I am not judging. I am here to listen. In my eyes if you get to the point with a woman where she is seeing your penis you have already won. It is likely the LEAST important physical asset cause once you get there the job is already essentially done
>>85092629If you can't bottom out and nestle the head of your cock in the pocket around her cervix, the relationship is doomed.
>>85092629because we live in an atheistic gynocentric hellscape
I am gay and it matters a lot for gays. Like a ridiculous amount, you have no idea
>be woman>live like herd animal who can't 'stray from the hivemind' while simultaneously wanting to one-up her equally vapid competition because of snowflakery>their standards and expectations keep shooting up since women loathe each otherIt's not that deep.
>>85092652Funny forced meme haha
>>85092629i date black women and they are incredibly honest about wanting big fat dicks and will fuck you for that alone. it's a better sense of validation than any other that a woman can offer, since everything else is conditional based on your effort and sacrifice, which is exhausting. Being loved for your big dick is being loved for who you are.
>>85092810what meme? i was being serious
>>85092629I think it matters because of the associated status, which is what female attraction is based on. It's a low-status physical feature, kind of like being short. However, you may of course compensate with other status-conferring characteristics, even outside of physical ones, to the point that it doesn't matter, as long as your dick isn't so small that it makes intercourse impossible, since that's a whole separate issue. But it's still undeniable, that it is a big problem to overcome. It's unequivocally a flaw, but one that's thankfully hidden from the public eye.
>>85092662can you elaborate on this anon? from real world experience preferably; I snooped through the gaybros or whatever subreddit and saw a ridiculous amount of dick size discussion posts of varying tone, and it got me thinking if this was just an internet thing or actual irl mentality>>85092906just know this bi is asian
>>85092891How did you gain so much in a year tho? Do you just pump and extend? Or some form of manual too?
>>85092906Dear god spoiler that shit encrusted ass. I just about threw up every meal I've ever eaten.
>>85092629Well yeah, if she's naked and her legs are spread, stick it in no matter what. So, you've won that round, but if your dick is substandard in her view, you won't get another chance.tl;dr it's not worth caring what women think
>>8509298715 minutes pumping every morning, retinol cream applied to pick immediately afterwards, 60 seconds manual hard stretching every time I have a piss. Did that for a year gained an inch and a half.
>>85092991Left over wax from her waxing famalam. Gotta play thr game. Don't tell me you wouldn't.
>>85093042sheeesh, more?
>>85093090Since you asked nicely senpai
>>85092979Depends on the group whether or not it translates to irl mental illness, but in general it's a combination of status and normsFor gays a lot of sex is related to submission and dominance - not universally true but it is nonetheless a fact that when both people have a cock only one person can be doing the penetration at a given time outside of niche positions/activitiesSo one person needs to bottom, and the social norm is for it to be the guy with the smaller dickAgain, not set in stone, but that's the norm, and that's what gets heavily reinforced in most social circlesSo if you have a small dick, you're by default a bottom unless proven otherwise. If you have a big dick, you're by default a top unless proven otherwise. And if you disagree with your position granted by cock size, you're fighting an uphill battle on all fronts to have anyone accept that, so plenty of people don't even bother. Unless you're willing to start a lot of shit to defend your position (or just get very lucky and only interact with supportive people) your cock size dictates your standing and role in groups and is immutable.
My penis is 4 inches. Every woman who saw it refused to continue sex.
>>85092629Anything that makes these terribly uninteresting losers convinced the reason they still haven't as much as had smalltalk with a girl at the age of 25 isn't their terribly uninteresting personality and awkward vibes.If they can blame it on their penis then they can sleep at night.
>>85092838I was gonna respond that such a statement is extraordinarily reductive but you are right. I lost my virginity by having my cock thick and hard at an underwear party in college and then had the black woman who would then become my first girlfriend smile at me and start grinding
>>85093190I am sorry anon. That sounds incredibly painful
