>Overhear parents talking>"What are we gonna do about anon? He doesn't have a single friend, he barely leaves his room, and he's never brought a girl home. When is he gonna grow up?">"That's not his fault, you know he's different!"
They're right. Why are you so depressed about it?
>>85432887so, when are you going to grow up, anon?
>>85432887Become a lolcow. That's the closest you'll come to amounting to something.
>>85432887it's good for your parents not to be impatient but it's bad for them to see it as a permanent condition, you just didn't have a normal childhood and never learned to feel love from the universe or to be yourself and get into trouble. you need to feel unconditional love, in whatever small degree, from something you can push back against and leave yourself exposed. and you need to be mentored by something; it doesn't have to be a person, it can be something you've internalized but couldn't manage to feel as a friendly and accepting force. embrace noise and resonance and you won't be imprisoned by rules, you have to bring yourself into the world and the rules will shift around you. and you have to value all of your relationships and not take them for granted, but be willing to break them open when they're dishonest--this can be done in a way that shoulders your side of the burden fairly and makes the other person more invested.
>>85433082>you need to feel unconditional loveridiculous nonsense.zero people are loved unconditionally, anon. even less than zero boys.yet somehow the vast majority don't end up retarded.it's getting tiresome to keep making excuses for failure and never, EVER, blame the individual. it's a very foidbrained thought pattern, lowkey.
>>85432931There is one other thing.
>>85433131but they are, just very very modestly. it's called metta and it's more common than you think. but religions also attribute unconditional love to the divine, or at least the possibility of it if you find something in you that's willing to play the part given you by fate.
>>85433131Not OP and NTA but honestly I'm friendless and gfless and all I want is to be unconditionally loved by an onee-san.
>>85432887>>"That's not his fault, you know he's different!"At least they are understanding. Every parent hopes their child comes out "normal" and many don't know what to do when you aren't. You should at least get a job if you don't have one so you don't end up like old Louie.https://youtu.be/H2dm4_cIxFQ
>>85433172Yeah a lot of normies raise their children as if they were normies.
>>85433082Not op but I have felt muh love and I'm still a loser who's no fun to be around.
>>85432887What exactly would you like them to feel OP? Amger at you? Anyways how old are you, what's your situation, do you work? Regardless its not too late to turn your life around but if you want you parents to feel pride instead of pity you're gonna need to change something.
>>85433131>it's getting tiresome to keep making excuses for failure and never, EVER, blame the individual.nobody WANTS to failthey're not excuses they're explanationsI can't help but wonder why does it bother you so much when other people get empathy? Is it jealousy?
>>85433172>Every parent hopes their child comes out "normal" and many don't know what to do when you aren't.I've noticed that a lot of lolcows are autists who grew up with parents who didn't know how to raise a child with autism. Chris Chan is the most obvious example
>>85433131foid hands wrote this99.999% of people act within predictable bounds and under this, their parents effectively give them unconditional lovethe 0.001% are just unlucky, i guess
>>85432887My parents are just relieved I haven't killed myself yet so they don't really care.
>>85432887The concerns changes dramatically on how old OP is.This is a troll thread though
