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>>85430330Are there that many furries in r9gay?
>>85430330cute expie
>>85430379going by r9gaynons i've added on discord, there's at least 4 of them. who knows if they all post here though.
I don't like furries I won't fuck furries I won't date furries I won't be friends with furries
>>85430403I've only added one so far. He's very friendly but lives half way across the world.
>>85430330I will never have this :D
>>85430424Me neither lol. I am a retarded skinny retard who will die alone.I will never get HIV because I'm so unlikeable that not even bug chasers want me.
>>85430416>lives halfway across the worldmany such cases!
>>85430439>>85430424>>85430416Have you tried adding people who aren't chad?
>>85430424>>85430439never say never, anons...
>>85430497Adding? Like discord? I've never even had an account. It'll never happen because I'm hopelessly antisocial. Fakecel, if you will.
>>85430497Furchad will be mine, no matter what
>>85430526it's not a lot of effort. may as well if you got nothing to lose, right?
>>85430538One of these days I'll finally break and go looking
Do you guys get annoyed when some decent looking guy is like "Waaah I gave up dating". Like, bitch, my khhv ass is here. Of course, they always get into a relationship like 2 weeks later lmfao
>>85430526Adding someone as a friend on any platform really but discord probably has more furfags then anywhere else
is there really no way to get past the fucking porn ban site face recognition faggotrynot giving those kikes my facenot giving those kikes my licensenot giving those kikes my money for a vpn
Need a bf to (re)watch breaking bad with
>>85430957Firefox has one built in
>tfw gallstones flare upI guess eating that taco bell last night plus fast food a few more times over the week triggered them. fat neet body is at least 20 years older than what I am.
>>85431353>SPHhot tb h
I want to hug an expie
>>85431752same they are tragic cuties
Am I the only one here who isn't a furfag? Not hating, I get it but like dam niqqa where tha twinx @???
>>85431798furfags can be twinx
Since there's plenty of furries in this thread today I can finally ask this. What exactly makes you one? I learned that wanting to fuck animals isn't it. Same with dysphoria because you feel like you were supposed to be an animal. So what left is there? Can I just be like I think ferrets are cool and cute and be like my fursona if I had one would be one and that's that I'd be a furry now?
>>85432314I just think anthropomorphized animals are hot. I'm not a zoo or otherkin (those that believe they are really an animal). Simple as that.
>>85432314>What exactly makes you one?for me I just like furry art/furry porn. desu if I had the income and my bf was more gungho about going to cons in a suit I'd get one too but other than that I'm content just enjoying the art.
>>85432314my understanding is that it's sort of like a mascot fetish. they want to become a character, so they're wearing a full-body costume to look like Tony the Tiger or whatever. i'm not me when i'm in the suit, it's Tony. i can let myself go. like thatmaybe it's dysphoria and that's why they all love VRchat too
>>85431798I'm not a furfag and I hate furfags
Anyone want to place bets on if I get fined or not? I think there's a decent chance of it. There's still several days worth of work to be done but now that the deadline is passed I'm not doing any more unless I outright gave to.
https://voca.ro/1kffqAawfV58
pizza night tonight. made my own sauce from scratch. it's in the oven at 450 for 15 minutes now. i'll update you how it went.
>>85432941what kind of crust do you make when you make pizza at home? Thicker or thinner?
>>85432951i like a thin crust. the middle of it gets a bit transparent when the dough is fully stretched. not a fan of super bready pizza. i poke holes with a fork so it doesn't bubble.
Here's a money shot, it's nice and hot
>>85433034I'd eat a slice. probably tons better than my frozen ones.
>>85433034nice 'zacould use some red onion
>>85432314>I loathe people to the point of finding faces a turnoff, furries aren't people and thus no face issue>Entirely fictional genre which means no hangups>Entirely fictional genre also means less-to-no physical flaws>Enormous variety of enjoyable porn compared to normal people smut, which is 90% interchangeable ooh ooh ah plap plap and 10% fetishes that are embarrassingly cringe to see real people dofurries have the upsides of people (nice bodies, intelligence) and none of the downsides (being a human being with an entire lifetime of connotations, many of which are negative)I'm not a delusional otherkin or therian or whatever they're calling themselves today, and I'm certainly not a dog rapist. I think for the most part it's either autism-derived people aversion or emotional-baggage-derived people aversion, or both.and RE: the borderline between just liking the porn or following the community or whatever, I think that distinction is entirely cosmetic. In my eyes, anyone with a greater-than-passing interest in anthro stuff is a furry, convention or suit or no. It's just not a lifestyle to everyone. You're a cyclist whether you're on your weekend 3-mile cardio podcast tour or one of those obnoxious faggots who bikes slow in car lanes 5 days a week, the former just claim to not be cyclists to avoid the blowback from the more invested and therefore annoying latter.
Robot bubble butts
found a big spider in my room and transported him safely outside
boyfriends more upset that the guy hes oogling at work is in jail than he is that i want to kill myself.what game should i play? cs, stalker anomaly, or postal 1/redux? might also just take some sleeping meds (not in a weird selfharmy sort of way) and go to bed for the night.
i covered my feet in vaseline and now i can slide everywhere faster i am a genius
>>85434174hang on I know this one it's a recipe for broken ankle 1am ambulance
A very good morning to all the brown boys.
>hurr durr boys don't cry you sissy ohh fuck you, I love crybabies. It's sweet when a guy wears his heart on his sleeve and allows himself to feel fearlessly. I want to protect him and then cry together with him so we can kiss our wet, salty emotional faces all over and then laugh about something with tears still in our eyes
Agreed. Crying top bf? NEED.
>>85430501beastars mentionedzased zased zased
>>85434951Do pale hispanics count? >>85433722This is brutal. I don't think I have the emotional control to have a bf. I get jealous extremely easily.
>>85435324Pale Hispanics count 35% but they must walk baferoot outside for at least one hour every day.
>>85435075Its one thing to cry when the situation is extreme, its another to whine and start the waterworks over every little thing that goes wrong and is often a tool of manipulation. woman coded behavior.
>>85435324>pale hispanicsSEXO
what about pale pasty white boys? (or as white as any mutt gets)
>>85435879Do youu like femboys?
>>85436184They're cute, sure but from what I've seen they're very catty and picky.
for many years, i could neither laugh nor cry. it wasn't very pleasant. i'm still not the healthiest person emotionally, but now i laugh and weep with joy. i cry at beauty. i feel the light of god touch my heart and the tears fall. of course, it's not always joyful. sometimes it's grief or mourning. it's always colorful, though. even black and blue is better than another grey year.
>>85435324i get jealous as well, but he makes it clear that im the bottom of the barrel for him constantly. i need to break up with him bc he straight up does not care.i think just being alone would be better, since im already alone most of the time.
>>85436929Wow that sucks hard. I think that might be a worse fate than gayceldom. Is there anything preventing you from breaking up?
>>85437059he occasionally helps with groceries, because my entire wage goes towards rent. i dont qualify for food stamps or any of that govvie help/neetbux shit, unfortunately. id rather just go without atp
>>85437113Go to a food pantry, you can get some staples for free. I know it sucks but anything is better than that.
>>85437157have to sign up for that where i live and go through a background checking process. i dont qualify.
>>85437160No church or charity run ones?
>>85437162there used to be, but churches stopped helping out as much unless because people were taking advantage. """perks""" of living in a big city
>>85437160>can't afford anything more than rent>i dont qualify.damn bro are you sure? unless you own property I don't see how you wouldn't qualify
better to starve alone than to dine with wolves
>>85437719your hungry ass wouldn't be saying that if you were rankling for a bite to eat
>>85437727it's a metaphor
>>85437750yes and you were supposed to take my response metaphorically
>>85437755keep justifying your poor relationship decisions then (non-metaphorically)
>>85437769cage a bad bf until he's pliant and domesticated and then only release him from his cage when he's good (metaphorically(non-metaphorically))
shit like this is why i don't post here anymore
>>85437969fake gay spotted
>>85437673yeh, im sure. its because i have a job and im not physically disabled. theres just too many people who need help here. it is what it is.>>85437769if that was meant to me, none of those replies are from me
I need advice. Let's say hypothetically you e-dated someone for a few months and then broke off, but nothing really happened, no visits, no nudes, etc. But you got really strong feelings for him. Would you leave the server they're active in so you don't have to see him ever again, because every time you do, it stings hard?Asking for a friend, of course.
gonna move gaming night to tomorrow, I think more people will be down for a friday night. Download Sven Co-Op, sorry for being so sleepy.
>>85438510i would leave, yeah. no point in putting yourself through that
i thought this was an incel thread not a relationship drama thread
>>85438531So I wasn't going crazy in considering leaving? >>85438564Getting into fake e-ships is prime incel bs because I can't date irl. No need to show face or body.
>>85438588nop. ive cut ties with entire friend groups over exes before, irl and online. a random server youre in with him in it has a super low risk attachd to it compared to whole ass friend groups, but id still do it.
>>85438600I always thought people who did this were overdramatic, but being in their shoes, I completely get it. I just don't want any reminder of him and seeing him having fun with other people.
Miauw
Back to cooking, skillet pasta meal time. Hope I don't get fined for the yard but there's a good chance I do.
>>85438743your funds are dwindling and so is your lease on life lol. keep it in the back of your mind you retarded subhuman
>>85438687i wouldnt say its overdramatic, unless youre like. pinging everyone in the server and being like "HEY, ME AND <dude> BROKE UP!!!!! GOODBYE!!!"that would be overdramatic lol>don't want any reminder of him and seeing him having fun with other peoplethis is exactly why i cut ties with certain people in the past.>>85438769why are you being so mean? isnt this the anon who has the brush pile in his yard from cleaning up?
>>85438769Yeah they're not gone yet though. I still have a few years left.
I ain't scared of your brotherI ain't scared of no sheetsI ain't scared of nobodyGo when the going gets mean!
>>85438743don't you ever get tired of always eating the same stuff boy? Or are you a picky routine eater? I'd cook something different for you if we lived nearby
Feeling really bad about rejecting the lewds from that underage guy last time, he was horny and no one would ever know, I'm such a fucking retard, "always trying to do the right thing" is the reason why I am a loser.
>>85439650don't be sad, it probably would have ended in disaster anyway
>>85439650Dude, you did not want that. Trust me. You're desperate, I get it, but incriminating yourself with CP is never going to be an answer. Future you is going to be so fucking glad you didn't do that.
any black gays or gays with black bfs here? have any of you developed a good black gaydar?
>>85439650bruh you can get your life ruined just by pissing in an alleyway and getting labeled as a sex offender, you really want to gamble with cp? to jerk off for a couple minutes?
got a job as a tutor. he'll yea
>>85440030hope it's an enjoyable thing anon
>>85439650until he got pissed off at you for something or other and then reported you, or his family found out. It's bad enough you were even talking to a minor online, much less even mentioning lewds. Shit is a one way ticket to prison, and not in anyway worth it.
>>85432314for a while i just liked the art. then i liked the art and the porn. and the stories, and the worldbuilding of these stories, and etc. i was always into pokemon so that pushed me into it a lot more. i've always generally disliked the 'community' or whatever it is, though. but, eventually, that grew into a general dislike and then hatred of just about everything physically human. i truly can't stand looking at human faces and i don't like talking to people face to face if i can at all avoid it. and, i spend a lot of my time imagining myself as a nice fluffy creature instead. sometimes anthro, generally prefer feral though. i wouldn't really consider myself 'therian' or 'otherkin' or what have you, i still know i'm a human, i just like to pretend i'm not as often as possible. it makes things a little more bearable. by the other replies i dont think there's much overlap between the hate being a human and would rather be furry thing in here, but if there is anyone like that it'd be neat to know.i realize this isn't really a good reply to your post and it's just a personal tangent but
>>85440340what's your opinion on human penises
>>85440366i dont like them when an animal penis would look better in their place, which would be most ferals and most anthros. there are some times when it's acceptable or it can look fine if done right, but i try to avoid it generally. and maybe it goes without saying but i dont look at human porn that much anymore, and in art i much prefer it not include humans.
>>85440412Fav animal dick? I like horse with feline a close second, canine and knotted penises are too mainstream.
>>85440412that's fair. you just remind me of another poster from another general who has a hate for being human and much prefers imagining himself as a feral, but his hatred for anything human including their penises is downright militant so it's evidently not you
>>85440423call me boring but i don't think there's an equal to a proper canine penis. the sheath alone is wonderful, and i think a knot on a reasonable length is more interesting and fun than just being long and uniform, which is mostly what a horse dick is. cetacean-like penises would probably be 2nd, then horse. hemipenis in the lizard way probably after that. i dont hate feline dicks but there's just something about em that puts me off a little.
>>85440475Maybe I'm just partial to my cartoon equines which were my gateway into furry porn, also dat flare. and I love all things cat.
>>85440505don't get me wrong i love those cartoon equines and their cocks too, i just think you're a tad more limited in what you can do with a horse cock than a knot. still nice to think about from time to time though, for me it's their sizable balls and massive loads more than anything. and my favorites are canines, so there's a bias there as well. i'm sure if i was into cats more i'd find some more love for their ribbed bits like you do.
>>85440434and what would you have done if that was that poster?
>>85440661not been surprised as people have told him to go to r9gay for his rhetoric before and how it aligns more with this general
>>85433722well. i did it. i sent the text saying its over. hes not even looking at his phone. bastards playing deadlock rn. whatever. i cant sit in the metaphorical cuckchair forever. tired of being treated as a side option rather than a main option.
>>85441666good job anon. however much it sucks next, you know this is for the best and you can do better. good luck
>>85441715i dont want to do better. i want to be appreciated for me, my body, my personality. i want someone to give a shit about me. but im starting to realize thanks to this and doing some introspection on my entire life that noone will ever care or fight for me. not my parents, not people ive been dating for 7 years, noone. i will either die alone or surrounded by fake smiles. and that hurts almost more than the breakup.
I got drunky again. I'm a bad drunky boyfriend
>>85441735the "better" would be someone who values you for your qualities and fights for you. it has to exist out there, as how would we know of it conceptually otherwise? It's a 7 year relationship you got yourself out of (I assume), and the dude sounded like absolute trash. That is not a relationship to conclude you'll never find someone worth it; it means your ex was hot trash and you now have a much better idea on what *not* to put up with for if you put yourself out there again. If you can't consider the idea rn, that's fine. it might sound a bit eyerolling, but you should be focusing on yourself and processing things (if needed) being back to a single status
>>85441861>how would we know of it conceptually otherwise? the idea of fiction based on "a better, alternate world" is not a new concept at all. theres nothing stopping it from being pure fantasy, like most other things. this isnt to down on other people, of course, everyones entitled to their own life. but theres a common denominator that i dont quite understand.me.as i mentioned, not even my own parents cared. i was brought up with lies and later on, physical and mental abuse. the real kind. not the "they were mean to me ONCE!". everyday was a nightmare until i got out of there. sure, fine, thats abuse, it happens. but to go from being beaten and mistreated to immediately having several relationships that failed? i dont think its a matter of "does love exist?", its a matter of "whats wrong with me that im not seen as human?"im well kept and fairly well groomed, i try not to be hateful or rude. i struggle with tones (monotone, have trouble expressing different emotions through my voice), and i am overweight (working on it by eating less and doing more). but if im so horrid fundamentally, down to my DNA that not even my own kin care for me, there is zero (0) chance that a random person would. thats just how it is. people will lie to your face and sy it isnt, but it absolutely works like that.
>>85441901>thats abuse, it happensIt can fuck us up pretty badly and warp our self perception, such as you thinking it's solely on you that these relationships have gone awry and your own family screwed you over. getting into the particular relationships you got in may have been a mistake, but not because you're a bad person. rather, it could just be they weren't as compatible with you as you'd thought or they had their own issues that made a relationship a bad idea that perhaps you didn't see or thought would work out, ignoring red flags. i don't know, obviously. i'm just saying there's more hopeful possible answers than a cosmic evil being put on you.
>>85441967>a cosmic evil being put on youi dont think its anything so dramatic, by any means. theres no heavenly force or angel or eldritch monstrosity or conspiracy thats like "YEAH, FUCK UP THIS RANDOM DUDE FROM TEXAS!!!" lol. itd be pretty funny if it were though.>they weren't as compatible with you as you'd thought or they had their own issues that made a relationship a bad idea yes, this is plausible, but its just strange that its happened the few times ive been in a relation. not because im some mastermind who can root out bad people, but because the relationships typically started out okay. normal, even. i didnt see any red flags at the time, though i couldve just been dumber than fuck. i think it boils down more to the honeymoon phase wearing off and me being stupid and naive when it comes to people. most other people understand that you cant trust people, and im having this grand revelation half way through my life. >It can fuck us up pretty badly and warp our self perceptionyeah, but i dont know if thats super...relevant is the word. maybe it is. im not a psychologist, i just know that it happened and i have to live with it.
>>85441994meant to type "relevent, i think is the word" instead of "relevant is the word". oops.
>>85441994>most other people understand that you cant trust peoplebut your partners are someone you *should* trust. that's part of the romantic contract, as informal as it is. true the post-honeymoon phase is where a relationship's mettle really gets tested, and I don't think it's wrong that after that point the relationships failed: most relationships fail. it doesn't have to be a grand statement about your self worth, just that there was some irreconcilability that necessitated the relationship ending. and yes, even so multiple times. I suppose you could be more hesitant about dating people, but I wouldn't worry too much about it if you're ready to cut the brakes now and not stand for as much bullshit. >but i dont know if thats super...relevantfair. I guess I just feel developmental trauma can usually be a good source if you're ever wondering why you're presenting with any maladaptive behaviors like attachment issues or self worth problems (not saying you necessarily are, but just to say).
>go on grindr>AI ads of hot guys kissing foids>ads of people making memory books and they have 10 full books over 3 years of memories on travels with their loved oneHaha... haha.... this is what normies get as easy as oxygen to breathe and I don't...
Sister of nightWith the loneliest eyesTell yourself it's alrightHe'll make such a perfect prizeBut the cold light of dayWill give the game awayOh, sister, come for meEmbrace me, assure meHey sister, I feel it tooSweet sister, just feel meI'm trembling, you heal meHey sister, I feel it too
Lonely Im mr lonely i have nobody to call my own oooooooh
The lady in redIs dancing with me
remembering the time i quit pizza hut and told my manager it was my last shift and he's like 'ok, want me to go down on you?' and i was like 'uhhhh no thank you'. i hate my life.
>>85442355dafuq, is that standard pizza hut procedure?
>>85442366He outpizza'd the hut
>>85442366possibly but i was caught off guard, he just blurted it out without a hint of prior flirting. i feel like he probably lurks here
>>85442400was he cute at least? (origino)
I'd work at pizza hut if a twink manager sucked my pp desuI'm naked with my hairy twink armpits out right now.
>>85442499Post pits
I promised my friend I will try to get better, it won't be easy at all, I hope I have the strength, I wish to be better, just a little bit, I'm so scared about the future, I don't want to let him down, I would hate to let him down, I hope I will be strong enough, I need a hug so bad.