I just had a nightmare where I was hanging with the cool kids and one of them asked me to give him his number, but then he typed the last digit wrong and deleted everything, then I asked him "Oh so you don't actually want my number?" and then he said "I'm. worth more than you".Then I woke up.I think this is because I've been getting ghosted so many times recently, by mstly women, but also by men. :(
>>12665341sorry that happened to u :(
>>12665344Congrats on your dubsOp im not sure whats going on in your world but you will grow
>>12665344Thanks man. The good thing is, I just realized that I equate rejection with me having low value. Which is not true, because it's only the other person's perceived value. One's trash is another one's gold, or so they say. Not implying I'm trash, but they do look at me that way. Else they wouldn't be ghosting me!! >>12665350>but you will grow I hope I will, thank you fren :3
>>12665386LET US!
>>12665384They ghost you because there is zero investment there. It's not that you have no value but it's like having a option on gold you never buy, or setting up multiple reservations with no consequences for missing them.
>>12665395It's still perceived value though. If someone doesn't want to buy the gold or won't attend a reservation, they don't see it as worth their time and effort. Yes, it still has value, but not to them.Does that make sense?
