How do I stop being a NEET and make some friends? I've been getting a little too comfortable with the NEET life...
I love being a neet. Being a neet is being free from other people and labor.
>>85721626If I had infinite cash, yeah, it'd be great, but I don't.I can imagine if I were a multimillionaire. I wouldn't be like those people who thirst for more. I'd buy a nice house and then stay inside all day.
I'm going through the same thing. There's a physical component, and a mental. You need to put yourself into the world again. Job, volunteer, Church, anything that gives a reason to be outside.
>>85721632 same.At the end of the day,you either do something or you don't. If you want friends or family or to be good at something in general you're going to have to do everything but be lazy. You're going to have to study philosophy,math,languages,art,humor etc.Idk. I choose lazypath since hard work didn't work for me and it probably didn't for you thats why most neets are created.Accept the void. This is what peace looks like.
>>85721640It's like a self fulfilling cycle isn't it? If you don't go outside then your mental health suffers and you continue to not want to go outside, and vice versa.I always feel like I'm waiting for the lucky day where my brain feels functional enough to actually try going outside, and then that will set everything in motion. But basing it all on luck isn't a great idea, is it.>>85721651I am lazy. I never tried hard enough for anything to work out for me. Can't blame anything but myself and my disposition.But you're right. I keep seeing people who are good at things, and I start daydreaming about how I can be like them, but every time I realize that it's going to take a lot of hard work and effort that I oftentimes don't feel like I have the motivation or energy to give.
>>85721670For my part, we had a bunch of stuff go wrong at the house and I'm needing a job to help pay for it, so it was kind of thrust onto me. But I'm still kind of a neet because it's just being payed for helping family with part time jobs. Today I'm helping fix a business sign, for instance. It doesn't give me any connections, friends, or potential for love interests, but it gets me into the world and shows brain it's not AS bad as it fears.It's probably better to venture forth on your own terms than to have them forced upon you.
>>85721670Start with just doing the thing because it itself is enjoyable. Art may suck at first, but the activity can be enjoyable.
>>85721746>It's probably better to venture forth on your own terms than to have them forced upon you.Yeah, I don't like being forced to do things for sure. Still it feels like sometimes that's the only way I get things done.>>85721751>Start with just doing the thing because it itself is enjoyable.I do have things I find enjoyable but it's a bit more complicated than that. It's like my subconscious rejects my conscious urges to do enjoyable hobbies and instead decides to waste time on low-quality internet content like an addict. Time management is an issue for sure, I often make bad choices with my time and wonder where all the time went. News flash, there's only a limited amount of time in a day and if you waste it, it's gone.But yes if I had better control over my faculties I wouldn't be wasting my time on useless things.
>>85721923Forgot le image...But yeah wasting time includes going on this board, I could definitely be doing something else right now.
>>85721923Sometimes you have to simply force it until it becomes a habit. No one just starts bathing randomly, they either are forced into it from infancy with parents bathing you, or you realize at some point you need to do it because you're dirty / smelly / etc. Infancy path here is the normalfags, "they've always bathed lol you weirdo". Forcing yourself is the NEET path. You just have to make a plan and do it.
>>85721611>How do I stop being a NEETGet a job or go back to school. If you get diagnosed with some mental illness you can sign up for a government program that will help you find a job.>make some friendsFriends don't exist past school age, anon.
any ex NEETs feel like its extremely hard to readjust your brain to actually having responsibilities and your schedule being mostly predetermined? when you're NEET for a long time you really just learn to make do with what you got and limit your desires to not require much of anything to be comfortable. now i have money to actually do stuff and dont have to awkwardly tell people some bullshit when they ask what i do, but im not really any happier because of it. i still do the same stuff as i always did, i dont spent any money and i have little motivation to do anything
Day 50 of bed rotting: I will be a NEET forever.
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>>85722051I ended up getting a job with very few responsibilities so my switch into employment wasn't that difficult. I'm more or less allowed to be by myself and listen to music for most of the day at work. Making small talk with my coworkers is probably the hardest part because I'm autistic and retarded. Questions like "so what did you do before this, anon?" are brvvtal. I still live with my parents so the money is just an abstract number that goes up in my bank account. I don't really use it for anything other than paying for gas, food, car insurance, and car repairs. No real goals in mind with being employed. I'm just doing it because it makes my parents feel better about my situation. Another thing is that it's hard for me to shake the scarcity mentality that you develop when you're a NEET. I always feel like I could lose my job at any second and go right back to being a NEET. I wouldn't be able to find another job if I lost the one I have. I constantly worry about being laid off or getting fired because I wasn't a good "culture fit" or a good "team player."
>>85722117Have you ever applied to the janitor role? I doubt you wouldn't, judging from how you try to moderate this board. Lets at least suppose you did apply. Why would you keep posting these kind of replies if you were a janny and could just delete or flag the post? Which means that if you did apply, you were rejected. And if that's the case, you probably aren't fit to moderate this board. So please stop being such a faggot and stop trying to act like a janny ffs.
>>85721611Don't I know this poster from my neet daysdunno sorries
Mioposter thinks too much about the same stuff over and over. There won't be a magical perfect thread to solve the MQ (Mio Question) ever.
>>85722578can you ask your hedgefonds manager mom alreadysilver declining this much makes me anxiousalso dont bully OP
>>85722601I can't even repeat what my mom said once I accidentally mentioned your ethnic origins. Sorry. Gotta be in the tribe.
>wow forever down >give counters strike 2 a chance>>85722629So you did tell your mom about your online bf
>>85722746Get me the og Meiwes tapes and we may talk.
>>85722843These things won't become public like over in the usWe could watch the ted bundy tapes while eating some mcdonalds together uwu
Brokie sneed is lowkey not qt. My mother who worked hard from her humble soviet communist slavcel beginnings doesn't deserve to hear about some Prince of Persia sneeding he inherited millions instead of billions.
>>85722249yeah that about sums it up for me too
Her greatest treasure in Soviet times was a humble tea set that would probs be worth pennies to any Westerner.>>85722897>Ted BundyBoring. Are you one of those foids who are into that stuff?
>>85722903Sis your mom moved several millions out of soviet pension funds into her own privat account in norway during the collapse I didn't inherit anything??>>85722928im not a foidur the gf, not meIm developing working handsalso I riked him until I found out he was sexually motivated I thought it was about the huntbut no all of these serial killers are s*xual weirdosWatch Mindhunter with meeits pure kino>https://youtu.be/O_DUa_Csq9Y?is=mV6PUhT3xZDEE0y1
>>85722971>Sis your mom moved several millions out of soviet pension funds into her own privat account in norway during the collapse??? That'snot how it works. When the union collapsed, they would give you tickets for land/industry redistribution. Some ppl would buy up those tickets from those who didn't see their worth or were desperate. That's how privatization was done. Nothing to do with moving wealth to the west. That doesn't really accomplish much. >I didn't inherit anything??You inherited the attitude and greed at least.>Watch Mindhunter with meeToo mainstream. The only good serial killer is an annoynymous one.
The main reason am in the degenerate west is that my parents hate each other. My granny would be here too if she didn't absolutely refuse to abandon her garden. Sum Russians recently attacked Latvia, so it's only gonna get worse and hopefully she changes her mind before drones start bombing her haus.
*Iranian drones I must mention.
>>85723000anyway go wear your cute skirt and finding something 2watchcause im gonna get some mcdonalds soon
>>85723033Yes, you're very strong. You'd crush my hands in a beat, I geddit. Good for you.
try connecting more with your parents or whoever else is providing for you. ask them about their lives. I guarantee that you are among their top concerns. Every day they come back from work and see you sitting around. That will fuck anyone up. You are hurting people, people who probably care about you, and if you actually interacted with them then you will be forced to confront the pain you cause and it will motivate you.
>>85723049I meant more like lets get comfy and eat together u baka
>>85723090https://www.youtube.com/shorts/_MYiZVd6lg0Yeh.
>https://youtu.be/TmgAK5JjcDM?is=twIQ-iTP0T4fkVrD>games being reverse engineered >funny crossovers are possible now>autistic people are probably cheering >adobe photoshop was reverse engineered for a free open source modelbank systems being reverse engineered worries memuh stocks
>>85723143are u implying thats gonne be u when you come over for dinner
>take my melatonin>take my megnesiumMaybe my braindeath will be cured soon. Desu feel dementia set in after decades of insomnia.>>85723220I guess? I'm a pretty generic whyteboi.
>>85723230you know you should stop drinking so many monster energy drinksI try to limit my coffee consumption >need to take my antibiotics I hope my balls will stop to hurt soonI cant even fap nowTHE HORROR
>>85723230>took a showerdid u fall asleep already
>>85723230 are you trans or just a fag? Posting anime girl pics means you wish you were the girl
>>85723444he is MY gfback off
>>85723488 what would you do if you had tits?
>>85721611Never stop being a neet. neet forever
>>85723638?????Lose some weight so they would disappear
>>85723230Well its too late and I need to zzz tooSleep well :)
>how do i make friends as working adultlol. lmao even
