r9k what are your standards for a relationship partner?
I don't know, she will visit me this summer, she is still on the University Collage of London BSC Psychology university, So she is in college but i didn't fuck her yet, i wasted a bit of time now im on better shape
>>84610971My equal unironicallyNot merely looksmatched, but more so in terms of personality, financially, and I guess bonus points if she's also on the spectrum
>>84610971I've never been in one so I don't know what I really want but I would like someone I'm attracted to, share similar values to, like being around/talking to. And they should be someone who isn't disqualified in some way from marriage because why waste time in that way, or have a bunch of relationships that will go nowhere instead of a couple which might, or have a relationship knowing you must part ways? For others, perhaps, but not for me.
>>me>Low value female>>What I like in a man>Intelligent>Not overweight>Loves me with all his heart>Cool eye colour>Not baldI know I won't get this btw before you guys tell me, I have come to peace with it
>>84611004if that's you, consider losing weight. you'll feel better about yourself, feel healthier and at worst will be a mid level female. won't be easy but it's worth the effort.
>>84611020Anon this is amberlyn reid not me
>>84610971not obesehas a jobcan pay for her share of living expenseshas plans for the future and the drive to pursue themenjoys frequent sex
>>84611029I have no idea who that is but the advice still stands, being fat is about the worst thing you can do for yourself, male or female. It's so incredibly unhealthy and I hate seeing people kill themselves that way.
>>84610971>r9k what are your standards for a relationship partner?To be kind, have somewhat traditional values, and genuinely want to make me happy as I would want to make her. That's all.
>>84611060I hear you although I am not overweight
>>84610971i like guys who have at least slightly quirky/niche/nerdy interests because i just think its cool and interesting to talk to people like that. also they have to be kind of course :)
>>84611004Crazy that I don't meet your requirements because I have shit coloured eyes.
>3 years within my age range (23)>female>not obese or anorexically skinny>virgin>not a druggie>not a leftie>Christian or willing to convert>not a flat ass
>>84611104You would find vidya and history off putting I bet.
>>84610971I just want someone who loves me.Nobody has met that so far.
>>84611184I mean there is got to be someone
>>84611174not at all!! i like history nerds and and gamers and i have had big crushes on guys who are really into HOI and things like that lol.im not sure why specifically i am drawn to this because i dont really have much interest in history myself. I think i just like how this sort of guy is so enthusiastic about their interests, it is kind of sweet
>>84610971I don't want a relationship. It's more trouble than it's worth. I've been hurt too many times not just by relationships, but friendships too. All I want is to be left alone.
>>84611265How old are you and do you want to call I am alone too
>>84611273I'm 19. And why would you want to call with me?
>>84610971They have to be a woman that I find attractiveShe has to be patient with me and my autism (unrealistic standard)She has to be very trustworthy (unrealistic standard)She has to like me (unrealistic standard)That's it>why are these unrealistic???Because i'm an aspergers NEET khhv wizard with sensory problems and I get stressed easily and also I have no driver's licence. Basically, I need a woman that wants to be a special needs carer outside her job (if she has one, she doesn't have to, idgaf, i get autism bux)
EXCLUSIVELY Chad Thundercock only heehee
>>84611104I am am of those things and I get ghosted constantly. I genuinely feel like there's a curse on me or something or maybe I'm in the tea app or whatever because women always just suddenly leave
>>84611343It's because women don't actually like nerdy weird guys. They want a hot bf who maybe just acts a little quirky or shares one of their own personal nerd interests but is otherwise still a "real man" it's always a lie.
>>84610971Just be skinny, have your own hobbies, and treats her body right Women are so genuinely awful these days that my bar is currently in hell and I still keep getting disappointed.
>>84611247Well I don't play hoi4 and I just read about history on wiki or watch something on youtube. I do play plenty of vidya though.
>>84611363I'm more of a real man than any of the fuck boys these same girls blow me off for. I feel like being an autistic man is just a curse. I don't want to date anyone anymore,I keep getting hurt because apparently being a good person is wrong
>>84611377what games do you play?>>84611343>>84611388I am sorry about your negative experiences anon. i hope that you are able to meet kinder women who like you and your interests :)
>>84611004I am all of those things but I am still alone.women will say that's all they want, but as soon as you start to open up and be vulnerable they get the ick. But I guess that's on me.All I want is someone I don't have to be fake around, and who I find cute. That's it.
noneas in no relationships
>>84611466Recently I've been playing skyrim, elden ring, nier and even a little bit plants vs zombies. I play a lot of different stuff but mostly rpgs. Do you play anything?
>>84611518How old are you male anon
>>84610971>loves me and is attracted to me>isn't a violent psycho>doesn't want kids
>>84611527i havent played that many games lately, just some minecraft and sonic mania. I had a really big osu phase previously but havent played for a while.my all time favourites are def skyrim, terraria, and portal 2 (especially skyrim <333 such a fun game)
>>84611531I'm in my 30s. I basically stopped caring about pursuing any relationships for the past 10 years. But every so often I get that twinge of "wouldn't it be nice..." before I ultimately fail and then sink back down into my resignation.
>>84611577I mean I can't comment since you don't know if you would love me and you commented on my reply which includes that
>>84611563people don't like you because you're a pessimistic faggot who always brings the mood down. die alone
>>84611560Yeah pretty much this, however everyone is a violent psycho who hates me and wants kids.
Women are so shit it feels unrealistic to actually expect something from them. My standards are rock bottom, it's what she hasn't done. Never had sex, never been fat, never had tattoos, never used to be a man, never fell for feminist ideology.This is like 0% of the population already so basic bare minimum standards like same race, same religion, same language, seem kind of pointless to add. I would add never went to college with the ideal negativas, but that feels kind of redundant.I'm not sure if positive traits can really count for women since a woman seems defined mostly by what she isn't, or what she has in common with someone. Negative and equal trains. So many women are quite vocal about hating kids, hating animals, hating nature, hating good.
>>84611563Cool. What else do you have an interest in?
>white>blond with blue eyes>at least 190 cm>at least 20 cm uncut cock that's as thick as a soda can
>>84610971male, skinny anorexic twink/feminine, hairless from nose to toe, medium hair length (curly) not going below shoulder, the same ethnicity and skintone as me, around my age, we can play vidya, do drugs, cut ourselves, watch gore together, cuddle at night and be neets or whatever they want. (picrel is my type of guy and what i inspire to look like) ive always wanted someone like me, wanted to clone myself, and i masturbate to myself in mirror/pics sometimes.
>>84611602I know, just letting you know my headspace. Which seems similar to yours based on that last sentence.>don't know if you would love meBecause I don't know you yet. But that's what I would want out of a relationship as well. A "you and me vs the rest of the world" thing, where nothing/no one else matters. But that requires a level of vulnerability
>>84610971>Chad>rich so I don't ever need to work >loyal>likes the same things as mepretty reasonable, right?
>>84611647music is my main interest for sure! i am a big rym user and i listen to lots of different artists and genres. my favourite genre is industrial and i like some /mu/core artists like death grips
>>84610971>wants marriage>wants kidsMost of these are flexible, but my preferences are:>White or maybe Northeast Asian>At least 180cm or so>23-33 years old>Broke but has a plan to get out of it>Manly and good-looking>Minimal signs of aging>Fit>At least a bachelors degree
>>84611708Ok cool. Do you have disc or something? Do you wanna talk?
>>84611737i would be down to talk but can i be weird and request a throwaway email i can contact you on? i had a stalker before so i get a bit paranoid about giving out my socials and stuff hahabtw how old are you?
I want a non-comedogenic girlfriend, fucking hate it when women clog my damn pores.
>>84610971CuteSkinnyVirginAsian or WhiteWarm and pleasant personalityNo older than 25Doesn't smokeNo tattoosI have come to realize there's no point lowering your standards because that doesn't get you anywhere anyways. You may as well just keep your standards high.
>>84611879I have a throwaway email but I won't be able to use it for a few days since I forgot the password and I have that saved on my pc but I'm on vacation and not home until a few daysBut you can try contacting it: lonehikki@gmail.comOr my disc: hikg. With the dot. Which I have access to right away.I'm 23
>>84612004oki great ty, i will email for now but open to talking on disc in future. i am 20 so similar age range :)i hope you enjoy your vacation!