisocial and ugly. If my looks don't repel women enough, my sperginess will surely finish the job.
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>>84604474
find a prostitute who somewhat likes your apperance and pay her well and she will want o spend this payed time around you. You're adding pointless qualifiers in a pointless discussion. I know what you tards think inceldom is, but you are wrong, because celibacy aren't feefees. You faggots are so brainwashed with romance bullshit it's fucking insane. How can you be an incel for so long and not blackpilled? Retard.
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>>84604483
Why did you choose to be born in the most remote prostituteless corner of the Eurozone instead of being born IN GERMANY?
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>>84604494
>why did you chose to be born
Oh so this is a troll thread.
Got it
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>>84604492
No matter how blackpilled you are, paying for pussy will never match the feeling of going on picnics with a woman, giving her flowers, going on trips, etc.

I will never be delusional enough to think otherwise.
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>>84604512
>I will never be delusional enough to think otherwise.
you are literally a clinical retard and here is why. Follow the simple logic, mongoloid.
>giving her flowers
costs money and attention
>going on trips
costs money, energy, time
>going on picnics with a woman
costs money, energy, time, effort
>etc..
costs your time and money, and other resources. You're paying anyway.
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>>84604508
In fact I'm looking at a map and what, you're an Irishfag or frog living in Brittany or the empty diagonal? Everyone else who has the Euro is pretty close to fuckable whores.
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>>84604531
And what's the alternative, shit for brains...

Fucking some dirty prostitute in a filthy hotel room and you going back to your sad life

This shit is cope and you know it
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>>84604537
>empty diagonal.
Yes. Right in the middle of it
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>>84604559
the alternative is the logical consistency and a real blackpill. not this self-pitying redpill kindergarten bullshit.
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>>84604561
Why don't you simply will the romanticized idea of France we have from the outside into reality and make it so that every Frenchwoman is a slut who'll be down to fuck you?
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I am 23 and an incel. I cant get sex despite looksmaxing. Probably because I have bad social skills or something. I dont know. I dont have friends either
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I lost my v-card at 25 after years of depression and alcoholism and now I am rather successful on dating apps.. Still not as much as I'd like to, but I schedule dates and fuck around very easily thanks to my skills and average looks

>>84603911
>vid
good for him. That's a lucky guy. She seems batshit insane over him (and in general). I bet she is just all over him in bed, and for whatever reason very into whatever he has suffering from. Lucky draw in terms of getting a partner.
>>84604034
>Difficult to not believe she is doing that for the money.

Nope, she's not doing it for money. Looks very authentic lustful desire.
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>>84603911
It is essy for me
No girl liked me. Really that simple guess I'm more unattractive than a handicapped person
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>>84603911
There simply is no way that there exists a woman in this world not utterly repulsed by this kind of "relationship". She more than likely sleeps on the side.
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>>84604599
How are you successful on dating apps with average looks when there are way more men than there are women, the apps are full of bots, and most guys barely get any likes and matches? Can you describe what your profile is like? What kind of photos do you use on dating apps? What do you usually do after matching with a woman?
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>>84604595
I have no idea what you mean by that.
French women dont really like french men and my region has no women whatsoever anyway
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>>84603911
I was morbidly obese and antisocial in high school. By the time I got in better shape and more socially adept I was well into my 20s and no woman wants a salvage operation partner.
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>>84604667
>I have no idea what you mean by that.
Just the stereotype about French people having lots of sexy time/being promiscuous.
>my region has no women whatsoever
Based gay frogs who eliminated foids and evolved to reproduce without them.
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>>84604674
>Just the stereotype about French people having lots of sexy time/being promiscuous.
Idk where that comes from nor do i know anyone like that
> gay frogs who eliminated foids and evolved to reproduce without them.
Not even memeing. The gender ratio anywhere outside of paris is completely fucked
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>>84603911
>What is your excuse chuddies?
I'm lazy and don't talk to women
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>never had a girlfriend
>mostly work from home job and no opportunity to meet women
>prostitution is too much hassle/money/not that desperate to lose virginity
28 btw
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>>84603911
I'm 28 and a virgin
>What is your excuse chuddies?
I'm ugly and mentally ill
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>>84604628
Fair questions. I have worked on getting good pics, they're of me in various settings. And I've gotten good at chatting, idk. I am aware that many guys dont get likes or matches. You need a good first pic (SMILE!), a pic with friends for social proof.. some cool activity, playful foto.. some candid.. I have worked on first getting out of my comfort zone by traveling and staying in hostels + living with roommates, so that gave me exposure to people and proximity to deal with my social awkwardness.

What I say after matching ofc depends on the profile, sometimes there is something to reference

My way of doing it is not 1 trick, more like a chain of small behaviours. most guys think its about looks but really its about pacing and vibe. You factor in playfulness, social calibration, creating a momentum.. for example i create little inside jokes. I make up a small fantasy in the convo tghat involves us both (my go-to's are starting a funny business together, running away together..)

I always try to create curiostity and make the interaction feel different. I make it like a mini emotional experience. Also if i have nothing to add im just like 'if u were a bird where'd u fly to' and then they respond and im like 'ok ill join u on the condition that we make a detour to watch the aurora borealis first' and bam you have some silly shared fantasy

I also travel a lot so that plays in my favour i got some cool travel pics.

hope this somewhat helped
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>>84603911
I'm 25 and I have never even talked to a woman in a romantic/flirty way let alone kiss her or hold her hands. Having sex is a complete fantasy for me, it doesn't feel like something real or achievable. I'm not even heavily autistic, I'm pretty social and I have a decent career, it's just that women have always been completely out of my reach.
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>>84605321
> I have never even talked to a woman in a romantic/flirty way let alone kiss her or hold her hands.
Go talk to WAmen then. Go out in public, but make sure you look your best first, and converse with some.

It'll just be practice for talking and making your way up

I honestly won't even what to do this as I'm in my college years and don't have to go out of my way to get started on the basics.

Still, losing your virginity as a male is pretty difficult
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>>84605350
>Go talk to WAmen
What's so special about men from Washington state?
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>>84605321
This. Not getting girls has nothing to do with being autistic.
It has everything to do with whether or not you eventually got girls during the one period of life you're allowed to be awkward (teens through high school).
If you didn't have sex by getting to college, you're basically fucked since it's expected to know how to be open it and pursue it.
I got homeschooled and never even talked to girls, but had to be an expert on sex and women before I even talked to one the first time if I wanted to stand a chance.
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>>84603911
Can you stop posting this specific couple to prove looks don't matter or some shit
This is like if I posted siamese twins to prove you can grow two heads if you really want to. Find a different example if this is as common as you say
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>>84605377
>parents homeschool you but wont teach you how to seduce and fuck your mom to give you this critical skill development experience
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>>84603911
32, KHHV, liberal arts degree, no physical or mental disability, involuntarily jobless(I apply to like a thousand minimum wage jobs a year and live in NYC), total lifetime earning: $350, no history of troubles with law, live in the same room with broke parents who works minimum wage.
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>>84603911
To be honest, I really don't know.

I don't think I'm terrible looking facially, I have my own apartment, car, a decent job, I'm 6'3 and in decent shape. On paper i feel i should have had at least one gf by now
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>>84603911
I wonder how long she'd stay with him if he lost his job.
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>>84603911
>I refuse to believe ''incels'' are real.

Just look at the numbers.

80% of women want the 10% of men who are chads. That leaves 90% of men trying to get the remaining 20% of women. Dating apps are over 80% men. After #MeToo, men who try to initiate contact with women are now "creeps" and "harassers" (unless they're chad), so the bottom 90% of men don't even try anymore.

Given all that, it wouldn't surprise me if half of all guys are incels.
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>>84607083
Most normies men are incels in denial. Even the married ones' wives will leave them the second they lose their income.
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>>84603911
I was this close to wifing up a methhead wigger filipina who had a fat hairy man fetish and i hate myself for not doing it
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>>84603911
nigga im 40 years old. real life "40 year old virgin", not even kidding. it just never happened. probably because im a creepy weirdo, idk. im even 6'0'', in decent shape.
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>>84603911
I don't ignore red flags.
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>>84603911
I've typed mine before, but here we go again.

I lost mine at 29, but there are many factors.

Highschool
>didn't realize my sexual awakening until 17
I had late puberty, I was 5'6 when I was 16, but ended up 6'1 at 22.
>went to a small highschool with a class of 50
>the girls were all dating 24 year old dudes because the age of consent was 17 in my state.


>first college is a tech school
.>2/3 female to male ratio
>in the countryside and everyone looks like shit
>so bad that a girl fucked a dude and cuddled with another in the same night
>the same girl actually mooned me and teased me, but I couldn't fuck her because she always had 3 dudes on her.

>second college
>art college
>most girls are fat weebs
>most are hung up on a dude from home, want fembois, or got shacked up with a dude the first week and stuck with him throughout college
>I actually got a bj, but the girl didn't want to go all the way, because she legit thought I was autistic and it would be "immoral"
>another girl waned to hangout with me everyday, but wasn't attracted to me because I wasn't an anime femboi
>supposedly she felt bad about it, and wanted my gay suitemate, but nothing came of that.
>she is now a gender non-binary with a bad dyke haircut.
>tried to get with another girl, she was always nice to me, but she basically kept me around to keep the simps away

>Post college
>everyone from my highschool class has kids out of wedlock now or is married
>pickings are slim
>got laid to an art hoe a couple years after college ended.
>she is a lesbian as a public face, but fucks me on the side
>she dies after knowing her for 8 years
>move to a different state
>make good money but it's impossible to get laid because people here are anti-social as fuck
they all think 11 miles is far, and get offended easily.
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>>84603911
real human bodies are disgusting so no thanks.
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My gf is a 24 yr old virgin by choice until now. She has decided that ill be her first
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>>84604419
I disagree. The original definition of celibacy refers strictly to being unmarried. This is the definition still used by the Catholic Church. Not having sex is 'continence.' Voluntary celibacy implies that you have made a deliberate voluntary decision to remain unmarried, like a priest, monk or nun. Not that you just happen to be unmarried through circumstance.
In the secular world, 'long term relationship' is practically equivalent to marriage (In some countries, it is legally as well. In Canada, there was a couple who lived at separate addresses, and when they broke up, the man still got divorce raped, even though they weren't even cohabitating)
So it makes sense for incel to refer to people who wish to be in a relationship with someone, but are not.
In addition, many of the people who self identify as being incels express that they primarily desire love and a relationship, not just sex. If fact, many have seen prostitutes, and have found it unsatisfactory because they desire more than just sex. Surely it makes more sense to use the definition used by the community that self identify as incel, rather than the definition that exists in general popular culture that has misperceptions about that community?
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>>84604508
vERitY weLL MAH NigRA
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>>84607083
Internet Foidism/Femtardery was a mistake, I want to know why they kicked them out from gaia to crystal cafe???
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>>84608849
I live in 2026, not 1126. I don't give a single fuck about religion.
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>>84607653
NIGRA I'm a 43 kushan/avar/sorbian/moro/gitano/chut jew diagonal cicada, wog/chocolate frog mystery meat, darkie armenid-celt mofo living in ozworld.

I wasn't allowed to be an awkward autist as a teen, even my normie parents clowned on me in highschool same with relatives and I'm 6'6/average face with a stem uni degree chronically out of work since covid(Shid I even did the daniel-san montage back when it was cool in the 90's).
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>>84608966
>6'6
Nigga what the fuck you have it on easy mode and still can't get past the tutorial
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>>84603911
This video is performative and evil and you are deranged if you think this represents reality in any way
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>>84603911
>Are there really people over 21 here who are virgins?
Yeah
>I moderate Reddit
Lame
>and have seen so many people, not losing virginity is very hard.
So you read about people's sex stories?
>I refuse to believe ''incels'' are real.
Unfortunately they are
>What is your excuse chuddies?
I just don't know how to talk to women I find attractive.
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There are moderate virgins also



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