im a man hahahahahahahahahahhah

I'm a male. Requesting your definition of 'emotionally available'. Seen the phrase used a lot but rarely ever defined. Seems like a kind of phrase that is so amorphous it can be utilized to play psychological games.

>"You were never emotionally available to me".

"Can you define that and articulate what your needs are specifically?"

>"No, my expectation is that you should already know what I need without me having to tell you. You should read my mind and understand what I emotionally need at all times. If you cannot do this th-"

"Ok good bye I shall find a woman who has self awareness and who understands her own emotions and can articulate what she needs in a clear manner."

Good to see the thread back. How has 4chan been treating you all lately?

>>85269819
Being emotionally available means being handsome. If you are ugly you come off as mean and grouchy, thus emotionally unavailable. Thats all there is to it.

>>85269819
Go make your own thread retard

A man makes this thread once in a while, when several other "fembot" threads pop up in the catalog, reminding him of female presence in the board. He makes this thread because he wants to talk with women, but doesn't know how to, so he creates an artificial space to lure them in, based on the past biofem threads. He thinks he is being nice by making a thread about women that isn't sexual, but it's predatory instead.

>>85269842
I really hope things get better for you in your life.

>>85269819
emotional availability is hard to explain... i have noticed the more emotionally available men ive dated have been taller, i guess because they had healthier upbringings and were able to express their emotions and feelings in a more mature way?

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i used to feel kinda bad and offended when girls would say that they hate men who watch porn, i mean I get it, I know why is bad, but recently I met a girl which I really liked and she watches lots of very kinky and violent porn and now I understand why girls don't like men who watch porn, you feel your heart sinking when you find out the stuff someone you like gets off to

>>85269780
jesus christ foids are really fucking retarded

>be emotionally unavailable
Why do women so consistently lie about wanting men to show emotion?

>>85269780
well thantk God I'm a man born before 1993. That sure has helped me in dating in 2026...

>>85269780
>>Why aren't you on Crystal Cafe?
>It has been aggressively raided for years and is dead.
then go back and revive it

>>85269780
OP sounds like a typical fat stinky feminist to me.
I hope men stay clear from you.

>>85269858
That is some decent bait to be fair

>>85269881
im not even a foid but even i know your retarded attempt to be a pick me isnt remotely close to the reason why they dont like their man watching porn retard

>>85269895
Sometimes there are men who can only express negative emotion through anger, which we don't tend to like as much.
Being emotionally available is more so about being able to engage uncomfortable emotions and express them properly, being truthful while being tactful, being there for us when we want to discuss our feelings, and/or being ready for a committed relationship

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>>85269780
>1993
Damn just missed it.

>>85269819
Your example of a woman in that exchange isn't emotionally available herself
It's usually one of these things
>>85269926
But yeah it's everyone's job to make their own needs clear in a relationship

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>>85269825
I'm a moid, but generally okay. One person in another thread did reply to me with "I do not like you" out of nowhere and it hit me surprisingly hard. Honestly kind of ruined my day, and was still a little hurt for a couple of days after that. Please remember that moids have feelings too.

Suggestion: make the thread title something less intense. Having a "GIRLS ONLY ZONE: No boys allowed!" Thread is going to bait responses. Make it like /lavender general/ or something

Also: women are gross and annoying.

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>>85269952
ahh nigga

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>>85269920
okay schizobro, whatever you say

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literally got banned from cc for saying i hate trannies
i feel like the whole part of the internet that was fun for girls is just gone
poor LJ died, then the trannies came for tumblr, pinterest hates all humans and even the femcel website is 80% trannies now
i feel cold and it's been a long time since i felt physical affection

>>85270004
There is no female website because femcels do not exist and arent real

tranny chasing thread

>>85269780
>What is your absolute favorite thing to do on a hot summer day?
Swim.
>Do you have any fun road trips or vacations planned for this summer?
I normally do my traveling in non-summer months (when there's fewer people traveling).
>What are you watching this summer?
Nothing that I found noteworthy so far.
>Have you been to any concerts or festivals this summer or planning to?
Not really my thing.
>What is your favorite summer memory from when you were a kid?
Not the thread to get into it.
>Favorite icecream?
Mint chocolate chip.

>>85270004
Yea, it's a rough time.

>>85269849
>it's predatory
How is it predatory? I could see if the dude was creeping on the women in these threads but making a female majority space that he can just exist around women in doesn't sound predatory to me.

>>85270004
Trannies are aggressively male. They invade and dominate, they just can't possibly do it physically so they do so socially. And unfortunately they prey off of female empathy to do so. Hence why I unironically support repealing the 19th ammendment.

>i feel cold and it's been a long time since i felt physical affection
I'm going on five years myself. I hug a pillow every night and it makes me feel like a fucking loser.

Are these questions the same from last thread?

>>85269780
>What is your absolute favorite thing to do on a hot summer day?
Get boba and thai or american chinese food
>Do you have any fun road trips or vacations planned for this summer?
I'm thinking about it, been wanting to leave my apartment for a while now. Seeing what my options are.
>What are you watching this summer?
I've been watching podcasts and music videos mainly
>Have you been to any concerts or festivals this summer or planning to?
No, this sounds p normie
>What is your favorite summer memory from when you were a kid?
Popsicles and swimming with my cousin Emma
>Favorite icecream?
Nondairy pistachio, cotton candy, or natural strawberry


I feel like I've answered some of these before? Might've changed some. Idk

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>me listening to the biofems

>>85270066
bro if you keep posting this shit and you're gonna be a troon in about 1.5 years

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reminder literally all you have to do to get a commitmentchad bf is stop eating slop and do squats, you will look like this after a few months and the entire world will land in your lap

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>>85270066
>I hug a pillow every night and it makes me feel like a fucking loser.
Are you me? It hurts and lately I worry a lot about time passing and how time just keeps doing that whether I'm ready for it to pass or not. Anyway don't feel too bad nona, I hug one of my childhood plushies lel
>I'm going on five years myself
Three here, I had a boyfriend and it was nice until it wasn't, and then he wasn't, and now he isn't, and now it's even less nice than before
>Trannies are aggressively male. They invade and dominate, they just can't possibly do it physically so they do so socially.
That is my experience, having been in spaces they invaded
Were you ever on tumblr? Early tumblr was super nice. Dramatic, yes, but in the more innocent bless-your-heart-you-silly-little-fangirl way we were dramatic before yourfaveisproblematic destroyed the whole world, but also fun and comfy

>>85270004
>i feel cold and it's been a long time since i felt physical affection
I have never felt physical affection.
Is that pitiful enough to get you to date me?

>>85270144
I'm huwite
Deboonked

>>85270144
Are you retarded? I have more muscle than that and lift weights, but no amount of squats makes you Asian or gives you a total fogger face
Even if I got all the transracial surgeries, I'd be seen as a clown

>>85270162
>I'm huwite
>Deboonked
What? That's literally ideal. I want gf with a southern accent.

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>>85270169
>im white! I can't lose the pounds and get /fit/! that's simply not possible
why isn't it possible?

>>85270200
They just meant to say they are flat chested and have no ass.

Good morning
Tits or gtfo

>>85269895
It's a two-pronged shit test.

If you actually do what she wants and show your emotions, you demonstrate you are submissive enough to give into her whims instead of exerting your own whims over her like she wants.
And secondly, if any of those emotions you express reveal weakness or vulnerability, it makes her think you'll be an inferior protector and provider to her.

It's a strategy women have developed to sift out weak losers in her search for the perfect violent sociopath of her dreams. And it's a behavior so deeply ingrained in their psyche they don't even realize they're doing it. Their conscious mind genuinely thinks it wants an emotional man even though every time they actually meet one they feel immediately disgusted by him and find some reason to dump him.

Any bipolar femcels in the thread? It's been really hard lately and I would like to find someone I can relate to.

>>85270200
I am white and leaner than that lady, and my diet is great when I can control it (unfortunately recovering from chin and double jaw surgery rn but that's temporary).
I'll never be Asian though.
>>85270208
You're retarded, I'm bmi 18.6 with D cup tits
I shouldn't give you trolls the time of day anymore. Go goon to your porn

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>>85270200
>why is it not possible to be transracial
For the same reason you can't be transgender?
Dude my sister is literally a bodybuilder, you can change your body *composition* but you can't change your body *type*
Stop gooning to Ariana Grande shoots

>>85270242
>I'm bmi 18.6 with D cup tits
Post them or you're a tranny with hrtits

>>85270169
>I'd be seen as a clown
Can you commit to being a clowngirl gf?

>>85270158
>Is that pitiful enough to get you to date me?
Trust me lil bro. You don't want any of these 'girlfailures' to date you. Imagine being so insufferable you can't even find a porn addicted moid to tolerate being around you for your holes.

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>>85270082
good boy. this spurred so many memories

>>85270260
I'd want him to marry me wirh a strong prenup before any transracial stuff
>inb4 how will he know you'll follow through?
It can be in the prenup. I just don't wanna get left high and dry after he gets his nut in

>>85270004
If karma is real then it's karma for you invading all male spaces

>>85270292
What race are you anyways? What do you want out of marriage

>>85270292
This is a type of mental illness I hadn't seen before. It's usually brown people pining to be white. Or white supremacists seething about asian foids dating white men, I hadn't seen a white woman wanting to become a chink.

>>85269780
>What is your absolute favorite thing to do on a hot summer day?
Gardening when I lived in my mom's house, now I live alone in my own apartment with no AC in a kind of sketchy area and crippling social anxiety so mostly I stay in and do my hobbies and try not to sweat on anything nice
Do you have any fun road trips or vacations planned for this summer?
Unfortunately not, I have debts to pay off but next year I'm going to Italy
What are you watching this summer?
The days pass with too little to mark them
Have you been to any concerts or festivals this summer or planning to?
No, I wanted to go to a local fair or to the art gallery but my old uni friends never want to go out anymore and no bf
What is your favorite summer memory from when you were a kid?
Probably going to local amusement parks with friends and their parents, those are genuinely uncomplicated pleasant memories
Favorite icecream?
Lemon

>>85270300
I am a white woman. I want a lifelong partner to raise kids with.

>>85270310
>he doesn't know about fujoshi weeb grils
zoomers are so uncultured it makes me sick

>>85270333
Why do you wanna do transracial stuff so strongly then? What's the end plan

>>85270310
A lot of them get those partially transracial cat-eye surgeries, and some women and gays have become all-out transracial largely because of evolving beauty standards and
>asian foids dating white men

>>85270323
>forgot to green text
>originally

>>85270338
I know about them. But they usually obsess over asian men instead of wanting to be asian themselves.
Yumejoshi girls are more my type.

man is the illiteracy really this bad?

She never said she wants to be asian

she said she can't even if she got all the transracial surgeries

then someone said she could be a clown

then she said she won't do the transracial stuff unless she gets a prenup and is married

LOL

>>85270343
I never said that I did?

Just come back, I am still waiting for you.

>>85270359
Yeah I'd only do it if the right guy wanted me to

>>85270162
>it started out with a joke, how did it end up like this
>it was only a joke
>it was only a joke

>>85270365
Go back to the letter thread dude, no vagueposting here. Or better yet, message your person and tell her, rather than leaving foid b8 here

>>85270151
>don't feel too bad nona
I'm a male, but I appreciate it. Sorry I didn't make that clear.

>now it's even less nice than before
I used to love my ex more than anyone in the world. These days I wish she was dead.

>you ever on tumblr
Nah, my early internet days were Newgrounds. I miss the Flash era

>>85270360
>wirh a strong prenup before any transracial stuff
What did you mean by this then

>>85270367
>>85270387
>Yeah I'd only do it if the right guy wanted me to
^ this

>>85270367
no rich guy is going to pay for some gay transracial surgery bullshit. that is tranny-coded faggotry.

Man I'm tired of this modern world.

I hope you find a good husband who cares about real important things like eating quality wholefoods, physical training, quality sleep, and quality communication.

I'm not a violent person but if the entirety of all k-pop fans were lined up and about to be executed I'd cheer on the executioner

>>85270395
Are kids non negotiable

>>85270377
She hasn't logged in in over 31 days. And she won't acknowledge my messages.

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>>85269780
1) idk I never leave my room
2) no but I plan to go to Russia not this December but next December
3)no. I thought about going to state fair but I have no money
4) catching fireflies with my cousins an learning how to whistle with a blade of grass
5)I guess like sherbet? I like fruity shit

I dated a girl once but she cheated on me the entire time and now im scared of girls. This was over 7 years ago.

>>85270475
Why did you choose Russia? That is an interesting choice of place to visit.

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>>85270299
>r9k is a sooper dooper masculine space
lel, also
In kindergarten I once crossed my arms and said "serves you right" to my best friend when she was sitting alone at a table after she got sent for a timeout
I was mad because she picked another girl to be Princess Jasmine in our Aladdin dressup game
And when I said that she looked really upset and put her head down and didn't look at me again all day
Then she turned out to be an amazing friend who was super loyal and stood up for me in elementary school even though I turned out to be an awkward misfit
And I remembered that time in kindergarten for years, even after she moved away, and every time I think about it I feel like such a bitch
So any time I hear "serves you right" or "that's karma" I get le triggered

>>85270475
>I plan to go to Russia
don't get mobilized

I live in Australia and it's cold as balls rn

>>85269780
I'm from 1991 and this all fit me, it's worse than you think Ms Foid

I'm male, I'd like to know what women specifically mean when they say "I just don't feel a spark between us". This has been said to me by multiple people I went on a date with

More generally, throughout all of school and into my adult life, every girl I asked out or went on a date with friendzoned me and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Thanks for the help

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>>85270510
I want to visit a level 4 do not travel county, and of the ones on the list Russia seemed the most safe/interesting/fun. I've been studying Russian for over a month now. I've got a 44 day streak on dulingo and I've been trying to spend 30 minutes a day consuming Russian media in preparation for the trip.

>>85270397
Well the amount of guys I've crushed on or even dated who turned out to prefer Asians is... A lot.

>>85270423
Yes

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>>85269780
I hadn't been on this board in a few years and unfortunately I find this shit is still going, my word, what dedication to a sad larp.

>>85270547
Usually spark = sexual attraction

This is fixed by looksmaxxing primarily, and other things are secondary to that but still matter

>>85270560
>the amount of guys I've crushed on or even dated who turned out to prefer Asians is... A lot.
I am a white guy, and I like both white chicks and Asians. Always thought it was weird to specifically like Asians exclusively as a white person

>>85270560
>Yes
How many and when

>>85270547
A spark happens when a conversation is so good that neither of you wants it to end.

If you've never felt that someone is really into what you're saying and really curious to hear you out then you've never felt a spark either. You might be interested in them, but that's not a two-way interest, that's more like... you being desperate.

>>85270571
Charisma > Looks > Money

>>85270572
There are guys who date both but prefer Asians though. And I'd rather not be with a guy who will always prefer some other type

>>85270560
>Well the amount of guys I've crushed on or even dated
>dated
>A lot
And women dare to complain about being lonely.
There's another foid who claimed to be going on 5 years without physical touch and how she felt horrible.
I wonder is they genuinely can't fathom what it's like to go your entire life without a single intimate connection, and never have any physical closeness with another human.
I can picture someone else's situation and imagine what it's like, it's obviously not the same as actually going through it. But these women seem miserable and yet they have experienced those things. It's like they can't even conceive actual loneliness.

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>>85270519
whatever happens, will happen. idc anymore. I just wanna get out of this place. Russia is the thing ive been looking forward to. I love vodka, I can't wait to go there and get wasted.

>>85269780
>What is your absolute favorite thing to do on a hot summer day?
Lay in my air conditioned room
>Do you have any fun road trips or vacations planned for this summer?
No
>What are you watching this summer?
Porn
>Have you been to any concerts or festivals this summer or planning to?
Lmao no
>What is your favorite summer memory from when you were a kid?
Can't think of one, my childhood sucked
>Favorite icecream?
Strawberry shortcake ice cream bar

>>85270618
I mostly lean toward Celtic chicks. I have a weakness for red hair and freckles. But realistically a woman's genetic makeup doesn't matter nearly as much as whether we can just talk to one another.

I don't think I could date a black or a Latina though

>>85270609
I mean... It may depend on the person. But rizz doesn't make up for subpar looks for me.
Also personality is very subjective. I tend to like neurodivergent guys. But I guess you can call that autrizzm

>>85270574
At least 3, ideally 5+, hope to start within the next couple of years.

>>85270623
Russia is unironically a dangerous place to be a drunk woman by yourself. They have a big problem with rape.

>>85270643
>I don't think I could date a black or a Latina though
Skill issue.

>>85270529
the cold is nice. you can get cozy

>>85270668
They're just fucking gross to me, man. And I hate the way mixed kids look.

Rules:

Ignore impolite moids

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>>85270663
I'm going to the place because I know it's dangerous. If horrible things happen to me, oh well. I don't intended to hide the fact I'm American either, or the fact that I'm going there because it's a level 4 county.

>>85270595
>A spark happens when a conversation is so good that neither of you wants it to end.
I've never had a conversation like that before, but I've always been awkward and quiet. I just like to enjoy a nice view in silence
>that's more like... you being desperate
I definitely am, the thought of dying alone is really scary

>>85270609
I don't have any of those things

>>85270721
You need to talkmaxx. Enjoying a nice view together in silence comes later.

>>85270557
oh i see, i understand. that is great the language training you are doing. i hope it goes well, best wishes. stay healthy.

>>85270662
That's probably too much for me.

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>>85270720
ftr, im unattractive, fat and 28 (old) so idk how rapeable the men there would find me

>>85270737
Can you give me some talkmaxx advice please, I'm totally socially retarded

>>85270764
How fat are you? Height and weight?

>>85270378
>I used to love my ex more than anyone in the world. These days I wish she was dead.
That sucks. I don't necessarily wish my ex was dead because it feels humiliating to think those thoughts about someone who probably hasn't thought about me at all for a while
>Nah, my early internet days were Newgrounds. I miss the Flash era
Ha I caught the tail end of that time, Numa numa and angry German kid and flowgo.com and stuff like that
Early YouTube was also pretty kino for me, Potter puppet pals and greatest freakout ever and Super Mario frustration were high kek at the time

>>85270777 v/
Be aloof and flirt.

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>>85270757
thank you. Its over a year away, so im hoping to be at least A2 in russian or whatever before I leave. Should be good enough to travel.

>>85270623
>>85270720
>>85270764
Oh I thought you were that one Russian nona with aristocratic airs who seemed too put-together to be on this website
It could be worse, you could be over 30 and single

>>85270777
Get more practice asking questions.
Get more practice answering questions.
Get more practice leading a conversation.
Get more practice adjusting your approach in response to their vibes.

Practice practice practice practice practice.

>>85270609
women will say a good looking man who smiles a lot is charismatic. looks matter more than anything. halo effect is real. enough psych studies have been done to prove that being good looking matters more than anything as it is the first impression and women will literally assign moral superiority to a guy who is better looking. i don't make the rules.

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>>85270780
5'10, 250 pounds. i hate it, i dont even look at myself anymore

>>85270631
Strawberry shortcake ice cream bar is a great choice. what porn do you watch?

>>85270547
it means you never tried touching, hugging, or kissing her. That's it.

>>85270841
You are a tall gal. Drop to 170 and you will be golden.

>>85270844
Lately I've been watching a lot of gay porn, which is weird because since I was a teenager all I watched was lesbian porn. I guess I'm just more into penis now but straight porn doesn't interest me at all.

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>>85270841
Many lads are into giantesses, nona
All those many lads are under 5'7" though
Are you into that?

I wish we could throw every swiping app on a bonfire and bring back traditional dating activities

>>85270841
What's stopping you from losing the weight?

>>85270790
>feels humiliating to think those thoughts about someone who probably hasn't thought about me at all for a while
I wish I could be that way by my ex is unfortunately still in my life and is still actively being a cunt to me.

>high kek at the time
Feels like the internet just had a lot more... innocence? Whimsy? As gay as it sounds there was soul to it and lot less cynicism and vitriol. It's a period that barely existed but it is remembered fondly by everyone who experienced it.

>>85270436
Then she probably had you on an alt, and she won't know who you are if you vaguepost here without giving your tag and hers

>>85270939
No, she ghosted me on purpose. She has to log in again and acknowledge my messages, I know she saw them. I just want to chat with her one more time.

>>85270951
How do you know when she last logged in anon

>biofem thread
>moid makes it about himself
I see what moids are so angry about now

>>85270884
noooooooooo i need simps for my throne

>>85270955
It says in the thing. I will not divulge more. I missed it by a single hour... I was so mad that I missed it.

>>85269915
I was thinking the same, kek. Much more subtle than the usual.

>>85270620
Reading... "crushed on or even dated is a lot." It doesn't imply I've dated a lot of guys like that. "Crushed on or dated" is a decent sample size.
>lonely
You can be lonely after having dated.
Anyway, your last response. We are to ignore rude moids.

>>85270643
>Celtic
Well i have a lot of that blood but I grew out of red hair long ago, and I don't have the classic freckled look.

>>85270991
I wasn't rude. I genuinely wonder if you can fathom the loneliness I feel.

>>85270975
Swiping apps and FYPs are literally the cancer that's destroying life
Swipe right on me and I'll smirk at the notification, get a momentary blip of dopamine and file you under tryhards I don't want to meet because you use swiping apps and must have an idea of romance that's completely grotesque and unacceptable to me
Be your awkward self and stumble through asking me to a movie that isn't too capesloppy and then a carousel ride and an ice cream cone and then hold hands while we walk and chat along the beach and watch a sunset and I'll be your bitch for life
Not that these things happen in real life, much less to me, but the point is, burn all swiping apps

>>85270997
Like I said, it's less about a specific genetic makeup than it is whether we can get along. I figure I want to be able to be friends with a woman without the expectation of romance, then add romance, rather than only tolerating her because I'm attracted to her.

Also want to just find a girl nebulously "cute." Some faces work for me and others don't and I can't exactly say what it is I like and don't like.

Is there any 32 year (+/- 5 years) old woman in this thread? I'm 32m and want to know if this thread is all young stupid girls, or women who actually want a relationship

>>85270988
How would she even know this is from you looking for her you idiot

>>85271021
I'm in your age range but I am not looking for anyone to date

>>85270643
I have red hair and a few freckles but I'm gallo-roman, not Celtic in the understood sense, and people have a hard time placing me

>>85271027
good to know at least
I was curious if this was the type of thread for young people

>>85271027
>I am not looking for anyone to date
This is ALWAYS a lie. I cannot possibly stress this enough.
That is a false statement.
Many women say this and what they really mean is that they aren't interested in dating YOU. But suddenly a random guy woos her and she is more than ready to date.
Literally happened with Tomo.

>>85271021
I'm younger than your age range but have been seriously looking for a while.

>>85269895
When women say they want you to be 'emotionally available', they don't want you to express emotion. That gives them the ick.
They want you to tolerate and accept any emotion that they throw at you. As soon as you can no longer handle or choose not to handle their emotional abuse and BPD mood swings, you're the villain and you're 'emotionally unavailable'.

>>85271035
I think older people just don't announce themselves much unless you ask
>>85271041
I have no idea what you're talking about.

>>85271041
>local woman finds some men attractive and others unattractive>

>>85271056
>I have no idea what you're talking about
What does this even mean? Can you read?
Women lie about that statement. They use it as an excuse until they get woo'ed by chad.

>>85271044
why do you think you have been looking for a while? I'm not trying to feign manipulation/hookup potential/getting with younger women... I assume this thread is heavily against old male/young female relationships, but I don't really care.
Really I'm more curious why you replied, knowing my age range. Is being young really that lonely?

>>85271056
I appreciate the honesty, I see these generals here and really wonder if people my age use them or if its mostly just underage people. Yes, that means I think these threads house immature people.

>>85271063
You're so right bestie

>>85271063
NTA but this just shows your own laxk of comprehension of the statement. Someone moght not be looking, but be open to someone pursuing them in the right circumstances. (Right circumstances= probably not a rando on 4chan likely thousands of miles away for most women.)
It's not a contradiction. It just means they're not putting effort into seeking someone right now. But turning down a prince charming who sweeps you off your feet is retarded no matter when it happens.

>>85271077
>Really I'm more curious why you replied, knowing my age range. Is being young really that lonely?
NTA, but conversation is just conversation. You aren't going to use this thread to try to meet with anyone, are you?

Remember:
>>85269780
>FAQ
>This is not >>>/soc

>>85271019
I like you, you are one of the good ones. I only wish I had been more interested in dating when this was the norm

>>85271061
No, I actually think they believe it. They do believe that they "aren't interested in dating", the problem is that they also believe, and project, that the source of interest is internal, when it's 100% external. They delude themselves into believing that they are on a different mindset, and a week later they find a boyfriend. Interest, like everything else with women, isn't internal, you have to make her interested and ignore what she says. They give the impression that, no matter what you do, she isn't interested in dating overall, so matter who asks, she will reject them. But that simply isn't true.
She might even tell chad she "isn't interested in dating" and if he keeps flirting with her, she will suddenly act interested.
It's all bullshit. Most people lack the self-awareness to be honest with themselves about it.

>>85271095
>You aren't going to use this thread to try to meet with anyone, are you?
I'd be lying if I said it wasn't a possibility.
I'm currently drunk and the OP image caught my attention. I started reading some comments and thought this general might be catered towards a certain demographic. I'm mostly just curious

>>85271107
Okay, now go away.

>>85271077
I wouldn't really consider early 30s and mid 20s that big of an age gap. I like early 30s guys if they're still good looking.
I responded because you seem you assume people outside that range aren't serious. (I'm 26.) If your type is older than me that's fine though. I have my preferences too

>>85271041
>Many women say this and what they really mean is that they aren't interested in dating YOU.
it means they already have a bf and are only looking for an upgrade

>>85271113
>>85271077
Meant *you seem to assume

>>85271094
No, you fucking retard. It just means the man can't be forward with his intentions. Because she will shut down dating prospects. "The right circumstances" are literally just getting woo'ed by someone who wanted to date her all along. And the person who straight up asked her to go out got completely shut down, because "I'm not interested in dating" means there is nothing you can do to get with me, as I don't want a relationship right now.
Make her laugh and act nonchalant for 3 days, then act interested. I guarantee that ends up turning into a date.
Manipulating you is extremely easy. You will lie to yourself and others about how this isn't ackShUaLlY how the process goes, because it gives you a sense of control or even decency, but it works every time. Every single time.

>>85271112
fair enough, but now I'm somewhat invested

>>85271113
I think anyone aged 25 and below are still figuring things out. i think that age range fits me best, but really it comes down to actually dating someone and understanding what they like. sure, I could date a 25 year old, but the reality is that I know 50 year olds who have more in common with me. regardless, this was truly just a quick query on the current people speaking here. Now my big question would be the actual makeup of these threads, but I know that would take much more time/effort.

>>85271102
>you are one of the good ones
Well thank you, Nona. You seem very sweet.

>wish I had been more interested in dating when this was the norm
I can't for the life of me understand people who are willing to date people they don't like being in the presence of without sex. I have a few friends that do that shit and I always give them the "I told you so" when it goes wrong.

Mostly because I'm an asshole but also because I want them to quit fucking up their lives.

>you fucking retard. It just means the man can't be forward with his intentions.
This is precisely wrong. It means he can be forward with his intentions, but he has to be Chad, her type, and put in the effort.
If I were taking a break from actively dating, I'd say I wasn't looking too. But if my dream guy hit me up of course I'd take the offer. Him being blunt with his intentions would be necessary and helpful so I know he's not trying to play around for attention or whatever.
For example, if a very attractive male I am interested in showed up at my door madly in love with me, I'd accept at any time I was single, even if I was taking a break from dating at the time.
But 4chan meetups typically take a lot of planning and effort on the woman's end. Men won't just demonstrate whimsy and show up on our doorstep. She's saying she's not up for that risk, and I sometimes am not either.
>Make her laugh and act nonchalant for 3 days, then act interested. I guarantee that ends up turning into a date.
... Maybe? Depends on the woman and if she's attracted to you, and also if she's the type to manipulate you for a free meal. (Heard of that one, I feel bad for you guys.)
>every single time
Then maybe you're very attractive, but your advice is shit for most guys.

>>85271129

>>85271138
>i think that age range fits me best
Wdym by this?

>>85271184
+/- 5 years, from my original post
I guess technically, -5 years, and +(infinity), because any age older should be mature past age 25 at that point (if that makes sense?)

ideally, that's the range of people I expect to be mature, otherwise, younger, i expect to be dumb kids

>>85271198
Yeah I guess that makes sense.
I'm 6 years younger than you, so out of your target zone though.
You should find more older women on soc, just gotta make sure they're actually single and avoid the cuck situations lol.

>>85271129
>>85271175
Also no. Here you go. Your "organic match" wasn't organic at all. And you were lying to yourself.
If I could explain it more clearly.
>guy A spots a woman he is attracted to.
>guy A is forward and honest, asks the girl on a date.
>"I'm sorry, guy A, I am not interested in dating at the moment"
>guy A respects her wishes and doesn't push.
Now
>guy B spots girl he is attracted to.
>he knows she rejected guy A with that excuse
>guy B decides to approach as a "friend"
>he makes her laugh
>he gets her number, she thinks she just had a friendly talk with a new friend
>they talk in a friendly manner for a few days, he isn't rude, he is funny, but doesn't reply immediately and talks about other activities.
>he maybe ignores her for a day or two, they keep texting.
>he asks her on an outing totally "just as friends"
>she thinks "oh wow, I enjoy being with him"
>a week later they are dating and she believes it was totally organic and they started as friends.
No, he just manipulated her into being interested. And she lied about her willingness to date.

>>85271218
what "cuck" situations?

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>>85270864
I like short guys, though probably for the wrong reasons
>>85270855

I tried for a while and then I just kinda gave up. Idk man, just doesn't seem worth the effort anymore
>>85270902
I guess the payoff doesn't feel worth the effort

>>85271223
This happens for some guys if they're attractive enough. The relationship can blossom. But most of the time guys just end up with more time down the drain and end up getting rejected. There tons of data on this. Men are usually more attracted to their opposite sex friends than women are, and a lot more men end up shot down or "friend zoned" because of bluepill advice like this that ignores attraction as a variable
And even after all that, you might get dates or a temporary gf, but she may not marry you if the attraction isn't sufficient. As they say "Sometimes she's not yours. It's just your turn." So there's that too.

>>85271230
Soc is notoriously full of cucks. So there might be women with boyfriends or husbands hitting you up to be a bull.

>>85271260
No, the guy who gets friendzoned is the one who never lets her know because he thinks she genuinely "isn't ready to date"
While he waited for her to be ready, she got a new boyfriend.

>>85271272
sounds more like a "soc needs bulls" than a "soc needs cucks" explanation
good to know

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>>85271276
No, tons of women friendzone guys even while they're single, because they lack attraction to them.
Attraction is a major variable. Most guys get rejected.
See picrel. Maybe you're a super lucky gigachad. Good for you. Most guys aren't.

How do you guys pronounce "/soc/" in your heads? Is it like sock or like soc(ial)

>>85271306
You're not understanding what I am saying at all. Sexual attraction is a passive, spontaneous force in everyone, but men can MAKE women attracted.
It's the same concept. If you ask a wkman, randomly, if she finds her male friends attractive, her passive sexual attraction may say "no". But she can be manipulated into thinking she does.

>>85271309
sosh/soash/soc(ial)

>>85271309
Soke.

Ladies what's the biggest age gap you'd consider doing? Is there an age where gaps no longer matter?

>>85271326
You've gotta be trolling. There isn't any science out there saying this or anything like it. Most guys get rejected when they try the friends first thing.

>>85271063
there are women that ask me out and I find them attractive but I still say no because being single is the best. sure you lose out on having a gf to do couple things with including sex but the goods dont outweigh the bad. every time theres a new girl in the office thats around my age i avoid them like the plague. cant avoid the dumb comments my coworkers would make tho

i want to sex a genderswapped version of myself (overweight, depressed, alcoholic, otaku, etc).
she can be a neet, although i have a high paying job now, i still wish i could have kept neeting.

>>85271347
>they try the friends first thing.
Because the guys who don't get rejected don't try to be her friend, they try to take her out on dates without her knowing it's a date.
>there isn't any science
I just explained to you why the science fails. Try it. Most people aren't aware of the lies they tell themselves.

>>85271349
You aren't a woman. And women aren't used to having to pursue or manipulate someone into liking them romantically. Which is why they only really do the straightforward asking out right away.

>>85271362
women arent that dumb. If its for a guy theyre really into they could pull some tricks

>>85271021
There was a close to 40 year old woman but she left when she got married

>>85271403
No, they really are that way.
If she finds you genuinely disgusting, then it's over. But "not interested" never actually means what you think it does. If she doesn't find you utterly repulsive, she can probably be manipulated into dating and thinking you organically fell in love through friendship, just like her fairytales.

>>85271410
that post was intended for current participants.
what kind of lore do these threads even have?

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Feelings can't change from platonic to romantic and they can't be manipulated into existence. Either you connect that way from early on or you never will.

>>85271454
No, this is fake. It's passivity or activity. If you relly on passivity, things become platonic, if you actively manipulate her into romantic situations, they develop to be romantic.
I need you to understand that what you tell yourself are "natural feelings" may not be. If people didn't lie to themselves and others, it would be easier. But they delude themselves into thinking the "natural spark" was destiny, when it actually was just action.
Natural, quick strikes of love or attraction do happen, but they are extremely rare and unlikely.
It's way more likely that you were slowly manipulated into liking someone.

>>85271482
Everyone I've had feelings for I felt attracted to from the first long one-on-one conversation, almost never later. If you can talk to someone for a few hours and your feelings are still platonic, that's probably where they will always stay.

I am sure there will be seething about this tomorrow when I wake up. There is probably a better way to articulate the idea, but whatever.
Have fun seething. I am sure that many foids here can realize that they have experienced this, if they are honest with themselves.

>>85271513
"Platonic" is a bad concept. If you mean "friendzoned" as in that there is no attraction at all and it feels like a conversation with strangers or your brother, that's because the mistake was already made.
Why does honesty matter? Because honesty lets people quickly and accurately place others in the box they belong. The more someone is able to blur the line, the easier it is to not let things be permanently locked.
Men also aren't aware of this dynamic. Some instinctually tend to manipulative behaviors, others don't. If you don't immediately feel a physical rejection of someone, you can be manipulated into dating.

These threads are so fucking boring, fuck me dead, foids really are the most simplistic basic bitches on the internet. Learn and introduce non normie behaviour

No man will ever give you better advice than a man who wants you to be his wife.

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>>85271719
X to doubt my dude. They have even more inactive to be unreliable. Not like ones your dating but ones your not dating that want you to date them.

>>85270240
Yeah, actually. Type I or type II? What are you going through right now?

>>85269780
You're in here aren't you bitch? I'm gonna wring your neck when I find where you're hiding with your phone.

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>>85272565
AHHHHHH AHHHHHHH AHHHHHHHH Ahhhhhhhh!! EEEK

>>85269780
Reply 200 I'm a male but it's satisfying

>>85269780
>r9k is not a male board. https://wizchan.org/ is.
To be fair this is also dead.
Sadly most image boards aside from 4chan are dead and 4chan isn't all that great either.
No other websites/social media sites provide a similar format to text/image boards, sadly.
Most normies just want to doom scroll.

t. moid

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Your occasional reminder that you that you don't owe the world and especially males ANYTHING.

>>85271256
>tall people like smol people and smol people like tall people
It is always like this
I really want to know though, what are the wrong reasons for liking manlets?
That's a very awkward sentence but I just woke up

>>85272791
RAPE CORRECTION NOW!!!!!

>>85271309
/cuck/ or more often /retarded/

>>85272791
>leave a text unanswered for 3 hours
Is that supposed to be a lot? I sometimes respond to texts a day or two later. Do people really expect you to drop everything just to respond?

>>85271256
>I like short guys, though probably for the wrong reasons
If standing shower sex is a wrong reason I don't want to be right.

>>85271445
>what kind of lore do these threads even have?
There's a bit of history.

>>85269780
Pornhub was banned dummy

>>85273951
It wasn't and neither was the rape academy, which is typical.

>>85269780
Wizchan is dead as well

>>85269780
Just copied my AI generated edition bahahah. Good for you, OP.

>>85269780
>What is your absolute favorite thing to do on a hot summer day?
these questions are retarded
>Do you have any fun road trips or vacations planned for this summer?
why are you doxxing yourself why a re you doxxing yourself why are you doxxing yourself
>What are you watching this summer?
(you)
>Have you been to any concerts or festivals this summer or planning to?
your mom plays a mean fiddle
>What is your favorite summer memory from when you were a kid?
making pillow forts on top of a trampoline
>Favorite icecream?
lucky charms

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>I hate moids!!
>*copies everything men do, even down to their silly internet memes*
Unironically what causes this phenomenon? Is it the foid brain's natural tendency to be followers?

32DDs

>>85274194
yeah theres a basedientific term for that, actually. explains a lot, the more you think about it
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Variability_hypothesis

>>85271346
Probably a few years or so down, 8 years or so up. Exceptions in exceptional circumstances.
>Is there an age where gaps no longer matter?
Wdym, like when I turn that age?

>>85274336
>8 years or so up.
Seems like a Hell of a gap. If I dated someone 8 years below me she'd be... actually she'd be legal. Fuck I'm old.

Would still feel kinda creepy though I think.

>like when I turn that age?
I think he means like, if you're 60 do age gaps matter at all any more? Id it weird for a 60 year old to date say, an 80 year old?

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>>85269780
Women physically cannot be robots. You can always find some simp to tell you your shit does not stink. Why are you here?

>>85274414
I don't know. I think it'd have to feel it out around that age. I don't know how I'd feel about entering a relationship at 60 with someone who's about to die and can't fuck for instance. It might be more of a health thing than a number thing.
>legal
Yeah I think when you're close to 18 the gaps matter more, and they matter less with time.
The main factors going into +8 are that enough guys age like shit past then, and they're more likely to have baggage and bad reasons for still being single past that age, especially since they're shooting way younger. (There exceptions to this rule though, like maybe he's a widower, or he's had issues dating because he's a notable figure or something.)

>>85271346
5 years with a guy younger than me, a few minutes with someone older

>>85274462
I guess those are valid answers to both questions. I think the only reason to enter a new relationship as a geriatric is just human connection, you know?

I know I'm single because of baggage that makes women look at me as fundamentally undateable. It is what it is, I should have made better choices.

>>85274485
It's easy to say 60 is geriatric when you're young, but:
It's before the standard retirement age.
It's before most people hit the worst declines from aging (physically, cogntively, etc.).
The people with the best diets, lifestyles, genetics are healthy and able to be independent and have sex for another 25-30+ years.
Versus a 90 year old probably doesn't have much time left in the tank even if they're the picture of health now, and there's not way they're even close to what they were at 60 even with the same lifestyle.
>I know I'm single because of baggage that makes women look at me as fundamentally undateable.
What baggage?

>>85274539
>The people with the best diets, lifestyles, genetics are healthy and able to be independent and have sex for another 25-30+ years.
Yeah but you have to admit that's the best of the best. Most people, by 70, are completely fucked. Especially in my family, we get alzheimers in the 60s usually.

>What baggage?
I have a kid.

>>85270004
You didn't listen to old /pol/. We told you 15 years ago, and you didn't listen. You indulged the trannies. You built them up and they are knocking you down. Deserved

>>85274566
>Most people, by 70, are completely fucked. Especially in my family, we get alzheimers in the 60s usually.
Oof. Shit lifestyles?
My grandparents were far from the pictures of health, but most of them were independent into their 80s, and they all either lived well into their 80s or are still alive iirc.
>I have a kid.
This isn't a dealbreaker on its own for me, and it's not for a lot of other women. There has to be more to the story than that.
Do you have custody? Is child support breaking the bank? Does it limit your ability to travel or move?

Good evening gentlemen. It's time for our daily woman LARP on /R9K/

GURR I HATE moids. I just want to grab them by the dick and swing them around my head and fling them off a mountain every time they glance in my general direction. But I don't do that because I know they'd probably enjoy it... Stupid moids. Lets not let moids occupy our mental space anymore. Lets talk about something else... like.... ummm.... umm..... Moids!

>>85274597
>Oof. Shit lifestyles?
Normal shit. Great grandpa was airforce and then a factory worker I think. Great grandma grew up on a farm, mostly just took care of the kids and the house. Pretty sure it's just genes.

>isn't a dealbreaker on its own for me, and it's not for a lot of other women
I've only talked to a handful of women that showed interest in me. Kid was an instant deal breaker every time, before knowing anything else.

>>85274597
>Do you have custody?
50/50. Supposed to be anyway. Taking her to court on Tuesday because the bitch claimed I hit my kid and has kept me from seeing him for three months. Hoping to walk out with full custody but we'll see what happens.

>Is child support breaking the bank?
No
>Does it limit your ability to travel or move?
It does, for now at least.

>>85274670
Honestly the court situation sounds like a mess. With just the other stuff I'd continue thinking about it personally, but I don't want to get involved with someone who's in an ongoing baby mama dispute. That said even those other things really limit options for how things could work.
Were you married when you had a kid? Was he planned?
>handful
That definitely partly explains it, not having reached out to many people.
How old were each of them? How did you select who to talk to?

Is it wrong for me to accept the offer to date an ND girl who's obviously lowering her standards for me but doesn't realize it because she's socially retarded? I feel like I have nothing positive to offer her since I'm unattractive, make fuck all at my dead end job, and am constantly depressed, while she's the opposite of all these things.
.t male

>>85274699
>Honestly the court situation sounds like a mess. With just the other stuff I'd continue thinking about it personally, but I don't want to get involved with someone who's in an ongoing baby mama dispute
That's fair. I haven't really been looking since this shit started because frankly, I can only handle so much at one time. And it did kinda come out of nowhere. I try (or tried) to keep things as amicable as possible because I really just want to forget she exists and hang out with my kid.

>>85274699
>Were you married when you had a kid? Was he planned
We were married yeah. I'm one of those dipshits that got married right out of highschool and it ended poorly. Who could have guessed?

He wasn't necessarily planned but we were both open to having a kid so the attitude was "if it happens it happens"

>not having reached out to many people.
Yeah I try not to shoot at every target. Usually only bring it up to someone I feel like I have at least some chemistry with.

>How old were each of them? How did you select who to talk to?
Usually my age (mid 20s) or younger, but one was a couple years older than me. One from church, the rest were women I talked to online that expressed interest. I have a lot of pen pals I guess and I prowl here and /soc/ pretty often looking for people to talk to.

>not a good choice
Yeah I know but I can't talk to normal people outside of work.

Is still summer? I guess I tied it too much to the world cup this year.

Haven't really felt the warm weather either, even when I did a small trip it wasn't as hot as I expected. What I have noticed though is the nights suddenly are a lot colder.

>>85274770
>He wasn't necessarily planned
Oof. Well, young mistakes I guess. I'm sure you know better now.
>Usually my age (mid 20s) or younger,
Oh yeah this is probably why. Most very young women aren't open to single dads.
Were any of them single moms?

>>85274831
>I'm sure you know better now.
I mean yeah. But hindsight doesn't really do much for me.

>>85274831
>Most very young women aren't open to single dads.
I've noticed. Which again, is fair. Still fucking sucks though.

>Were any of them single moms?
Weird enough I can't really find any. At least, not any with a roughly similar bodycount to me (1) or who don't have half-niglets.

>>85274860
It can help you not make the same mistake in the future.
>body count
Oof yeah, body count is going to be a tough one. Not only are very low body count women already rare, very few of them will want to help raise another woman's kid.
Maybe you'll find your unicorn, idk. But you're competing with a lot of other guys who have less baggage for those women with low counts. (Very low count is also more common in men than in women.)

>>85269819
Someone you feel comfortable enough to talk about your emotions with. No performative shit like the I'm lonely and sad schtick of r9k, no avoidant schtick like almost all parents.

>>85270512
Mine is when I told my sister something she did for me was ugly just out of spite. I don't know why so many times we use words as if it was sparring and fully expect the fight to continue so once it doesn't happen we get disarmed and get an everlasting emotional blow instead.

>>85274902
>can help you not make the same mistake in the future.
Quite frankly, I think I'm dying alone.

>Maybe you'll find your unicorn, idk. But you're competing with a lot of other guys who have less baggage for those women with low counts.
Yeah. I figure I am not quite charming and handsome enough (given that I look like a cro-magnon) to draw the kind of woman I want and I unfortunately have too much pride to settle for a used cumrag. So uh... fuck it. Maybe I can funnel my energy into my career (if I can ever break into it) and forget about women.

>>85270547
Same as when you don't vibe with someone, happens to everyone.

A lot of people in this place I feel are like me and don't feel a spark with anyone and it makes them feel out of place, like they don't belong, etc.

>>85270618
That shit doesn't matter at all once you get to like a person lol. And asians are just a shitty fad out of myths by their behavior and egirl culture, it will cycle out eventually.

>>85270777
This >>85270816 and you can also have outlines, is not hard. Things you want to know about another person, opinions you feel worth sharing, topical stuff worth a small window of chatting, whatever.

Once you become adept at filling those awkward silence with something that could lead to better talks, it gets a lot easier, mostly because we're social animals, so we enjoy it too and get the reward for it anyway

>>85274978
>used cumrag
I mean this attitude is gonna take out most women who'd otherwise be open-minded to you.
Also, super weird how much you wanna think of other men's cum from the past even if she's committed to you now.
To most people, a kid is way more baggage than a few extra "bodies" in the past.
To each their own though. It's your choice if you wanna filter yourself out of the pool.

>>85275004
>this attitude is gonna take out most women who'd otherwise be open-minded to you.
>Also, super weird how much you wanna think of other men's cum from the past even if she's committed to you now.
More than anything I'm worried about a partner's ability to pair bond. A mistake is forgivable. Even two or three.

If a woman has a bodycount in the double digits, I doubt very much that anything that happens between us is going to actually going to be special to her. And yes I hold that standard for men as well. It is a measurable fact that more previous sexual partners translates to a lower chance of the relationship working out, and a higher chance of being cheated on. There are numerous studies, anecdotal examples, and just flat common sense that can confirm this.

And yes, I would in fact rather be alone than be with some cunt who doesn't care about me or will cheat on me. I acknowledge I have baggage and that I fucked up, hence I don't really expect anything from women I meet.

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I've come to realize I simply cannot be the type of man women are attracted to.
I'm sorry for ever wasting your time.

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>>85275046
1. Your mistake brought another dependent human being into the world without planning for him.
2. Your mistake destroys pair bonding and increases divorce risk way more rhan an above average body count does.
I think you just haven't looked at the counters, because all the data for high body count is way worse with a previous kid from another partner. And you not having planned him is a massive red flag in itself...
But those with high body counts are more willing to looks past things like that since they aren't perfect themselves. You however... I think you just judge others' sins harsher than your own.
>inb4 harsh
Lmao, Mr. "Used Cumrag"

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I am recovering from a mystery ailment. Did not realize how much I would miss the gym. My endolphins are lacking.

Anyway pokopia is my new game of the month and it's been really cool. Put my Magikarp in the new water environment that was added so he's not pathetically flopping around town anymore.
>>85274132
I'm actually really original and cool, originally.

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>>85275095
>>85275046
>>85275146
And as for the newer stuff, if you're curious about that (since it did mention it), it still shows higher than average body count as less consistent of a predictor than previous kid from another person.

>>85270837
Men are finally surrendering to becoming metrosexuals that improve their looks and it's clearly still not enough, so reality has been pretty damning in that regard.

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>>85275194
>endolphins
I know what you meant but that was an even cuter typo than 'oven watch.' : )
Miss you; glad you're feeling better.

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>>85270069
Yeah, I just made the thread so I could post >>85269952. I've never even visited these threads otherwise.

To that anon, I do think your initial post in that other thread was kind of unnecessary and overly cold given the vulnerability of the messages you were responding to, and after I clarified that the other anon wasn't me, you probably should have just left it there rather than go for a follow-up insult with the "I wouldn't want to double dislike you" post. When I asked if I'd done something to upset you in the past, you didn't answer. It is pretty unfair to take the chance to vent your feelings a couple of times but not allow me the chance to express mine, and to say a couple of hurtful things but not allow me the opportunity for a follow-up conversation to understand where your drive-by snipes came from.

The community where this happened is one of the most malicious I've ever been a part of, and I've been stalked and harassed there on and off the site for about 8 years now. Obviously my behavior there is going to become twisted from its norm. It's kind of sad because there's many people there, yourself included, who I think I would have gotten along with outside the context of that sadistic, abusive hellhole just fine, and who think I'm a worse person than I actually am because they only saw me in an incredibly hostile environment. Generally speaking I really am easygoing and low-drama in most settings and am not really critical or mean towards others at all. Even if you can't trust me on that, ESFP-T always says she likes me because I was nice to her, and I've been friends with Lilac for several years now and her opinion of me is more generous than yours. You seem like an interesting person and it's really unfortunate that your impression of me is based upon me at my worst, in a very cruel and shitty environment that's hurt and distorted me and many, many other people. At least I got 12 affection points I guess, hope that's a decent amount.

How bad is your insecurity foids? Have you managed to fix it?

Foids, how do I get gf? I am very lonely.

>>85275267
Why are you posting your grievances here and not where it happened stinky moid

>>85275398
Because it's his thread, stupid foid. Go shower.

>>85275388
You get friends so their gfs introduce you to their female friends

>>85275388
You act like a retard enough until one of them falls for you

>>85275421
How is it his thread if you made the thread? Maybe double disliking you wasn't enough.

>>85275438
I stopped talking to my "friends" because they were bad people. I don't have friends anymore.

>>85275455
I just got here. I am not that anon. It's his thread because he made it. Take a shower.

>>85275469
>Yeah, I just made the thread so I could post >>85269952

>>85275495
Yeah, that's not me. I am a 3rd anon.

are there any foids on here from the midwest, I have to know...

Moidposters should just fuck off and die

>>85275267
biofem has no association with this mbti discord shit though, only one or two overlapping users

>>85275654
>Moidposters should just fuck off and die
Moidchan?

>>85275146
>Your mistake brought another dependent human being into the world without planning for him.
As I said, he wasn't specifically preplanned, but he wasn't an accident.

>Your mistake destroys pair bonding and increases divorce risk way more rhan an above average body count does.
1) Define "average"
2) How many studies here do you think control for body count with the introduction of a child from a previous relationship?
3) I have also admitted that I fucked up, that I have baggage, and that I'm probably not finding the relationship I desire. I can admit that, can (You)?

I get that I struck a nerve. Damn that sucks, maybe don't open your legs for every retard that looks at you sideways. Yes, everyone is going to judge you, as everyone is going to judge me, none of us are escaping it. Quit being a pussy about it.

>>85275703
Not preplanned = a mistake. It's fucked up to bring a kid into the world that you weren't intentional in planning about.
>How many studies here do you think control for body count with the introduction of a child from a previous relationship?
Now "controls controls controls" blah blah blah, when it comes to your thing, but not when it comes to others'? Funny, that.
Also, additional variables work both ways. You may only have one body, but you also have a lot of other things working against you.
Objectively an unplanned previous kid from another partner AND also a previous divorce AND and ongoing court battle with divorced baby mama is wayyyy more past and present baggage than having fucked more people in the past.

No kids, no STIs, no divorces. No I'm not perfect, but I've done way less wrong than you, and I'm statistically way less fucked on the divorce front.
And even then I would put up with most of those things, but now seeing your attitude, I definitely wouldn't....

Moids really don't like to give grace. At least this one accepts single moms, because it would be too obvious of hypocrisy I guess, but won't budge on things that are objectively far less harmful to rhe future relationship.

A lot of moids won't even accept their female equivalent though: tiktok.com/t/ZP8nAXtWx/

This is why us biofems are discerning and only accepting good men, not moids

>>85275703
>>85275897
Also, another thing to point out: a big reason your count is so low is because you stumbled into a poorly planned marriage as a teenager and popped out an unplanned kid not long into that. That was a way bigger gamble than fucking some people at university.

>>85275267
Yea, /mbti/ can be a terrible place; not that the rest of /r9k/ is a ton better.

>>85269780
>male born in 1991
Feels good to be part of the millennial master race. Not that I understand this bizarre neo-puritan outlook people have these days. Zoomers are simultaneously perverted as all fuck then act like old church ladies at the flip of a dime.

Also it should be males plural. At least put some effort into your misandry.

>>85275935
>This is why us biofems are discerning and only accepting good men, not moids.
Then why may I ask is social media saturated with women bitching about their boyfriends/baby daddies or worse situationships.

>>85276198
I meant us biofems here. Maybe I should've been clearer, but it is biofem general.
We've seen what happened to the facebook and tiktok ladies and want none of that.

>>85276274
Ah. I see, thanks for the clarification.

>>85269780
>What are you watching this summer?
disgusting short scrotes seething about how they can't get girlfriends.
maybe they'd have more luck if they stopped being angry short losers lol

>>85270220
it's also how they identify viable simp candidates

>>85270333
>partner
so are you a cop, a lawyer, or a lesbian?

>>85276354
>maybe they'd have more luck if they stopped being angry short losers lol
Unlikely, I'm a lanky melancholic scrote and I have no luck with women. Tbf might be my own fault, I'm picky... apparently.

>>85276378
What do you look for in a partner? And what do you look like other than lanky?

>>85276430
I don't really "look" for anything, I see plenty of women whilst out and about that I can identify as "pretty" but I feel nothing for them. I have gotten to the point in my life now where I have realised I do best when I intuit my way through things. I also have a feeling I may be some form of "demisexual" but the jury's out on that one.

>>85276531
So... Mainly it's about looks then? You're not selective on other qualities?

>>85276430
>>85276531
As for my appearance Im 6' 3" shoulder length wavy brown hair, chubby (still losing weight, was much fatter.) Sewer ghoul white. Limey.
I also believe I may come of as intimidating as I have been told I can have an air of aloofness.

>>85276562
What else could I go on, it's not as if I really talk to anyone. It's also not as if people walk around with the contents of their personality and interests tattooed on their foreheads.

>>85276366
Thinking women want simps is a male fantasy.

>>85276851
Most women just want to be left alone, but even that is too much to ask.

>>85276867
they would happily take the performative loneliness men harp about over the normalized harassment they get, that's pretty obvious.

>>85276577
>lanky
>chubby
Huh?

>>85276577
I think you're probably just a bad or unsocialized person. Those features are hot for 90% of girls. Maybe focus less on losing weight and more on joining a club or something.

>>85270082
Fuck, man. I don't want to be horny. My meds have killed my libido as far as getting randomly in the mood while I'm alone, but seeing anything remotely sexual gets me flustered now. But that sort of thing both ways is so hot.

Anyway. Any leads on a server for fembots? Like keywords to look up on disboard for a specific one? Could use some friends. But honestly I don't vibe with self-proclaimed femcel edge lords. I'm just awkward and autistic, not hateful and bitter.

>>85270359
>>85270397
The irony of you redditspacing is hilarious.

>>85275046
>>85274978
And the irony of you having a kid, but talking about "cumrags" and shit. lmao
I feel sorry for the little fella, but you are absolutely out of your element and should never have procreated.

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>What is your absolute favorite thing to do on a hot summer day?
stay inside or wait until it's really late and go to a movie theater
>Do you have any fun road trips or vacations planned for this summer?
yes but desu i'm about to cancel my original destination and go somewhere else
>What are you watching this summer?
anything that i want to, the last movie that i watched was evil ed. the next movie on my watchlist is wonderland (2003). the next movie that i actually have tickets to see in theaters is a reshowing of mysterious skin, which i've already seen, but whatever. something to do. also, i saw a marvel movie for the first time ever a few days ago, and i'm almost done with the sam raimi spiderman trilogy. just one more left to go.
>Have you been to any concerts or festivals this summer or planning to?
i went to the state fair and it was unbearably hot
>What is your favorite summer memory from when you were a kid?
i have a lot from my summer camp days, particularly this one field trip to six flags that was very... eventful
Favorite icecream?
for soft serve, vanilla. otherwise, pink bubblegum.